Sexucating your FWB?

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  just_sayin69

  11 years ago

  Personal experience would day that its click or dont click Honestly dont think people or couples havent the time or intention to work at it Its a "sex session" its chasing the happy ending for many General meeting up table : good = go back second meeting Average= go back maybe one ir teo aspects were good would like a revisit but if not ok Weak= NEXT!!! Not working at it didnt like the meet for reason XYZ We have met very few who seem to be looking for ongoing multiple meets Maybe were just rough and rubbish in the sack or maybe were just to good looking and awrsome between the sheets we intimmidate ?? We like to think option 2 lol

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Is that the awkward moment when she yells out, 'THAT DOES NOT GO IN THERE'?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In my experience, first time sex with someone is very rarely mind blowing... you're nervous, you don't know each other's bodies, likes and dislikes, you're haven't built a mental connection yet etc. For that reason, I believe in giving it a second or third go. It's also for that reason I don't do one night stands/NSA anymore... if it's just sexual release I'm after, my hands and my toys usually do a far better job than a stranger who I have no intention of seeing again :). Of course, it would be a whole different dynamic if you're at a swingers club where sex with strangers is the main point... something I haven't experienced yet. I have been in the situation with a FWB where no matter how many 'chances' I gave him, it never came right. The sex remained mediocre and it was always the same routine. Very different with my two current FWB's... we're always mixing it up and trying new things and exploring, so the sex is always evolving. Unfortunately one of them is no longer in WA, so we don't have the luxury of seeing each other two or three times a week anymore but we've built up a pretty big 'fucket' list for when we next see each other :) Much love, Mickelle

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Funlover71' Is that the awkward moment when she yells out, 'THAT DOES NOT GO IN THERE'? not to put your cornflakes in there as it was the dogs bowel

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It maybe small but cornflake? Really? 😢

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You get to know your FWB over time and the sex gets better. For me it's the friendship which is more important... So if I don't click with someone or have things in common, then it won't develop into an FWB situation. All situations are different though... Some friends you see all the time and others a few times a year. So it all depends. :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  who puts their cornflakes in the dog's BOWEL! That could make for an expensive and embarrassing vet visit ;-) To NNN777, I think if you have chemistry at the first meet but he doesn't press all your buttons first time around, he's definitely worth another shot and a little instruction. We're all delicate snowflakes and what works for one doesn't always work for all, but if you have good chemistry and all he requires is a little "a little harder and to the left" it's worth the investment ;-)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  At risk of sounding terribly shallow, it depends on how good looking they are and how much chemistry there is between us. That said, the times that I have gone back despite ordinary sex because he or she was soooo hot and we had soooo much chemistry have not worked out. I end up frustrated and exasperated and then the chemistry quickly evaporates. So I'd try again- no more than three times though...

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  NawtyNNice777

  11 years ago

  Meeka and Keepitsimple72, my points exactly :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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