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Sexual pet hate
March 08 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Men that go through the motions of foreplay because it is the done thing to get intercourse not because they enjoy it or enjoy pleasuring their partner. Nothing worse then getting licked by a man totally uninterested in anything but moving to the next step - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Premature blowers. What a waste of time and effort. Yep i know I am very sexy and a turn on but please if you cant maintain a few hours of fun dont bother as I hate the blow and go.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
just sometimes frustrating is when they don't pull my hair bite my nipples hard enough devour pussy. A tongue flicking my clit does not maketh me cum
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RHP User
11 years ago
hate it when a guy starts to finger me hard and fast and rough,porn movie style , trying to make me squirt i am guessing....instead of actually trying to figure out gently and with attention where my sensitive spots are...to me it's the same as if i started to wank their soft cock viciously fast and rough till smoke starts rising between my fingers and i am almost at the point off ripping their cock off...not cool
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RHP User
11 years ago
i guess it depends on every person and my mood etc. Sometimes I love being bitten other times I perfer soft kisses down my neck. But one thing really annoys me is the aftermath of the event. Putting underwear straight back on and leaving. I don't care if you are a one night stand or someone I've dated for years you give me the respect and we help each other clean up or just enjoy those mins of pure bliss. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree with sensualtimes... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like they are sanding furniture. Changing rhythm when your just about to cum. Boys when she is saying ohh god don't stop it means keep that rhythm. Not giving oral but wanting oral. ( and bull shit about it befire hand, if you do not like oral just bloody say so) it's not a hanging offence. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hate it, I don't see the bedroom as having much of a place for it. I do understand that people, including myself have likes and dislikes and I suppose what I don't like is when one draws that line too low on the continuum without having tried or being open minded to have tip toed past that line to see what's on offer.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"But condoms are such mood killers..."
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RHP User
11 years ago
Leave my feet alone!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree with Meander,or their cock goes soft trying to put a condom on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LifeUnscripted
11 years ago
When he says"But condoms are such mood killers..." Or " We really like you guys and feel comfortable with you, so we are willing to skip the condoms." Ummmmmm no...we are pretty sure we aren't the first you have offered that to.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When they say that .. It kills the mood 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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CompersionCouple
11 years ago
Not having my hair pulled, my ass spanked hard or the guys who don't cum on my face. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Selfishness xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
People that say they can fuck for hours and as soon as you touch them they cum, then go to sleep. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Am STILL getting tied to the bed, having my face painted like a clown and...... well, you all know the rest. Obi1
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RHP User
11 years ago
When someone is just going through the motions and their heart really isn't in it. I can pick up on when they are not into it as I am the sort of person who really enjoys it when I know the other person is really enjoying it too. If they are faking it or not into it just turns me off straight away. Cheers, W.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Comfort2' People that say they can fuck for hours and as soon as you touch them they cum, then go to sleep. - Posted from rhpmobile "Victa 2-strokes" Pet hates: Teeth grazing during oral (but I understand it's probably not as easy as it seems) Not wanting to recieve oral Not kissing (but I understand the decision in some couple's dynamics)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep shoot me down and strike me dead.... when you are giving head and the guy is gently signally not to go too hard too early, could ya just take the hint. That look after you broken the toy as if its our fault or something LOL Oh and is a girl who doesn't like Oral really a girl...seriously who does like oral. I tend to get kicked out because she can't take anymore LOL
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Hottie1
11 years ago
but any man who thinks his cock is going any where near me whilst he is wearing socks on his feet can keep on walking .... I fucking hate socks in bed ! Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
has to be my biggest pet hate. Why are you bothering if you would rather be elsewhere? If you are going to do something, fuck me like you mean it! I don't care if it goes for 2 mins or 2 hours, make it passionate and exciting and alluring and sexy and then back it up again if you didn't last the first time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When any sexual act together not being completely mutual pleasures for all parties I hate that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hate non-kissers. No better foreplay. And the ones that read your profile and expect to tick off a list. Mood, timing, reciprocation !!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
But not sure about 2 min, maybe make it at least 20 lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Experts that are the best you will ever have, nobody does better. Please I will be the judge of that and its impossible to be the best as its not technique, without a connection technique is nothing, without mood and matching desire it will not be the best . How can you be the best wild funky jungle sex and the best slow warm fuzzy vanilla glowing hearts sex, the best student and the best teacher.. Use the words tantric, sutra, or any of that closed minded mystic shit to describe your sexual qualities and lets go see a movie instead. Shy and reserved. Oh hate that, I ask "What are your fantasies?", "What kinks are you into?". Nothing? What do you mean "nothing" can see it in your eyes, you are a totally horny sexual animal but I can not read your mind. Talk dam ya.
