Sexual and fetish Interest lists in profiles

January 04 2025

Just a question about interests we can list in the profiles, is it better to tick more or less?
A lot of the interests I would explore with the right partner but I'm not hung up on pursuing.
For instance let's take anal as and example, I'm down with the right partner but I don't need anal, and probably wouldn't mention it if my partner didn't bring it up.
How do people interpret the sexual and fetish interests on profiles, are there any that are a reason to avoid a profile?

Comments

  • Razzledazzle74

    Razzledazzle74

    25 days ago

    I think it’s better to tick all of the things that you like, no one should be ashamed of their choices, kinks or fetish’s.
    As adults we should be able to respect the kinks and choices of the other adults on here and if someone does judge you for yours then they are probably not someone that you would want to connect with

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    25 days ago

    Your looking for woman. Woman actually read your entire profile. So be sure to fill everything in and have a minimum of 5 photos. Clothes on full body and face pics. Without photos its pointless even having a profile.

    Very few men actually read any of a woman's profile, and pointlessly waste messages on women who are not a match.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    25 days ago

    It usually only shows you what are your mutual matches unless you click See More so I wouldn’t worry about it too much. The more someone lists that doesn’t match to mine isn’t a problem. It’s just a list.

    There’s an astounding number of men into watersports on dating sites. I’ve never known how to interpret that.

  • Us4you

    Us4you

    24 days ago

    I would generally only tick things that actually apply to us. I wouldn’t embellish just for the sake of it.. as a sidenote you have a guest membership , no profile picture , and attached looking for discreet hook ups.. I don’t think there is that many women going to even look twice

  • Primal_Curiosity

    Primal_Curiosity

    24 days ago

    I think the more specific the better.

    Most switched in people (ones you actually converse with and meet) know it’s not a must have list of what’s to be covered.

    I’m specific as hell about what I’m into but I meet people where we don’t always do everything or in conversation we discuss what’s a yes and what’s a no.

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    23 days ago

    Honesty is the best policy

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    23 days ago

    I don’t think it matters at all what you tick - the make or break part is what’s written in your main profile. That tiny paragraph could make all the difference… words are powerful.