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January 26 2023

How can older people (40+) start going to parties with people more their age? And maybe not as many people??

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Ex007
2 years ago
Perhaps organise one and pop it on the events page.
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
Host your own 😊
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ddlbm
2 years ago
Look at the events page , there is an event aimed at over 40’s . We might try it out .
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OnTheJourney
2 years ago
Keen to understand the mix at clubs at the moment. Listening to the OSS pod the demographic seems younger
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RHP User
2 years ago
Honestly, as someone who started as a Unicorn at 49, I just had to brave and GO.

I went to sex clubs, Kink events and Swingers parties.

It was nerve wracking as hell, and gave me little success. At first!

But I garnered some self confidence, started to become a little recognised and have slowly made some lovely contacts.

My desire to fulfil my long-ridiculed sexuality, was stronger than my fears.

I believe that “just going” is your best way forward. As everyone has already suggested . . . choose an event from the Events Page here on RHP, then slowly join FB groups that specialise in events.

Good luck 🥰
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RHP User
2 years ago
Shame you're so far away. Would be great if there were more house parties in Perth like there use to be.
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RHP User
2 years ago
The over 40s scene is active especially in Sydney and central coast. Before we met, I lived in Sydney and met a woman who took me to a swingers party. The guests were from mid 30s to early 60s. Every one got on famously even if the younger women didn’t have sex with older men. The young guys queue up for the older women !!! Since we have been together we have been to, and hosted, parties with mixed ages. These are couples-only parties I might add. One party was where all the women were bi. MrsO only played with women that night. The clubs like OSS are well run and you can feel safe there. Having someone who keeps an eye out for you is a way to enjoy yourself. The first party we went to together there was a great guy who stayed with and chatted to MrsO when I was playing. He looked after her in more ways than one. A really nice guy.
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ComfortZone
2 years ago
Sadly it took me until the age of 58 to explore the clubs and private parties. Even as an older gent, it was a little daunting going to a club for the first time, and going alone. But glad I did as it gave me a good incite to the lifestyle. Everyone is very friendly.

I have since been to private parties that are aimed at the over 35 age group, both with a lady friend and as a single. I am reluctant to go as a single because I really felt out of place and didn't get to play.

I would really like to host parties but can't use my home, but it has got me thinking about hiring a venue???
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DonnaBrett
2 years ago
Host your own party with the select people you want. That's what we do on occasion.
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