Security measures while playing

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  MissBishere

  12 years ago

  I have some yes but am not going to share them. I would suggest if you declare them you change them up as once "they" ( the bad people) know them they can work them into any scenario and find work arounds. Don't be predictable or have a patern is my advice. And trust your gut and your dog! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I dont date RHP members ! That's my security right there!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Trust your gut first and foremost, if you think you need seriously heightened security measures compared to a normal date- are you really comfortable with that person? Always have your first meet in public, text as many details as possible to a reliable friend, maybe even text a friend during the date from a quiet spot- while your date is grabbing drinks or similar just to say hey it's all good or otherwise. And as missB said, change things up. Meet on your terms too, (in your case) a guy who is unwilling to change from their chosen itinerary is a massive security risk. A decent guy will understand your concerns and will try to alleviate them rather than ignore or heighten them

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  From all your forum posts lately CnC, you seem to be doing quite well in keeping yourself "busy" and obviously safe. Just keep doing what you're doing. L

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Kizza1973' I dont date RHP members ! That's my security right there! Howabout a little shag then

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You will keep till drinks night. What i meant to say ,is i have been dating in real life But not dating RHP members hahaha You have met me you know what im like mwahahahahAnd i dont do "little"

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  that I have handcuffs, a flogger and a big black strap on and I'm not afraid to use them.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  - I will only meet in a public place on a first date, and always a place I'm familiar with. (Don't want to have to figure out where the exits are, etc.) - I will never accept a drink from a stranger unless I've seen it being poured/made. - I will not have sex with anyone on the first date. Sometimes it takes me until the next morning to decide if I want to see someone again. - I watch my alcohol intake. - I usually mention a friend of mine knows where I am and with who. (Even if it's not true). - I trust my gut. It's pretty spot on. - I won't let a guy drive me home, know my address, etc. I will tell men I live near the airport, and that's as specific as I'll get. - I'm not afraid to tell a guy I'm just not feeling it. I've heard from many women they are afraid to say no for fear of being rude etc. I've told more than one guy: I had a lovely time, and though I don't think we have enough chemistry for a second date, it was great meeting you". I don't think there's anything rude about that. . Hope this is of some help.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I know you wont accept 1 drink of a stranger , your more like a 6 drinks of a stranger kinda girl mwhaha x Ok to be serious for a sec.... Its great to see women taking steps to protect them self if they do meet someone new.As a guy i can understand how hard it must be for a lady to meet some random guy of the googlenet!Put yourself first lady's ,don't feel like your being silly in taking steps to ensure your safety. Honestly i think drinks night are probably the best way to meet people in a safe environment ,there is no expectations and you can meet more than one person in the flesh! Ohh and Paint me i have seen that black flogger and handcuffs of yours,i think you even wacked me with the flogger at drinks nigh.Thank gawd i have never seen that strap on ,id dial 000

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Missb72' I have some yes but am not going to share them. I would suggest if you declare them you change them up as once "they" ( the bad people) know them they can work them into any scenario and find work arounds. Don't be predictable or have a patern is my advice. And trust your gut and your dog! - Posted from rhpmobile Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Great advice.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  years ago in pp work - that's personal protection, even people who were paying the $ to be looked after didn't listen to what they were told to do. IE: common sense, how to secure them self, identity or otherwise. Simple stuff like route planning, change your noticeable habits, particularly if someone has picked you up on that already It's a jungle out there. Sad but true. There's more good than bad in the community though, you only hear of the shit, and the shit that they want you to hear.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Men should be worried about meeting me just as much as the other way around. I have weapons and I'm not afraid to use them. What is this grave imbalance we have here? Do none of you chicks know how to hurt someone? Taking my tongue out of my cheek though... Women can be stalkers too you know!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I'm in a similar industry, with some other bits and pieces thrown in, and it amazes me how cavalier some people are with their personal safety or that of their family or business. I lost a client because he wouldn't allow my team to carry firearms while protecting his kids. Apparently, possibly seeing a concealed firearm is scarier than kidnapping or worse. Was a big money job but I refuse to work for idiots. Moral of the story, it's better to be paranoid and breathing than carefree and not.

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