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Shallow couples and ladies, boycot them !!
March 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good for you! For saying your piece!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am going to decline.. Life is crappy sometimes...people are shallow sometimes...not everyone is going to be attracted to you..not everyone is going to be attracted to me.. Maybe put up a tasteful profile pic..that may help you?? However a great attitude is everything, what attracts me.. :-) Good Luck. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
OP ,your profile name , and your pics,are all focussed it seems to me,on attracting the people you are indeed complaining about.Why not put up some different pics,that everyone can see,guests can't see the ones you have and many women don't actually want to see a multitude of cock shots. If you are just looking for sex,if you are marketing yourself like that ,then you are competing with other younger,better looking men,shallow yes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Training for peak condition", and then don't want to be judged? You're playing from a position of weakness in a crowded market. But I'd agree, "you're not dumb enough" is a curious statement. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
and here we were....thinkn we were being 'particular' or 'selective'.....strange that we imagined we could be these things...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi OP - I'm a little discombobulated (which is pretty normal for me)Could you please define shallow for me? It's actually your OP and your profile that seem shallow to me. But everything is relative isn't it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oooh, Paintme - that's one of my all time favourite words - love your work! OP - we've learnt over the years that we're not everyone's cup of English tea - and that's okay! Not everyone is our cup of tea either. And that's okay too. Surely you aren't suggesting that every single profile you've looked at you've loved and wanted to instantly play? For some, they are here looking for specific criteria and if that happens to be hot young muscle bound men, that's their choice. Others care more about the whole package. Individual difference is what makes us human and entirely fascinating. It's not do much about being shallow IMO; more about personal preference for a choice in sexual partner. Perhaps you need to learn to develop a thicker skin. Good luck! Mrs IAT- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Interesting - How you expect to get laid after reading your opening post..but you know optimism is a attractive feature..bitching and whinging is not MMmmm what I find most amusing about your comments.........is this...you say shallowness is restricted to certain couples and ladies.........if you want a definition of shallow my friend..go have a good look in the mirror Yes work on yoru body - it is our temnple and we owe it to ourselves to keep it in the best shape possible...... But my suggestion to you in perhaps work on your attitude.......its needs a full assessment and work out !!! and seriously - you really think your attracting great individuals with the photos on your profiles ? ..subtlety my friend subtlety
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with paintme! And if you have seen Arnold no longer has the body he had 20yrs ago! No one is perfect.... But negative will attract negative
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RHP User
13 years ago
By the sounds of things I think some ladies and couples just might boycot this Forum...would that be shallow?? Nope just being honourable and truthful... Actually I am a little offended by some of your comments made in your post as I contribute to Forums and don't believe I make negative comments nor do a lot of those who post. Actually I think all people are pretty awesome and beautiful in their own special ways... Would you believe me if I said there is more to a person than their penises/vaginas and bodies?? I think you will find there are some truly, really Amazing people (couples as well) who aren't what your post refers to... Keep your chin up...they just haven't found you yet..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
As someone who is not a fan of six-packs, nor brainless jocks, I just don't agree with your post. I think Freya is correct in saying your pics and name are part of your issue. They say "Look at my big cock and fuck me", nothing more. If I were indeed the person who would go for that, I can imagine I may be shallow. And you may be attracting what you put out there. My tip would be to choose a better username and replace that main pic of your impressive member in that lovely girl's bum with something less... ehh... graphic? Good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with Freya and Miss D. If you want to appeal to people that want more than just a guy who has a great c&@ck then you need to pitch your profile that way. Even in your "about me" bit you sound like your apologizing for not being in shape yet. Not necessary. If you truly believe what you say, then think about the ideal person in your mind that you want to attract , what would she want to hear and see , and then design your profile accordingly. Spend time on your profile, women read it and take notice and your profile pic is the obvious one. Good on you for having your vent and making your stand, I'd encourage you to also take responsibility for your results with what you can control too:) Minxy xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind - by Al Ries, Jack Trout Worth a read, marketing for the non-marketeer. Unless of course this was just a ploy (fark, I've turned in to mischievous lad).... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Let me get this right...If they knock you back they are shallow? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
From my short time here if a lady or couple have contacted me it's always a face shot that they would like to see. I guess when they see what you look like and don't wish to keep in touch with you well that's their prerogative.I am sure if they want to see a picture of your cock or anything else all they would have to do is ask.....easy done.You can't demand anything on here thats for sure, the ladies and couples are spoilt for choice and if they want a six pack they can do their ironing on after having sex with it well good for them and I'm sure a lot of those guys have the brains to match as well.Jealous perhaps?
