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Sex tape - good or bad idea?
July 22 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
It could go viral in just hours, you have to be aware that is could happen so easily! One scenario, i could come up with 100s i reckon - Sexually explicit video footage was recorded for a bit of spice, planned for deletion and only done in the safety of homer at 8pm - Peeps who made video go out to a bar at 10 for a birthday, running late, remember that they need the device they used for to record the video because they were asked by the birthday person to take the photos for the night, and as they were all rush rush and excited about the night, the video footage, was forgttenand not deleted. - The device is being used throughout the night, swapping many hands, all looking back through the photos taken, all may see the vid, any could bluetooth it to their phone, load it on the net via email, FB, myspace, youtube, anything. - As it is a boozy bar/club night, the device could even just get lost and the person who finds it could have 6 degrees of spearation or just load on the net for kicks Any photo/video i'd allow to be taken of me, I'd want to be comfortable with then being plastered on someones internet page somewhere.... People must know the risks? but i guess when in the heat of the moments, or drunk etc no thinking is done and that is how i guess it may happen for some?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Was he wearing a WWF wrestling mask? I mean... that's how its done properly!HgsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's WWE these days not WWF --- I'll get my mask too :P Bring it on baby. A few years back i suggested the we make a porno at C.I. I even had a great script idea about a couple coming in and having intimate encounters as they progressed through the keyhole. Starts of with some voyerisum and then gradually they become more and more involved. She gets taken away and seduced by ladies, while he watches and then a couple of ladies join him, and then some big muscle guys take the girl - basically they go toe for toe on sexual encounters. then walk away with slightly wobbly legs. Had lots of people wanting to be involved. Someone offered to do the catering. There would be one copy of the video and it would only be shown at C.I ... I think that was discussed... can't remember. But it fell on it's arse. But yes I would make a porno, if i was back to my uber buff days, and I shagged hotties :P Umm who would be my co-star :PActually Stalky I had a dream about you last nigth. You use to be a 70's TV star, and were very good looking. You still remind me of Drop Dead Fred :) Yeah I did a drop dead Fred reference.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But it was his first time on video, no wonder he got it wrong.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Too many risks to make a sex tape. Look at all the celebrities who got caught. Then if you don't mind who see it, then the risk is eliminated. To each their own, but I would neve do it, especially with my body. LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
when you said "sex tape " I thought you meant the stick- to- itself tape used for bondage........it comes with pretty pictures on it to keep you amused while immobilized, altho little red hearts or barbed wire does get a bit boring to look at after awhile....just as well there is other entertainment at the time.as for sex tapes....sometimes you just have to go with the flow of the moment.......what a better way to stimulate conversation with his parents about the gay lifestyle.........OMG what was he thinking !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
it is fine, as long as faces not shown , it is totally fine. Not with a stranger though. But anyone you know its ok. I have made lots with guys and gals and no problems I just insist no photo or clip of my face in the act. I also insist my camera is used so i can delete what I dun want anyone to see. xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry for the false advertising, missbowpeek!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've made my fair share of "sex tapes". To me, it's been no big deal. I generally only make them with someone I trust, and I trust my own judgement on that. But occasionally (only occasionally!!) I'm wrong, so theres always risk. But for me, I have nothing to hide. I'm open, honest, and I just simply don't care. So I guess it all comes down to what frame of mind your friend is in. Obviously he still has something he's hiding, but maybe he's getting frustrated and wants an out? Becoming a little more carefree with his actions with lessening regard for outcomes and consequenses...what will be will be, so to speak. Who knows? End of the day though, it is his decision to live with...And funnily enough, I've never had any issues with any of my sex tapes being thrown about (that I know of atleast...), however, I have had a couple of issues with my still shots. Go figure....?! But, end of the day, I still couldn't give a rats ass. Theres more important things I can be worrying about than who happens to see my cock, or wants to pose as me on some dodgy internet site...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I could easily man the camera though...... I tend to be with Mr Thickhardcock up above. If my body was as buff as it was in my thirties....I would not have much hesitation in making, and being in a sex tape. If my family sees it? Ah well, no one would write me out of the will.....or they would have done so already. I guess if you have stuff to hide, or maybe thinking of running for PM in later life it is advisable to think these things through a little more but for me? No biggie.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If ya old enough to know the footage could end up somewhere and have no issue with it then go for it. And if he liked it he may take it up as a career. I would love to make a video with someone, volunteers? I have taken lots of pics before and had pics taken by friends during our orgies. I know that they are safe coz those friends i still speak to and respect others.
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RHP User
14 years ago
... unless of course it was one of those view and self-destruct 007 numbers! Then I would go two rounds with Daniel Craig and have fionabee film me!
