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Screen shot your private album
January 01 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's easier to have photos handy in order to recognise someone you've not met in person before. Especially when your first meet is in a crowded place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't say anything on the net that you wouldn't shout out in the street.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm sorry you had to find out the hard way that on the internet "private" means absolutely nothing. Everything you put online is fair game to everyone, and out there for all eternity.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks Solitary Yeah I just realised My mistake I think I’m a little nieve and expect people to be nice Oh well I’ll learn
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m weird... I reckon if someone is that desperate to wanna go to that much trouble to screenshot my ugly mug, they deserve all the nausea it causes 😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
As said above... Sadly, too often discretion is a thing spoken about more than acted upon. Peachy, I am a lot more conscious about what I choose to share these days
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Being violated would not be a nice feeling. Good for you for asking him to delete it. Sadly, many do not respect other people's privacy nor do they totally get what privacy actually is. You are very lucky it was a photo and not vindictive gossip or something like that. It is "The Smiling Assassin", who are the ones to watch out for. Hope you feel better soon. Ms Foxy x
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
So you gave him access to the pictures and the same picture was on his phone (how was the privacy breached)??? Was he sharing those pictures with others? If not I think the couple in question did not breach any privacy laws. I'm sorry but I do not agree with your sentiments.
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squirty_vixen
7 years ago
The male of the couple was flicking through couples pg photos while telling a story about how he screen shots them to show his mates at work, so I agree with the OP`sentiments. There was a new law past in WA in June I think to deal with re sharing of sexual images that you are sent with out consent. Criminal Law Amendment (Intimate Images) Bill 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
In my opinion, saving a permanent screenshot of what is supposed to be a temporary privilege in the sharing of a photo from a private album is beyond the permission implied. Peachy, the man had a chance to share his reasons and doesn't seem to have? Only the OP can say.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PartyOrg' So you gave him access to the pictures and the same picture was on his phone (how was the privacy breached)??? Was he sharing those pictures with others? If not I think the couple in question did not breach any privacy laws. I'm sorry but I do not agree with your sentiments. In the idea of discretion & sharing 'private' albums with people who then take and keep a 'permanent' screenshot. The ability of removing private album access then becomes moot. I might have asked to see the wife's phone too. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Apparently I feel the need to repeat myself excessively, lol. Very Sorry about that PartyOrg. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Peachypearl you totally get it thanks Partyorg the person in question had mentioned earlier in the night he shows his friends Couples he is meeting 😡 hopefully I didn’t give him a chance to show his mates If you screenshot a profile picture and didn’t show me I wouldn’t know but he insisted on showing me because my hair colour changed 😤 But I have now realised nobody can be trusted.
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bonefide
7 years ago
What a arsehole, hope this hasn’t put you both off your new journey. So wrong on many levels, thanks for sharing, security - safety should never be taken for granted. Happy New Years to you both. Stand tall walk proud.
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3SM_Events
7 years ago
We thought the whole idea of a private album was to allow temporary access to people to view pics. Not for someone to screenshot and keep on their mobile phone for eternity. It’s a matter of respect above all else.
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
There is no need for name calling. This is a forum and the whole idea of this forum is to chat about subject matters with the idea of positivity and mental growth. I'm sure you have better ways to express your feelings than to name call. Also you might like to know Rusty is considered a friend of the group having attended our events in the past, I was merely giving another angle to the debate. Sharing unauthorised pictures is a big no NO
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
What difference does it make where you see the pictures in the private album or in the gallery of you phone. What had been seen has been seen and can not be undone. A nice way to counter this, and I always recommend it. Use one gallery for pictures that you would share on Facebook instagram or any social media platform. Keep the other gallery for naughties with blurred out faces and any visible markings.
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Mask_007
7 years ago
That is wrong. I think he should at least apologize. That is so wrong.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi Rusty, I totally get what you're saying here. Though it wasn't your privacy so much he/they had breached, it was your trust (and that line it so thin it's almost one and the same)... and there's the real issue.. You called him out for doing it and good on you for standing up for yourself as a couple.. PartyOrg is also correct though too in that what you've shared, you've shared, but giving more context into what they were doing with your pictures would piss anyone off. He/they chose to show others what you had trusted to only show them. Some are more open to their swinging lifestyle and some are more private about it. There's no right or wrong, it's just a matter of each couples perspective on it that feels right for them. Good point on discussion Rusty and thanks for sharing that with us because it does make us more cautious now on who we give access to our PG to also. That's why we like to meet at PartyOrg events, Infusions or Wyld Partys.. You want to see our faces, that's where we'll be. :-)) Mr Kitty.. x
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bonefide
7 years ago
Comment was in support of Rusty, along with your comment on privacy, and being liberated. I fairdinkum own my comment, if you felt affended then I apologise.
