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Sharing my wife
February 16 2019
I want her to go solo but tiid guy is like a stalker but she loves the attention..... do I let her have her time with him and move on.
- Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
On what type of ski boat he has l say.
Tandem skiing is great but nothing like going solo
FeistyFatty
6 years ago
BAHAHAHAHA....... There is just WAY too much wrong with this post OP🤦♀️🤦♀️
pizzadogs
6 years ago
Have to agree with fff, if your wife has already had an affair then doesnt what you think or want at the end of day she will do as she wants
RHP User
6 years ago
Some couples counselling because obviously you both have some unresolved issues.
Good luck
Hugs QRHP User
6 years ago
A lot of irony in your profile name in my opinion.
mango69er
6 years ago
Drop her like a hot potato
Rlee552
6 years ago
Why ask us?
Either this is something that you are happy and excited to happen or you are not. If not, then conversation and say no. No good can come of sacrificing yourself to satisfy her wishes.
You are on this site as a couple and either party should have the right of veto. If she wants to set up a single profile or have an affair with this guy then that is a matter for your relationship.Rlee552
6 years ago
Hang on
Reading your profile it says nothing about sharing her with other men. You as a couple are looking for females and other couples.
If this is what she is wants you need to have a conversation about your couple profile, this site and your relationship.
By the way, I assume she can see everything being written about her etc. may be an awkward conversation you need to have about outing her past behaviour.RHP User
6 years ago
I'm baffled.
I'm more of a sailor than a skier, so maybe that's why? 🤔RHP User
6 years ago
I have no idea how long ago the affair was....
But if it were recent I think turning to the swinging scene is probably not going to be the vehicle to success...
However....
If those issues are resolved....
Bahhhh who am I kidding....I can tell they’re not as you’re feeling insecure already, so I’d suggest no...you both need counselling as Q has pointed out ....RHP User
6 years ago
It sounds like fun. I’m keen.
Let me know if u are seriousRHP User
6 years ago
I've never done any snow skiing but I have done some water skiing over the years. It's a bit too hot for snow I believe down South so I presume you are talking of the water variety.
But anyway, to the question. It sounds like your wife will do whatever she wants anyway, the big question for you is whether this path you have set down is going to do your head in, which it already sounds like it is. I would suggest counselling, but counselling is not some amazing panacea.
I have a friend couple that sound just like your situation, to the point I did a bit of a double-take when I read your topic. He loves her to bits and has to be content with her gallivanting off here, there and everywhere with whomever she pleases (which is mostly not him). He claims he is happy and they have agreed to an open relationship, but there's only one of them being... ahem... open, and that's pretty much daily. Myself and others can see the discomfort when he talks about their relationship though. Time will tell whether he just sticks it out and dulls himself to her adventures (and who wants that?) or just acknowledges what we all believe - that he should just move on to someone more suited.
Much like yourself OP.RHP User
6 years ago
Why would you let your wife go skiing with some bloke,who obviously wants to Fuck her
She’s already had one affair, do you want to lose her? If she is going to do whatever she wants anyway, then get a new wifeRHP User
6 years ago
It's also superficial and lasts just long enough to mess the sheets.
Both of you need to feel seen and heard. Are you in this together or what?
In the meantime, go watch Esther Perels TED talk.RHP User
5 years ago
I started by watching porn with my wife. Then telling her every now and then when we were out that guys checking you out. While fucking her I said that guy at the shops wanted to fuck you so bad. Turned her on so much. I met a guy on the side. He would come over regularly.Around 6 months later my mate was over and we were drinking. I said to my wife I had to go to the shops for more coke.
I set it up well.My mate sat next to her on the lounge, close and they hit it off. He fucks her regularly. My wife doesn’t know that I know. Such a turn on.
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