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Short guys

July 29 2011

Ok i may be just looking for an ego boost but i what to know if girls consider height a big issue when it comes to guys?Would you be with a guy shorter than yourself or would you just look at him and move on? I was rejected by a girl because in her words i was " unfortunately short" although we were the same height but she was a tad taller in heels. It is my biggest insecurity and i have always had the comment of oh i thought you would be taller come up many times. Personaly i would love to break the norm and be with a girl much taller than me but height is not a thing i am concerned about in others. Just someone that gets me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Being quite tall my self .. I dont wear heals ... unless my partner is over 6'2" and we are out on the town .. but it is shit hard and infact impractical to wear heals when walking in sand .. But personal preference would be to extend slightly either side of my height .. so 5"7 thro to 6'3 would be my prefered . anything shorter and i feel out of my comfort zone ... anything taller and i need a step stool to kiss them good night n..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Personally I prefer a guy that is 6 foot plus, that way I don't have to bend over when I suck his cock. You know us girls get terrible cricks in our necks. :P xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My legs reach the ground...how much longer do they need to be? l Height is immaterial to me. I am 5'2" and I do prefer a man to be a little taller than I. Fortunately for me most are. My personal preference is a bear of a man, six foot or so, large build but I am just as happy with a smaller built guy. It goes on the personality really.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My personal preference is guys over 6 ft BALD, hairy as a damn monkey gotta luv the hairy back yum and big build.That may be my personal preference but i take each guy as they come, tall , short whatever cause you never know who you meet and how well you click, besides you might meet someone who rocks your socks off and they could be the complete opposite of what your preferences are.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am only 5'5 and only like guys who are taller than I. Women, well, I don't mind so much. I don't believe the whole 'height doesn't matter when you're lying down' thing, cos it does. If you're the same height as me, or shorter - I'm sorry - it would just never work. (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    One thing I have noticed is that there are many women's profiles I look at where everything seems to be going well and then I find out she is 5'10"+. It wouldn't bother me but I am very reluctant to message them, maybe the fear of being rejected for lack of height alone. Mind you, thinking about it, I might feel quite good if that was the only reason. In fact, a rejection is almost a possitive reaction compared to the deafening silence my sweet sonnets of seduction receive!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Being 5'9 I have to say I can be a little fickle about height. I have dated a guy a couple of inches shorter than me but I found it uncomfortable, especially when I wanted to wear heels which would then put me at least 4-5 inches taller. Give me a man 5'11 or taller and I'm happy. Actually the taller the better! :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...I had no height preference but if I had a short guy who didn't like my high heels he got the boot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nah I don't find myself sexually attracted to shorter guys as a rule, not a choice really, I just don't. It makes me feel like the man, and all clumsy, therefore I dont feel attractive myself. It's a fizzer after that. I've only ever been attracted to one guy shorter than me, and that's because the size of his cock made me even forget my own name, let alone height LOL

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Women may have longer legs and they look great with them in high heels regardless of how much taller they are, just ask Dudley Moore when he was with Bo Derek. But it is all about the body length. Shorter guys not only get to stoke the fire with the poker but can also tend to the mantle-piece at the same time without getting a sore neck bending down to reach ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well i honestly expected these replies so i am not shocked at all and it just cements my rule to look at height first and not even message girls over 5'7. I do feel like sometimes though people think i am not a REAL MAN because i am shorter than most. But i guess if the girls i date are all 5'5 or shorter i will still seem manly to them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You're totally right man. I prefer my women short, soft spoken and anaemic so I can manhandle them. The shorter they is, the easier they is to control and restrain. I ain't never gonna let one of em' make me feel small ever again. I tried to be nice about it but if she's as wide as a footy field I just don't feel it. Can't even touch the sides man... naw what I mean? Nowadays we is gotta take off another 2-4" inches to account for them heels those girls love so much. So lets say 5"0 to 5"5 if she's gonna make an issue out of it, which we know she will, just like she always does, savvy lad?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I put my height (5'3) on my profile for allll the world to see so I'm not told that people expect me to be taller. No, I sure don't get as much "attention" as taller guys, but I'm happy being who I am and I wouldn't change it for quids. I find that the women I do connect with, who are almost always within a few inches of my height either way, are worth waiting for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm 5'2" so pretty much any height is fine with me. I like the short ones I can hug properly and I like the tall ones that make me feel little... lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'slippery_halo' I put my height (5'3) on my profile for allll the world to see so I'm not told that people expect me to be taller. No, I sure don't get as much "attention" as taller guys, but I'm happy being who I am and I wouldn't change it for quids. I find that the women I do connect with, who are almost always within a few inches of my height either way, are worth waiting for. Slippery ya lil short ass heehee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'D_G_T' Quoting 'slippery_halo' I put my height (5'3) on my profile for allll the world to see so I'm not told that people expect me to be taller. No, I sure don't get as much "attention" as taller guys, but I'm happy being who I am and I wouldn't change it for quids. I find that the women I do connect with, who are almost always within a few inches of my height either way, are worth waiting for. Slippery ya lil short ass heehee I like to think that what I lack in towering height I more than make up in other areas, DGT. Quoting 'mrbungle426'Well i honestly expected these replies so i am not shocked at all and it just cements my rule to look at height first and not even message girls over 5'7. I do feel like sometimes though people think i am not a REAL MAN because i am shorter than most. But i guess if the girls i date are all 5'5 or shorter i will still seem manly to them. Hang in there, Mr Bungle. If we're talking RHP hookups then yes, your palette is more limited. But I'm still a naive romantic enough to think that when it comes to love, it won't matter nearly so much. And hey, you've got a few more inches of height to play with than me! So Mr Bungle, like BoobaliciousFG's thread "toot your own horn" says, market what you do have rather than what you don't. Just from your userpic, your name and your writing in this thread I can already pick a number of great things. You're attractive, honest, sensitive and a very big alternative music fan. Add to the list and start marketing! Just maybe to shorter women, is all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My brother is 5'6 and is married to a gorgeous girl a head taller than him and 11 years younger than him. He has always been attracted to taller girls and just stayed single and had fun until he met the perfect woman for him who thinks he's the perfect man for her

