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Should I upgrade my membership?

August 30 2011

Hi! Well, first post on here - and I'd love to here from women who have either chosen to remain as guests or who have paid for a membership on the various thoughts.   As a guest, I'm definitely finding things like the flirting frustrating ..... I might hear from someone I really like the sound of, but apart from sending endless flirts back, we can't contact each other.   Because of 2 reasons .....1) I'm married and privacy would be a huge issue (ie credit card, bank deposit) 2) I simply can't afford it ...... I have not paid for a membership. I notice there is a space for a promotional code when you go onto the payment page, but I don't seem to be able to find one of these!!!   Any thoughts? From the new, nervous but excited MsRomantic!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi, . The probelm really occours when its guest to guest. Now I would think that any guy who was serious about hook up will be a member. At the low level it is cheap enough and well worth spending the few bucks. You have to ask if they are not willing to invest a little money then are they serious. . As for you paying, it depends on what you really want out of the site...the key thing is it lets you be incontrol rather than at the mercy of some one else :) . LC

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    First .. with the promo number .. you may get sent an email from RHP after being a guest for a few months .. offering you a 3 day paid trail for tuppence .. that when you put in the promo code .. Second .. credit card details .. get a passport card .. to paper trail .. Third .. with a basic membership .. you are in charge and you can message who you wish .. just dont fall in to the guys flirts which say .." your my style of woman - message me " ... its just that they are really too stingy to pay their own membership.Forth . it opens up the pics for the perve in all of us .. But you as a femaleguest .. do get to send one message a week ..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I couldn't imagine being on here and not being able to see the photos of people. And it is good to be able to message whoever you like. As for the no paper trail, I guess celebree has wrapped that up for you.Hope you find what you are looking for on here.Meeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am a little confused by your profile. You want to meet people but you don't want sex? Might be a little hard too find what you are after but good luck. Meeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    LoveCurvie ....... good points, very good points! Yes, there have been some guys who have sent me flirt after flirt after flirt and I can't do anything about it. If they were serious, then yes, they would possibly be investing money in it! And yes I agree with your point about maintaining control over my contact if I upgrade. celebree ......... ah, thank you re the promo offer, I had no idea. I haven't heard of a passport card, will investigate. And yes again good point about the guys who flirt just almost for the sake of flirting and don't have a membership. And mmm to perving! Meeka100 ........ thank you re your comments, and yes I agree my profile is confusing in as much as it is not the "norm" on here! Yes, I do want to meet people, and I do want to have fun and be intimate, but because of my personal situation yes, I have put "no sex" on my profile. I believe, in fact I know, that there are many, many things you can do which are erotic, sensual and so, so much fun without having "regular sex"!!! And I have been very fortunate so far, the genuine people who have contacted me have been more than happy with that concept, in fact some have been very turned on by it, and I've also received a lot of contact from people who've said that it's a very intriguing concept .... and if someone is married and isn't quite at the stage of wishing to have a full sexual experience outside of their marriage, well, it allows for intimacy, exploring and a very sexy experience with less risks? And I am loving this site, I really am. If I can work out the "how to's" of paying and the "how to's" of finding some money to pay I think it would possibly be a good thing to upgrade to a paid membership! MsRomantic (original poster)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A pre-paid Visa or MasterCard would do the trick too - you can get them from any Aust Post outlet and pay cash for it. Good luck and happy RHPing!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Tolin_80' A pre-paid Visa or MasterCard would do the trick too - you can get them from any Aust Post outlet and pay cash for it. Good luck and happy RHPing! A passport card .. except passport cards come in all different currencies including Australian dollars .. and you can top them up .. slowly add dollars to them .. and when you get enough .. log on and use it like a credit card .. I think its actually Visa Passport

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  • Jay696969

    Jay696969

    8 years ago

    THATS true, not everyone is for sex only but meet some good people as well.

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