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RHP User
14 years ago
But I'm not totally against the idea. In the right company. Fortunately, I am aware of all of the video in which I've played a starring role and I trust the other person who has this footage with my life. . Unless I could be certain of and have control of where said footage would screen, I would not particpate in any sex tapes. Oh and I prefer my face to be kept out of them where possible. . By the way, Missbowpeek, I saw the title and actually thought the same thing LOL. . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I'd wanted to say bondage tape, I would have bloody-well said bondage tape.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A friend of mine taped us as we were having sex and doing all kind of sexual things, BUT it was only for the 2 of us to see. He never put it on the net and then eventually he erased it. So, as fun as it was, that's exactly what it was... just for fun for the 2 of us to see. He was a decent person, and erased it, and he would never put it on the net or show anyone else for that matter. From then on, if i have any pictures taken, video or pics, no face shots, only body.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally, not always a good idea. if the relationship sours or goes wrong, what is to stop them from using said tape or photo's. because if you consented to having the photo's taken or the video shot, unless you have it in writing its for private use only, it can come back and haunt you. AND we all know of that happening, who can ever forget the Paris Hilton horror movie LOL. The above is more so when a relationship goes septic, if it turns nasty. having said that, its always in my mind about the pix and video taken by my husband, its turned a tad nasty on his part and it worries me he just might be vindictive enough to use them. I am aware he has already shown them to "friends" of his, despite being told in no uncertain terms to delete ALL of them. BUT because its not in writing, well nothing i can do as yet.It is a personal decision you make at the time, and made when you are in the good stages of the relationship, its the furtherest thing from your mind about the use of it, so each to their own, hindsight is always a good thing, shame you can't go back and undo it LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have let a playmate film us on two occassions and it was fun and watching it again is definately a huge turn on, but alas we no longer play anymore I am not worried about either of them turning up on the net. Would I do it again ?? Hell Yes but only with the right person, you need that level of trust.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I you are willing to make a tape or be on sites such as RHP then you must accept you could be exposed. If you suddenly realise friends are looking at your happy snaps take note of those who keep looking at them, if reaction is good you have more playmates if bad, hey you still had a good time making it If you are in a situation where the exposing of videos and pics would devastate your whole life don't do it. If one day your mother suddenly out of the blue asks why you didn't tell her you were gay bi or into group sex ask her what her profile is and block her lol. Did urban myths of sexual exploits ruin Richard Gere's career. A few gerbils left town and that was about it. Support your friend , yes explain pit falls, but be a friend. Also ask for role in next movie
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's definitely a bad idea with people you don't know. To be honest I am not sure I would like seeing myself have sex. It would be a little weird and I would probably be worrying how I look the whole time we were filming. I mean does my bum look big with this cock inside it? lolxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Haha! Good call by Meeka! Yes, your bum looks big but feeeeels tight. These were people he knew (also in the biblical sense!) but in some ways that's more dangerous than a stranger, like in the future jilted lover disaster that's possibly looming. That's me being "unreasonably paranoid", but I have been screwed over by people I knew and once would have almost trusted enough with a film of me acting without proper decorum. I'm just so grateful that said non-friends only have their word (whatever it's worth) that certain sexual things took place and not hard evidence. That said, my parents haven't added to their videos of me since I was in the high school musical and there's still room on the shelf for precious memories.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'missbowpeek' when you said "sex tape " I thought you meant the stick- to- itself tape used for bondage........it comes with pretty pictures on it to keep you amused while immobilized, altho little red hearts or barbed wire does get a bit boring to look at after awhile....just as well there is other entertainment at the time. Me too! I was like, "It's only a bad idea if you get it tangled in a junglesque 70s-style bush"hehehexx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Kiwi_fire'Personally, not always a good idea. if the relationship sours or goes wrong, what is to stop them from using said tape or photo's. because if you consented to having the photo's taken or the video shot, unless you have it in writing its for private use only, it can come back and haunt you. AND we all know of that happening, who can ever forget the Paris Hilton horror movie LOL. The above is more so when a relationship goes septic, if it turns nasty. having said that, its always in my mind about the pix and video taken by my husband, its turned a tad nasty on his part and it worries me he just might be vindictive enough to use them. I am aware he has already shown them to "friends" of his, despite being told in no uncertain terms to delete ALL of them. BUT because its not in writing, well nothing i can do as yet.It is a personal decision you make at the time, and made when you are in the good stages of the relationship, its the furtherest thing from your mind about the use of it, so each to their own, hindsight is always a good thing, shame you can't go back and undo it LOL. I'm sorry to hear he would stoop that low, Kiwi_fire. Yep, exactly the sort of thing I'm concerned my friend may have just signed himself up for. I just remembered that once a different friend tried to show me a sex video a younger couple made and the man put it on the internet out of spite because she broke up with him suddenly and in bad circumstances. That's as may be but it didn't give him the right to do that. When my friend told me what the video I was I refused to watch it and have a laugh at her expense. If she didn't consent to putting it on the internet then I shouldn't be watching it. As an aside my friend said it was really boring anyway. heh
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'It's definitely a bad idea with people you don't know. To be honest I am not sure I would like seeing myself have sex. It would be a little weird and I would probably be worrying how I look the whole time we were filming. I mean does my bum look big with this cock inside it? lolxxMeeka Mine didn't ... Send to receive Meeks? *evil laugh* ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have made...several...sex tapes over the years, and have to say that it is by far the horniest porn to watch back at again later... We have also been in one of 'those' horror story situations... We were broken into afew years back and had our camcorder stolen with tape inside with very explicit content, along with shitloads of graphic photos (amongst many other belongings). I guess at the end of the day my anger that someone else now has that tape has overridden any embarassment. And no, it hasn't stopped us from making more... So to the nasty, lowlife thieves that stole our stuff, I hope you got off on what you saw, that way, we win...
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