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Being of short stature like Mrb, I also look for potential partners or sexual companions that are 3" shorter than myself ( due to those dam heels and i don't look good in heels to compete ) Friends on the other hands do come in all sizes and we never bother about that. It does mean that the lake is somewhat shallower for us guys as we cant go so deep to cast our net unlike the taller guys So with this thought i believe that as we guys get shorter that means that we have become more attentive to pleasing the women in our lives, as our catch is somewhat less.So Girls come on and tell us do we make up in other ways ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    While I am not well over 6ft in heels I am 5ft 8 in flats and do prefer a man taller than myself...probably for the same reason as stated by Krissy...as a naturally submissive person with my partners I dont like to feel like I am dominating the relationship through height (its the only way I can describe it peeps) ...I am just not as comfortable with someone shorter than me as I am with a taller guy... . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' You're totally right man. I prefer my women short, soft spoken and anaemic so I can manhandle them. The shorter they is, the easier they is to control and restrain. I ain't never gonna let one of em' make me feel small ever again. I tried to be nice about it but if she's as wide as a footy field I just don't feel it. Can't even touch the sides man... naw what I mean? Nowadays we is gotta take off another 2-4" inches to account for them heels those girls love so much. So lets say 5"0 to 5"5 if she's gonna make an issue out of it, which we know she will, just like she always does, savvy lad? I would have pegged you as one who would luuuurve to be flipped around the room by some big nasty bitch simultaneously gripping your throat with one big bitchzilla hand , and sucking the life out of your cock ...... No pasty faced , delicate little flower will do for you god help you if she has half a brain as well, you'll be picking out a ring before you know it. I'm not talking cock rings here either

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Thanks man maybe i need you to write my sexual resume. I have been with taller women just for hookups and being shorter in bed can have advantages. Not to brag but i do like to think i can make up for my height in other areas. I have seen tall guys that can lack in areas too but its whether the women is willing to get to those places to make a judgement for herself. I am sure not a wimpy shy submissive type but i dont like to be called CUTE as i have by a few of girls i have been with. Well i can only put myself out there and post and learn more about what makes these mysterious creatures called females are all about. And if you are keen to see what surprises come in small packages then wink me. Just think of my outter packaging as a Tiffany and Co box. And you know whats inside those little boxes is going to be special.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'D_G_T'I would have pegged you as one who would luuuurve to be flipped around the room by some big nasty bitch simultaneously gripping your throat with one big bitchzilla hand , and sucking the life out of your cock ...... No pasty faced , delicate little flower will do for you god help you if she has half a brain as well, you'll be picking out a ring before you know it. I'm not talking cock rings here either I have absolutely nothing to add to that. I just laughed my ass off when I read it, so I wanted to see it in another forum post.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'D_G_T'I would have pegged you as one who would luuuurve to be flipped around the room by some big nasty bitch simultaneously gripping your throat with one big bitchzilla hand , and sucking the life out of your cock ...... No pasty faced , delicate little flower will do for you god help you if she has half a brain as well, you'll be picking out a ring before you know it. I'm not talking cock rings here either I have absolutely nothing to add to that. I just laughed my ass off when I read it, so I wanted to see it in another forum post. Well everyone needs a muse Snowshoe, Nick is no different even if she is a big nasty goony goo goo ! Imagine the material he would have after just one week with her.... Just because she has an angry pussy that could suck the hair from even Fabio's head (sorry Fabio but that fkn hair has to go) doesn't mean she's any less deserving of love, especially from her new lover. The tales of lament that could come from this would even stir me to have a read, bruised throats and balls rendered paper thin ..... now that's a bloody good read

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'D_G_T'Well everyone needs a muse Snowshoe, Nick is no different even if she is a big nasty goony goo goo ! Imagine the material he would have after just one week with her.... Just because she has an angry pussy that could suck the hair from even Fabio's head (sorry Fabio but that fkn hair has to go) doesn't mean she's any less deserving of love, especially from her new lover. The tales of lament that could come from this would even stir me to have a read, bruised throats and balls rendered paper thin ..... now that's a bloody good read I'm with you all the way! Nick, have you dabbled with playing a sub? Maybe instead of trying to find someone who meets your exacting standards, you need to be put in a position where you're trying to meet theirs. I know just the girl - she knows the BDSM scene pretty well, could throw you on your ass, is very intelligent and engaging... and has a medical fetish! I'm sure there'd be a book in it, but I'd be hanging out for the movie...