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RHP User
11 years ago
People telling me they're horny. Unless I'm directly involved for getting you in that state - Sorry, but ... meh.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' but any man who thinks his cock is going any where near me whilst he is wearing socks on his feet can keep on walking .... I fucking hate socks in bed ! Mary xx It always makes me think they are the blow and go folk.... it's quicker to bolt out the door if you only take a minimum of clothes off! My pet hate... assuming that I will act out all my fantasies with you on the first meet... let's get to know each other a little before we launch into ticking everything off the fucket list.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i hate it when im slapping some sweet ass on a beautiful lady bent over the side of me ute or lawn mower and me neighbours pet dog pisses on me leg 😖😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Brunnication' Oh and is a girl who doesn't like Oral really a girl... This is my pet hate. Men who crap on about how all women should luuurve oral and if they don't there's something wrong with them...almost always accompanied by the blah blah about how they can lick pussy for months on end without a break and they once made a woman literally turn inside out because she came so hard from it. I very much doubt you would like somebody dictating to you what you should or shouldn't like sexually, so how about you show some respect to other people's preferences and not disparage them for it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting Blindman67 "Shy and reserved. Oh hate that, I ask "What are your fantasies?", "What kinks are you into?". Nothing? What do you mean "nothing" can see it in your eyes, you are a totally horny sexual animal but I can not read your mind. Talk dam ya." Oh dear! Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear....that's me! Lol....what I hate most is my own inability to 'let go' and just totally immerse myself in the moment. Sigh... :) xx
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
A closed mind.....💋
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JDM76
11 years ago
Mine is reciprocation within reason , I'm willing to try most things at request within my comfort level and i like the same from a woman , but also within her comfort level too.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Sorry need more depth to it than that which makes me totally not a swinger AND people who can't kiss for shit, as big a deal breaker as people into disconnected senseless fucking because they think it makes them "sexually mature and cool" again I need more attraction than that. Oops did I just say that out loud? Horses for courses I suppose....or maybe I'm just a stuck up cunt but I prefer to have my entire person engaged not just my genitalia and not just to "keep up appearances"......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are really just preferences. You aren't looking for someone who does or doesn't do "x" or "y". I guess we all have to watch our wording perhaps. Pet hates are minor things like talking in a cinema. Now DIE you interrupting f***ers! Sorry, just gets on my nerves :) :) :) :) Oh, and people that overuse smileys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' A closed mind.....💋 THIS!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Men who leave their sox on, just sox. Yuck! I get that sometimes things get all primal and hard core fucking happens and in that case I'm hardly gunna notice but if you are having a long session, take ya bloody sox off! It might just be me but it really irritates me
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RHP User
11 years ago
That bonks with one foot still on the floor. The front door still open for the get away. The car out frint motor running , boat hooked on the back. His mates out side tapping their watches and rolling their eyes. His mobile ringing with the ring time saying it's the ball and chain. The guy that keeps just the ring iff a Condon so he can fool you in the dark its a full condom. Or he washes it in the sink for his next big adventure. The one that forgets to leave his 20 bucks in th jar in my dressing table. The guy that carves his own notch in my bed post. Lys not for get sex when he keeps his socks on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is not getting any sex, I need sex God damn it, I'm a women with needs 😜 But seriously, my main one would have to be a shitty kisser too, nothing better than an amazing toe curling kiss.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Then I must be that scrubber , when any dick is better than no dick at all. I don't think I know a single person that has sex just to keep up appearances? I would think the opposite, especially for women they do not have sex because they are worried about how others view them. No women get social brownie points for being sexually liberated. I have no need at all for men to have all of me. But then I am not single and have all I need except the sex. I do not make assumptions about others women's needs. If they want just pink bits that's their call. If they want pink bits with some grey matter again a individual choice. Non is better than the other in my view. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
hey dude, I said dude. I am down here!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't blame them... as they're just copying porn. (I love porn, for the record... so this is not an anti-porn rant.)But slam-slam-slam is NOT good f***ing.Cindy Gallop from the Make-Love-Not-Porn site and TED talk nails the issue. Check it out if you haven't already.(Can't post a link on RHP however...)x
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RHP User
11 years ago
All talk no action ,they cum then they done 🏃😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a man says "but other women like it" grrrrr if it turns me off, then it turns me off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
wearing socks during sex
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
Girls that starfish are bad.. no oral sex.. its my favourite thing.. can 69 for hours!... not feeling the vibe.. as in going fast and rough when the mood is sensual and slow... and being uncircumcised the worst is when they dont pull the skin back.. thats the most sensitive part.. stimulate it right and ill go all night! And being adraid to experiment - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To much pubic ,none is perfect but manicured can be very nice indeed .Do do the wild bush at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that should have pubic hair,and don;t do the wild bush LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'kissk' Quoting 'ag4mg92' but any man who thinks his cock is going any where near me whilst he is wearing socks on his feet can keep on walking .... I fucking hate socks in bed ! Mary xx It always makes me think they are the blow and go folk.... it's quicker to bolt out the door if you only take a minimum of clothes off! My pet hate... assuming that I will act out all my fantasies with you on the first meet... let's get to know each other a little before we launch into ticking everything off the fucket list. What about if he still has his boots on ladies?!?!?! ;) :P hehehehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
Take your time and do it right. A woman is a work of art and should be appreciated as such. What we would like to see more of - guys that can stay hard (and we are not talking post orgasm) and ladies willing to speak up if it isn't quite right (we aren't mid readers, help us out).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pulling hair too hard and rough blow jobs.
