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Should we have play only parties ?
March 22 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Back when Kj and I used to swing, (before we became so time deprived) we always went along with the intention, that we wanted to play first meet, if other couples insisted on the "lets be friends first thing" then we pass! We want the sex, we don't want to marry or need to be friends with the other party.Naturally there are the times when those involved don't hit it off for whatever reason...and that's fine and an acceptable outcome.So yes I reckon there are lots of couples like us who would go for that....albeit they will be mostly the experienced couples, who know how to play the game and thats fine by us.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
not for the unsure first timer? (i.e. me) I'm not sure 'you have to play' would ever sound right, but i've heard of some where you wouldn't be invited if you weren't a player. xx Sarah.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We want to see people having fun and it is hard sometimes to get a party going, especially if everyone is fully clothed. We have know adopted the dress code that when people walk through the door, they start stripping down to some sexy underwear. this is the only thing that we request, so everyone is rather equal and it makes things easier to break down the barriers lolAt our parties, we don't pressure anyone to play, that is totally up to the individual. Obviously we would prefer to see as many naked arse in the air as possible lol but some people just come to our parties to mingle and meet others that they maybe compatible with and socialise.Check out our partiesDD x
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RHP User
15 years ago
While we are at it are we going to finally put the "no bisexual male play" puppy to bed ? I dont get it why is girl on girl ok but boy on boy ......... not ? Brae ....just asking
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RHP User
15 years ago
We will go with the intention to play, why else would you go to a swingers party? These parties the host sets the rules on male bi play, so its the hosts decision and the guests have the choice to attend or not. How else would it work? We believe different parties cater for both types its up to you to ask the host. There will be a party group in your area Brae if you are looking for Bi male play allowed. We also have attended the odd meet and greet BBQ party playing optional, the purpose was for the group to expand their regular couples by having a night where you could see how you fitted into that group. Couple to Couple, We all decide prior if we are meeting to play like Carlos said, we are meeting to play not get married. But we will also do the" Lets make friends first " coffee club types which normally goes no where! Hey Krissy....Hot photo we definately approve!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have a "no pressure" clause,especially for single guys lol and you can come dressed as you wish and of course once here you can do more or les what you wish,we dont think it is our place to insist on everyone playing either all together or seperately or insist that females can play together but males cant.Our rooms are lockable so people can do whatever they wish in privacy if they wish to or they can leave the doors open to be watched and if it is male to male playing well obviously it isnt for everyone so you may not get anyone watching but it is personal choice as far as we are comcerned. bothtogether6
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am still to go to one of there parties..i do know if and when i do..i wont be keeping my clothes on..
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think people should have to play. Some people are pretty curious.. and others love to watch.... maybe if they like what goes on, they might be enticed to join in... Mind you... recently this one guy decided to join in... he was really getting involved in wanking and playing with my friends boobies (and no surprises there.. wow... what a set they are!!).. soon enough (possibly too soon really) he announced that he was going to cum on her tits.... so I moved my hand into the way to block his ejaculation.. I mean to say... I had my own plans for those ta-tas... lolz.... and he complained .... as if I might actually "touch" him.... so I told him fairly in the circumstances to piss off, you know.... straight homophobic guys really put a damper on sexy mood.... I wonder wtf was he doing there anyway? Seriously... lmfao... the venue itself is no place for straight dudes.. lolz... So he yelped about how he was nearly ready to cum... walking away.. holding his dick... all dissapointed like.... So I think.... either you play... or you watch. None of this half and half business. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Have a 3 room policy. I know which room Ill be in. I'm in whatever room you're in... I don't care for labels so I'll work that out when I get there. ;pHUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' ........ he announced that he was going to cum on her tits.... so I moved my hand into the way to block his ejaculation.. None of this half and half business. :pHugsStalky Ooh err what a gentleman you are Stalky - putting yourself in the line of fire like that. What an interesting life you lead!!!But I agree with the half half business. I find it off putting that some men tend to lurk around fully clothed just watching - its creepy. I whole heartedly agree with devious devils you should at least strip down to something saucy if you are at a play only event/party. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think the boy on boy play is usually a no no because alot of straight men don't feel comfortable with it.Wouldn't you agree with that Brae? I mean why else would it not be the accepted norm. xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Capital' 'NO wall flowers' is the term used there, or, if you refuse an offer more than once, you are not seriously there to playWhat do you mean if you refuse an offer more than once your not serious about play????? I don't know about other girls but if I don't feel some connection or chemistry with someone I am just not interested in play and maybe I am far to picky but I am sure I could walk into a room with 100 men and not want to play with any of them. To be honest I usually need some mental connection at least with some of the participants otherwise I am not really into it. And why bother?I am sure most women would refuse more than once in any given "party" situation. Surely? xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Capital' 'NO wall flowers' is the term used there, or, if you refuse an offer more than once, you are not seriously there to play What do you mean if you refuse an offer more than once your not serious about play????? I don't know about other girls but if I don't feel some connection or chemistry with someone I am just not interested in play and maybe I am far to picky but I am sure I could walk into a room with 100 men and not want to play with any of them. To be honest I usually need some mental connection at least with some of the participants otherwise I am not really into it. And why bother?I am sure most women would refuse more than once in any given "party" situation. Surely? xxMeeks ok .. i am with Meeka on this one No pressure should mean no pressure just cause u refuse 2 or 13 requests does not mean u are not there to play It could just mean u are not feeling well or that noone ha struck your fancy I mean, as soon as we enter the door do all teh guys turn into purely walking cocks and the women tits mouth pussy and ass? No WAY Free choice is free choice and sometimes it means saying no even when it would be easy to say yes to maintain the status quo Cola XOXO
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Capital''NO wall flowers' is the term used there, or, if you refuse an offer more than once, you are not seriously there to play and they prefer you leave till such time you are ready to participate, most places of course dont enforce play, parties where all who attend usually are a tight knit group are the parties where you are expected to play even if you are new and attending for the first time, do your research swingers, know what you want and what you dont want, and what you might want LOL Thats not right.Anyone should have the right of refusal at anytime. I have been to parties where i wasnt attracted to most of the women there, and would refuse if asked.And im sure its been the other way too. I havnt heard of anyparties that have such rules, but their are players only parties, where it is expected that you play or leave, no spectators. These are usually clearly marked on the event info. Maxy..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Too right Meeka. Believe it or not, there are people even I am not attracted to. I'm not going to have the ability to root someone who does nothing for me, you know? The dick knows what it likes and us guys cannot do anything but listen! I think the point is that wall flowers can make lovers feel uncomfortable. Not everyone is an exhibitionist like you. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh having re-read Capitals comment I see what he means & I agree as some Wallflowers can be creepy. By the way, Stalky are you saying I am an exhibitionist? Becuase I am definitely not an exhibitionist - I just block those other people out. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Once you go to a party and dont want to play because everyone is too ugly for you. Best course of action is to leave and dont go back, unless the host specified its a, A swingers party with playing optional.....dah!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi guys.. there are a few parties around where "play" is kinda mandatory .. no-one can be forced to do it but if you go along, and their policy is stated upfront then I guess you have made your choice by attending?They really aren't our thing .. but we know of a couple of these sorts of parties that are on regularly - one at least in Sydney! Want the number lol?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh I completely agree Romancefor4 I mean beating all those fugly people off with a stick makes this little girls arms weary weary sore. :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh I completely agree Romancefor4 I mean beating all those fugly people off with a stick makes this little girls arms weary weary sore. :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Capital I wasn't personally directing that at you, just that I was surprised at the comment if you refuse more than once you are not a serious player. But I re-read your comment and realised that I misunderstood what you were saying. In no way did I think you were saying that as your personal veiw. So Brae - maybe you could have parties with play only areas. That would be the best solution.xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Hi Capital I wasn't personally directing that at you, just that I was surprised at the comment if you refuse more than once you are not a serious player. But I re-read your comment and realised that I misunderstood what you were saying. In no way did I think you were saying that as your personal veiw. So Brae - maybe you could have parties with play only areas. That would be the best solution.xxMeeksOn a side note . . i would happily Wall Flower with Meeks Anyday! :)
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