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RHP User
13 years ago
= rant.....and ranting.... is not an attractive personality trait.It seems your topic is the result of frustration because things arent going how YOU want them to go.So..... how is ranting going to change that?!Instead, contemplate more on learning how Attraction works......and try a different approach to the one you've been using.I hope you find your 99yo's and give them your "ultimate stress relief"....lolDG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe you should join Honky's union ....Baaaahahahaha!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Swordsman, you are obviously well-spoken, so use that to your advantage. Neither your pics nor your profile let on you're a really smart guy, so maybe you are just not reaching your target audience. My profile is clear about the fact that I much prefer a brain and sense of humour to a six-pack and I'm not concerned about percentage bodyfat. As a result I get contacted by exactly the men I'm looking for (as well as a lot of ones I'm not, but hey, not complaining). And women who respond with "Go to the gym first", are not shallow. They are just plain rude and not worth your time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is hard to believe that anyone, whether they are single ladies or couples, should make assessments of anyone else based on the pictures and content in a profile. How dare they say that you are not what they are looking for, it's simply outrageous!! To suggest that you are neither hot enough, nor dumb enough, to entice them based on so little information when they can plainly see just how well your awesome cock can stretch a girl's ass just seems to defy all common sense. A great demonstration of that point about how common sense doesn't seem to be that common at all! Self promotion is a wonderful thing, and it's good of you to help point out to others the error of their ways at the same time. The added insight your post has given into how you think should leave people in absolutely no doubt about whether you are hot enough, dumb enough, or can make it uncomfortable for them to sit straight for a few days after meeting you. A big thumbs up from us for a mission well accomplished.
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RHP User
13 years ago
but I'll add my 2 cents anyway. OP, I am not attracted to 6 packs, I couldn't give a rat's arse how many times a week a guy goes to the gym, or indeed if he never goes to the gym, and I am looking for men with intelligence with whom I can have interesting conversations as well as great sex. I - like probably all of the other women on here - am contacted daily by guys with profiles like yours, and frankly they're as appealing to me as that cheese that's made using maggots (saw that in a tv show last night, truly disgusting). I find it very offputting when the only pics a guy has are of his cock....whether on its own or shoved into some girl's pussy / mouth / arse. It's not sexy. We know you have a cock, and we know you've used it to fuck girls, we don't need the photographic evidence of it. Well I don't anyway, and from reading these forums I think there are a lot of women who feel the same. Also, in your descriptions all you talk about is fucking, and making yourself look more appealing, you don't give any indication of what you're like as a person, or that you do have a brain in your head. So the upshot of all of the above is that your profile is actively attracting the type of people you're complaining about. The shallow people who care only about how you look and how big your dick is and what it looks like fucking a girl's arse. Ironically, when I am contacted by guys with profiles like yours I see them as shallow (rightly or wrongly, they may not be but their profile has lost them any chance of further contact to confirm or deny my assumptions). If you want to be seen on here as more than a set of abs with a cock attached, then you need to change your profile, or you're just going to keep getting more of the same.
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playfulminx
13 years ago
DUDE. YOUR MAIN PIC HAS A PICTURE OF YOUR WANG GOING UP A GIRL'S BUTT HOLE...There are shallow people for sure, but I think that has nothing to do with why you're not getting any bites on here.Seriously. You're lucky guest girls can't see it.I'm no prude but sheesh...
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RHP User
13 years ago
totally agree with all of the above, if i had to look at that picture every time i chatted to you, it would put me off immediately. So if you are going to boycott most of the site, ( im guessing those who have ignored you are in the high numbers) you are only doing yourself a disservice, especially now after complaining about it....Good luck with that..
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RHP User
13 years ago
A good portion of the lovely ladies from the forums have come to the same conclusion. Taken some of their time to give some brutally honest advice on your profile. What you do with it is up to you. Can either go away and sulk about blah blah blah or turn it into something positive and go back and have another look about how you want your first impression to be from your profile and photos.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You could, you know, just work out more ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Big thumbs down on the sentiment, but kudos to you for having the 'nads to express your frustration... That said, don't let it go to waste OP. You've been given some great suggestions by everyone here, what you do with them is solely up to you Remember... If nothing changes, nothing changes....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I thought the point was these shallow women weren't letting you 'suck the life out of them'? Mr Tryst x
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RHP User
13 years ago
is this like being called 'timewasters' for not dropping everything to accommodate some stranger we've never even clapped eyes on?
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RHP User
13 years ago
What will?I'm referring to the Zombie Apocalypse my butt hole invading friend.It's already amongst us.........the facial muscles that don't react to fear, pain, pleasure, chisels on the septum or copious amounts of cookie dough ice cream........have you seen the Kardasian chick?.......a hands-down stage II ZombieAnyways...........when the apocalypse hits, who will you want by your side?A woman blurting out that "Damn, now I've broken a nail, it's always the same when I come out with you....blah, blah, blah...ZZZZZZ" whilst you are deftly commando crawling yourself through eviscerated corpses and out of a sticky situation, all whilst trying to secure provisions from a Zombie overrun shopping centre?Have you been to Carousel?.........I think its already began over there! ORA fella, calm and collected, splatting heads with a size 3 long handled shovel. OK, some are zombies, some aren't........better to be safe tho, eh.Saddle up fella......time to pick a winning team.Oh, and the odd "reach around" might be in order..........all's fair in love and war........and ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE~~f~~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi all thanks for the comments.....I did neglect to leave one thing out of my comments previously. I did actually try the face shot, suit shot and tell everybody about myself, and the type of person/s that I was looking for and for that was a complete big fat zero. I have to admit that this profile I have now has offered me much more success with RHP. However, I am still going to take on the comments (particularly from the ladies and couples), and change back (but with an upgrade) to the previous version, and try again. It is very frustrating.......Sometimes I just feel guys on here get a pretty rough trot.Thanks again to all......Swordy
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