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ChocN8Chat
11 years ago
I enjoy everything and appreciate the efforts too. Just one thing, when my dick and foreskin is pulled sooo hard back during oral that i have to take a step back. Like someone tearing open a chocolate bar wrapper with the teeth. Yeah teeth. No teeth please. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
After you have stipulated NO ANAL Sandy grrr
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LetusFrolic' Girls that starfish are bad.. no oral sex.. its my favourite thing.. can 69 for hours!... not feeling the vibe.. as in going fast and rough when the mood is sensual and slow... and being uncircumcised the worst is when they dont pull the skin back.. thats the most sensitive part.. stimulate it right and ill go all night! And being adraid to experiment - Posted from rhpmobile Agree about someone not getting the mood right. Sometimes people don't really seem to be aware of their partner some how? Can I suggest that women not pulling back the foreskin has more to do with lack of awareness. They may have never had a uncut cock before. So next time you should show them what to do, I can guarantee they will appreciate the advice and hopefully you will like it too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
foot slapping during Doggie......oh yes ive seen it once......And my dearie lordie me - never ever again thanks....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Finger and the rub a dub dub...my poor man in his little tub...don't like it...having my nipples jacked as if it is a great chore..XxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
i know right and they "bite" you and its like was that a mozzie ...use yer frickin teeth lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
only ever met one guy who could suck toe ...he was a cop i did in the middle of the nullabour....mostly youre likely to get kicked if u touch ma feet
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RHP User
11 years ago
i do not find it remotely sexy if u slobber in my ear and dont even bite it ...can bite me anywhere else ...really anywhere lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't stand going down and finding out that her hygiene is not that great real turn off switch off and move on not going there..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
...men (even lovely, well meaning types) who finish and then WHAM they want to snuggle (ugh) and fall asleep or are immediately off to the bathroom to shower and THEN fall asleep. 1. UMMM I'm not finished! And 2. It makes a girl feel like you want to wash her off yourself (like when a dog shakes itself after you've patted it!! lol) Some men genuinely seem confused about why you don't want meet up again - when you've organised, sometimes travelled, spent time&energy, given them a number of orgasms....and not had any you didn't give yourself (while he was in the damn shower!!) What's so hard to understand - women like to reach orgasm too! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
many men seem to have no idea how to caress a breast. Mine get slapped and grabbed and bruised and the nipple is often just neglected while the bulk of it is abused! I love to see a man take the time to really my pussy twinging from good nipple stimulation. You need to use your tongue to slowly trace around the nipple and flick it with the tip of your tongue while you have it grasped between your teeth gently. Give it a wet lick and then blow some cool breath on it and watch it grow, then use your warm mouth and envelope it and cup it in between your lips. Suck it gently and pull away until it pops out of your mouth. Wet the fingertip of your index finger with some saliva and then gently circle it over the tip of the nipple you are not caressing with your mouth, then swap boobs :) Sorry, I was getting a bit carried away there!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Summed it up perfectly
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RHP User
11 years ago
Poor kisser. When they stick their tongue so far down your throat you almost have trouble breathing. Less is more. Simple
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RHP User
11 years ago
Go and read the Multiple Orgasm thread. Apparently, according to some blokes, it all has to do with training and you can actually have 30-50 orgasms in one session. You have to train yourself. Pffttt! Lol!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not really a pet hate, just annoying....... Unless seriously pissed there's been very few occasions a woman hasn't cum from my foreplay.... Once they have there wanting me to stop the foreplay and do the do.... I soooooo want to find someone who can handle receiving for half the night..... That someone needs to be the female kind, sorry guys lol..... Tip
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RHP User
11 years ago
There us something sexy about boots on and the guy dressed. Like a police officer, he can really get undressed can he? He can just stick that cock in the car windiw and say blow this.,, 👄 Or the tradie, nithing hotel than being bent over a bench it in it, and those tradie boots still on. Just don't leave em in when your in my thousand count white sheets. Socks no boots yes. Also getting out if bed before you satisfy a woman. Dispite all the blahh blahh blahh on rhp. A shit load of men in this site are doing that allll the time.snd guys, yes we do talk and compare notes. So a blow and go will find himself high and dry given time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes it's not a case of poor hygiene that can make it not so pleasant smelling down there. A change in diet or having taken antibiotics can also change the conditions down there, it's a very sensitive piece of equipment you know, 😊
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RHP User
11 years ago
