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Sex Toys ....

November 03 2017

I’m sure this topic has been covered before but I’m curious to get perspectives on sex toys and whether people think they enhance their sexual experiences. As a single woman who has a very high libido but is very particular about who I share my body with, I have an extensive range of sex toys that I enjoy using on myself and also enjoy having them used on me by a partner (if I have one) Being the insatiable woman I am, involving sex toys in a play session with a lover means the fun can continue while my male partner recovers between sessions (for want of another term lol) I am very open about my love of all things sexual and use of sex toys with my girlfriends (who do not know I’m on this site) and whilst some are shocked about my openness, I think that they perhaps might experience better sex lives themselves if they were more willing to try new things and experiment a little. Knowing your own body and what gives the most pleasure can only be a good thing right ? I am always surprised if a man is intimidated by my toy collection as for me it’s a safe alternative to random encounters that may not result in the sexual satisfaction I crave .... and feel that they very much enhance a sex session. It’s not about the toys being able to satisfy me more than a partner, for me it’s just adding another sexy dimension. Thoughts ?

Comments

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    I found myself nodding to everything you had to say.. I don't feel intimidate one little bit by a woman having a collection of sex toys . If anything I'd enjoy the extra's as a enhancement to what's already going on. Sexy Viv.. Gotta love a thinking woman who knows her and her man's bodies that way.. I can't think of a better way to spend my recoup time then exploring with the toys.. Specially her own collection .. In fact ' I'd say my recoup time would be quicker playing around and finding the hot spots.. I have known some women who put their nose up at sex toys.. Really ? there's more to good sex than just sticking it in then wiping it.. Good for you 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Intimidation never enters my thought process at play time with added equipment The addition of exciting and stimulating toys or activities always speeds up recovery timeand keeps the energy of a great intimate encounter going. I would rather more Ladies play with favorite toys and share how they best like them used. Pleasure is the end goal, and to prolong a fantastic time is only a good thing. A real win win situation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I like that scene in Sex and The City were the character Samantha takes her broken toy back to the electric store and tells the store man the her vibrator is broken and she would like it replaced, he states :mam we do not sell vibrators it's a neck massage machine" her reply is " well sir your neck massage machine failed too get me off".He looks embarrassed and tells her to go and get another when she goes to that department there are other women looking at the neck massage machines and she tells the how too use and get off on them. The women swam around them in droves just to buy a neck massage machine. The store man is once again over whelmed by both her and the women purchasing said neck massage machine and does not know what to do!!So next time you are using our vibrator and you get caught using it just remember to tell people you had a pain in your neck that needed to be relieved.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    feel like i actually wrote this post..... i love sex toys also never to replace the real thing....love them so much i stated selling them and i was sooo disappointed that more ladies aren't open to them nor do they want to talk about them .....and i was equally surprised with the amount of women who have never used them....proud to say i have converted 1 (that i know of lol) and her and hubby are both now loving sex toys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Maybe bigbusty BBW you need to get them to watch Samantha o\in sex and the city when she has her pleasure moments with her toys and then they may see how enjoyable they can be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    not in favor of sex toys for obvious reason, when there is so many dicks around.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'bigbustyBBW' feel like i actually wrote this post..... i love sex toys also never to replace the real thing....love them so much i stated selling them and i was sooo disappointed that more ladies aren't open to them nor do they want to talk about them .....and i was equally surprised with the amount of women who have never used them....proud to say i have converted 1 (that i know of lol) and her and hubby are both now loving sex toys Through a long complicated process, I ended up persuading a lady I'd never met before (in Scotland) to buy herself a vibrator. Her comment "Jimmy, what have you done to me? I can't keep my hands off my pussy". Made me happy - first toy in 68 years. Within days she got a second one for her other orifice. Appy daze

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    When sex toys weren't in our play!!! Mr LAL loves watching me use them, uses them on me when he is having a rest, and loves including them while we are having sex. For me..... I love the different dimension they add to our play, and as Mr LAL is away from home often, I still get to enjoy a fabulous romantic interlude with myself whenever needed 😆 Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have my own too but have not yet been in the situation where I have used them combined with a partner. Of course I have been with others that have used theirs as part of the play or as a warm up (aka loosen up to speak crudely). Others have toys but tend to ditch them when they have the real thing on hand :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Wife and I like sex toys not for myself but Do use vibrator on wife at different times and positions and does add to a great climax for her which all us guys strive for .We say keep open mind and its the end result that counts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The wonderful thing about sex.... There are no rules... only our hangups... I lost those at a very young under the tutelage of wonderful older women... who taught me to how pleasure them. When we make love with a woman and not "TO" ... anything you both enjoy goes...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    a huge collection of toys and various implements. I suppose part of my fascination is the voyeurism aspect. I love watching a woman pleasuring herself (and no Im not too lazy to do it myself) Variety is the spice of life after all and anything designed to create pleasure cant be a bad thing can it?! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    i have a small collection but would love to know everyones opinions on best places to get your toys from? i got one from in sydney once and didnt last long at all. but a cheaper one i got is still going strong.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'josh23till23' i have a small collection but would love to know everyones opinions on best places to get your toys from? i got one from in sydney once and didnt last long at all. but a cheaper one i got is still going strong. I mostly buy online its cheaper and I try to buy reviewed products that have high ratings. If I find something I want I just price compare through various sites till I find the cheapest option.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Great topic.I am interested in what women consider the best type of sex toy as I am looking to buy for massages I give to women and couples.Appreciate your advice