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
How many of you guys regularly turn off access to your private gallery?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Once you post it to the web.... you’ve lost control over it. You can be angry all you like but to be ignorant of the nature of photo sharing is only the fault of the photo loader.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Any new meets I screenshot profile details and pic to my bestie. Also contact details. If something's happens to me she can forward to the police. If you worry about your pics then perhaps think about why you are here. My screenshots are never circulated beyond what l described but assume nothing from people you have never met.
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RHP User
7 years ago
To you people out there that write on your profile about you Don’t appove of a institution using what you have on your profile Explain what the difference is to screenshot of private photos?? I did not send to this couple on there phone I put on RHP in my private album for them to see if there Was a connection NOT to keep
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3SM_Events
7 years ago
We do. After every party we hold.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Rusty is damn right to have been incensed and to have asked the idiot to delete the pic. That kind of disregard for our implied but generally shared understanding of privacy and discretion warrants being insta-blocked. Imo this is less about whether any law was breached and more about demonstrating questionable character and complete lack of discretion. And it’s creepy behaviour. On the upside, better to find this out *before* you get naked with/invite someone into your home. And as others have commented here, also a useful reminder to have two different sets of private pics: G-rated face shots and R/X-rated face-less shots.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PartyOrg' How many of you guys regularly turn off access to your private gallery? When we were more active onsite it would only be people we were currently friendly with or interested in. No one has access these days because there is nothing private about it this thread demonstrates. Regardless though, there is 'discretion' to be practiced and I don't expect my private sharing to be shared any further as this thread has demonstrated can easily happen. Red Flag Alert, Peachy
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
Many or most people do not bother turning off access to their private gallery once permission is granted. There is a very small percentage of people that do. Take control and follow the suggestions I have provided earlier on in this thread. Learn from other people's mistakes and try repeating them for yourselves. So as I recently learnt from another user on rhp, screen shots can be taken using iPhones on the app. It doesn't work on Samsung and other Android systems.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I have a Samsung phone and tablet and can screen shot anything on both. And yes, everyone should regularly review who has private gallery access. When I am actively seeking and chatting to people and share pics, if I don't hear back from them within 24 hours access it automatically removed. People I see often don't need pic access either, so I let them know I'll probably remove it at some stage. OP... not a pleasant experience. Don't know if I am more peeved about the screen shots, or the fact he was sharing it with mates at work. Talk about being a dickwad. Was the wife aware of what he does?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi MsJonsey Thanks and yes his wife was there sitting next to him when I was asking Why she just sat there and said nothing 😔 Partyorg The photo is something that I have on my Facebook I don’t have any photos in my Pri are album that I couldn’t share... what my issue is I don’t give anyone the right to screen shot my photos and being on this site I was under the impression that Private album was Private we only share our face shots to see if there is a connection... if no connection I remove access only my friends have access So again Stupid Me..
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Forus1234
7 years ago
It’s totally disrespectful & a major violation of your privacy. You should be able to name & shame on this site! Wasnt there a new law past in Nov 2017 (gaol time) for people who forwarded or showed pics without the original takers permission? You hear of this happening more frequently on this site. Good riddance to bad eggs, who wants to be involved with people who do this? Can’t be trusted!!
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Forus1234
7 years ago
We find it quite creepy, that people would want screenshot peoples’ face photos in private galleries. Not your average behaviour!
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
Clearly I don't know how to take a screen shot then. When I try to do so on my Samsung it says, 'can not take screen shot due to privacy policy'
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
Clearly I don't know how to take a screen shot then. When I try to do so on my Samsung it says, 'can not take screen shot due to privacy policy'
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225Special
7 years ago
We normally just open the app when looking for people we have arranged to meet. Can see their point for screen shotting for ease, if it is only used for that reason and then deleted then probably fair enough. BUT, to take that photo and show your work mates, a definate no, no!!Wonder how old mate would feel if one of his work mates said " Found this older woman on RHP and she goes off in the sack" , then was shown a photo of his mum?
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Party Org Don't tell me the useless piece of shite that is the app actually has one good thing about it now?!?! I deleted it ages ago, as it was not worth the effort and angst.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would never use pictures on RHP that I use on social media. Reverse image search could identify you too easily. My RHP pics are RHP only, including face pics. As Annie mentioned above, I send a trusted friend details of new people I am meeting including a clear face pic. In the event of something going wrong she is aware to follow up with the police. I normally request one on kik camera and advise the person why I am asking. If they refuse, no problems, I won't meet them. Too easy. However the distinction between safety and bragging to your mates is not lost on me. His behaviour is not acceptable in my book and I am sorry you experienced this. And yes, I remove access to my photos on RHP. People know if they like what they see, want to chat further and meet. And as I normally move the convo to kik I can share photos there.
