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Shame On Arrows Swingers Club

May 20 2007

Hi there, For those of you who dont know what Arrows is or where it is, I shall tell you.....Arrows is a Swingers Club in Rydlemere who caters for gay men, bi men and women, couples, trannies and straight women and is open 24/7. The club has three floors...ground floor snack bar, dj, pool table, tv entertainment, lounges, showers, spa, sauna and steam room. Then of course two levels of rooms for having fun. NOW FOR MY CONCERN I have just been advised that Arrows has closed its doors (once again) to WOMEN. They are only permitting gay men, bi men and trannies to enter the club. This by the way happened about 8 months ago and after many complaints by both gay men and women, managment lifted the ban and allowed women to once again frequent the club. I was told just this morning that this ban will not be lifted again. I have been going to Arrows on and off for a couple of years. Like many of you people here on RHP have, as I have met many of you and some have also organised social nights at Arrows. MY MAIN ISSUE HERE IS.....DISCRIMINATION...... If a swingers club was set up and banned gay men there would be outrage from the Male Gay movement and they would be calling this Discrimination. And yes it would be. So this is my point. WOMEN IN THIS INSTANCE ARE BEING DISCRIMINATED AGAINST. Im told from an inside source at Arrows that it is not the patrons that do not wish for women to be allowed in BUT this is purely a management decision. I would love to hear some of your comments on this issue and would welcome any of you who agree with me to contact Arrows and voice your opinion to them....Arrows...96380553. Thanks and take care.

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RHP User

19 years ago

I go to aarows saturday nights and Im aware that a noisy arguement developed arround the eight ball table prior to management altering the rules of the club.Now I personly as a gay male had no problem with the straight men and women or bisexual women that I was on talking terms with at the aarows and I think its a bit rough to restrict all women because of the behaviour of one or some I THINK THE NOTICE READS THAT WOMEN ARE ALLOWED IN ON CERTAIN NIGHTS AND MUST BE ACCOMPANIED BY A MAN now if I applied this ruling to myself the onlytime I get accompanied by a man is to a private room to have sex .....but never to get in the entrance of aarows... cheers astralwalker.

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RHP User

19 years ago

Even if they did open up to Women, i’d rather stick pins in my eyes than go. J

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RHP User

19 years ago

I don’t see why you’re complaining though. Lots of swingers venues/parties only allow in single women or couples (no single guys) and I don’t hear you complaining, but when a place bans women you kick up a stink. Personally I think it should cater for everyone (the more the merrier!), but claiming discrimination here and being happy to have a single girls/couples venue is somewhat hypocritical.

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