or too rushed. Take it easy, go with the flow and slow down with the BJ's. Silent fuckers... it's not study time please we're not here to read a book. Moan for me make feel like you want me, it's hot!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mona is my middle name but I have had a man tell me to be quiet...maybe he was just out of prison 😒xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
A closed mind is an open book of passion
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ego that extends beyond the tip of the hard nipples or cock aimed at me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' many men seem to have no idea how to caress a breast. Mine get slapped and grabbed and bruised and the nipple is often just neglected while the bulk of it is abused! I love to see a man take the time to really my pussy twinging from good nipple stimulation. You need to use your tongue to slowly trace around the nipple and flick it with the tip of your tongue while you have it grasped between your teeth gently. Give it a wet lick and then blow some cool breath on it and watch it grow, then use your warm mouth and envelope it and cup it in between your lips. Suck it gently and pull away until it pops out of your mouth. Wet the fingertip of your index finger with some saliva and then gently circle it over the tip of the nipple you are not caressing with your mouth, then swap boobs :) Sorry, I was getting a bit carried away there! Was it good for you ralf? haha Guys do this, good advice :)))
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am always good, just ask me
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MissBishere
11 years ago
lift ralfs hair and blow on her neck and stroke her shoulders and down her arms.... She likes this :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I am always good, just ask me Had me going there for a bit on your previous one Not sure on this one though as, do I want good, or do I want bad, or bad at being good, or good at being bad, yeh, that one sounds about right Anyway, my sexual pet hate is: "I really hate not getting any sex"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' lift ralfs hair and blow on her neck and stroke her shoulders and down her arms.... She likes this :) you know what I like ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'GcFitFunPvteDom' All talk no action ,they cum then they done 🏃😳 - Posted from rhpmobile that is so me, star fish then cum then go home. what can i say I am a dud root but hey its all about moi
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RHP User
11 years ago
When 3=1 I absolutely don't understand how *some* men are perfectly fine having multiple orgasms during a session but don't reciprocate or even make an effort to get the numbers *somewhat* even. I don't expect 1:1 - I'm a firm believer that a pair of considerate lovers will naturally balance out. But when it's up around 3:1 or 4:1, even if he was an amazing lover, in my mind the selfishness and inconsideration diminishes their mad skillz by the disparity x 20% each! I honestly have not experienced this with women.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I need to know that you are enjoying it too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the line actually goes im always good i just dont always behave and yes use it regularly lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guys who are terrible kissers, guys who think they are fantastic lovers when they can't stay hard or keep going for more than 2 minutes, guys who can't even stay hard long enough to get the condom on, guys who think their job is done as soon as they've had their fun, while I'm still lying there wanting and needing more. Guys who expect me to suck them but then don't even ask what I'd like them to do. Guys who continually call me BABE or HUN because they can't be bothered to remember my name. Guys who are too rough and have made me bleed when they don't cut their fingernails and are convinced they can make me squirt even when it hasn't ever happened. Quit trying will you? And then there are the guys whom I've practically put my back out fucking, because they want to bend me into positions I haven't even thought of for 30 years, and then they go on and on and on and I'm bored and exhausted and just want them to finish so I can get the hell out of there! Come to think of it, maybe I should just give up on sex and men entirely. I've only met a handful who pleased me and a vibrator is way more reliable.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To quote On_Safari People who fuck anything just cos it's on offer.... Sorry need more depth to it than that which makes me totally not a swinger AND people who can't kiss for shit, as big a deal breaker as people into disconnected senseless fucking because they think it makes them "sexually mature and cool" again I need more attraction than that. Oops did I just say that out loud? Horses for courses I suppose....or maybe I'm just a stuck up cunt but I prefer to have my entire person engaged not just my genitalia and not just to "keep up appearances"...... I LOVE THIS! For me- no conversation/connection - no naughty biz! Also I will add bad housekeeping downstairs or anywhere really for males and females... And I ain't a fan of bush! Mrs RF X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
a lot of people posting here need to review their selection process ! I have one must have and one deal breaker .........Kissing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hate
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. A closed mind 2. Not paying attention to your partner 3. Not having the brains to keep up a discussion beforehand-afterwards 4. Him declaring that he hates getting a nice sensual massage (because it is a waste of his time) 5. Not being considerate towards your partner 6. Not being clean (yes please either shower or have a quick wash before play- it will make things nicer)
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RHP User
11 years ago
being drunk...that has to be on top of my "Sexual pet hate" list..if you are drunk there is no way are getting in my bed
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