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RHP User
7 years ago
That takes screenshots, but I log into the desktop version. I hate the app.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Although I appreciate the opinion of the original post from RUSTY, and can empathise with your feelings, I guess this and the "#METOO" movement have allow a pandora's box of legalities to surface. The fact that you allowed access to a "private gallery" could be seen as giving 'carte blanc' permission. IT's not necessarily right, but at law it could be argued. It is now a consideration that ANYONE who deviates from the norm of "society" must consider. There is a well know actor(not going to name him) who is being pursued for supposedly 'putting his hands down a waiter's pants and fondling him at a supported launch party. The current defense arguement that is being lauded in court is that the victim was not heard to say that "it is not consent" or clear consent in the form of - " I do NOT consent to this occuring". I know it is a point of arguement, but the way laws are going, and especially following the examples of the good US of A ......precedents, Consent even between couples who are married may need to proven by written agreement. THAT is everytime an act occurs..........I know it's over the top. I am not arguing the legalities "per se" but rather if you choose to live in this scene you really need to assess and be VERY clear -what terms this occurs on, and then think through the bigger picture of how you choose to ensure that YOUR rights are observed and not voilated!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I met a guy awhile ago and he took screenshots of my private album before I closed it again. He proceeded to share it around at work. I just happened to know a guy that works with him. Only to have an extremely embarrassing encounter with the mutual person. I confronted the guy (via text) and he pretended to not know my mate & then blocked me We are all here for the same thing but if people can’t be discreet and respect others privacy this site will no longer serve its purpose. Yes I evaluate my private albums regularly. And I have nothing but my face in mine. But I also have very distinguishing tattoos. If you have to get permission from people in a gym to take & share their photos why would anyone think it’s ok to share or save someone’s pictures on here without permission?? Sorry Party .org I do not agree with you
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
Please note my comments were made before it OP said the pictures were shared. There is absolutely no room for sharing pictures without the permission. All im suggesting is take all the necessary precautions to cover yourself, protect yourself and think about the pictures you post on rhp or any social media. Take the "risk" out of it or minimise it the best you can.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think if he was showing anyone else then that is a problem but he could also just show people his phone with your private gallery open. I don't feel he has done anything wrong at all
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RHP User
7 years ago
As somebody who has had private photos shared to social media previously, I think it is absolutely unethical to screenshot or saved somebodies private gallery regardless of the legalities. As Daddys_toy mentions above, we are all here for the same thing. If the privacy and boundaries of members can't be respected then people will not feel safe using the site & sharing their personal photos/ information.
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RHP User
7 years ago
To share your private pic's & entrust that they will be appreciated for all the right reasons takes faith from the person doing so!! To think that a little man wif even a littler dick is sharing wif his mates is deplorable.. "A Dog act" !!! We will admit though, on occasion we have screen shot a profile & text it to each other should we have received interest from another member... only to say hey babe what ya think? Interested 👍🤗 Ok ill reply back 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
Trust strangers on the internet? No thanks. Basically anything you put on here, expect that anyone can and will share it. We’ve only put up stuff that we’re comfortable with if it leaked
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PartyOrg'There is absolutely no room for sharing pictures without the permission. All im suggesting is take all the necessary precautions to cover yourself, protect yourself and think about the pictures you post on rhp or any social media. Take the "risk" out of it or minimise it the best you can. I absolutely agree with this PartyOrg, it took a few lessons to realise how small a place Perth is early on and a warning from a male friend of how easy it is for identifiable pics to be shared through my innocent generosity and made to be more of than they were. After all, it's not really the face pic that's the issue entirely here I guess but that it's connected to RHP via the screen shot. How to share with discretion in mind would make a valuable topic. A much older topic pointed out how easily our pics can be read for the data they contain including location. I try to remember to turn location off on the phone these days or share pics from when I'm out. Peachy, so many facets
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RHP User
7 years ago
From the moment you share your reserved pic. with some anonimous people you must know what can be happen, and this is one face of the medal but not problem, however, if you know this games, to be discreet and respectful is the first rule, so, from 0 to 10 how idiot he was been to make two enormous mistakes: Save the pic and than show to her For me is 10/10
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imjustmetassie
7 years ago
we have on our profile we dont do face pics on here......i have dealt with this couple from tassie on another site.... he wanted me to meet him alone and he was told nooooo several times.......today he msgs me again wanting face pics i said no againlater tonight i get this vicious msg calling me a slut and all this other stuffthese low life scums are a waste of air that do this and yes im willing to name and shame this mornington couple
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RHP User
7 years ago
Would say this screen shot thing would happen way more to us all more than we think,not sure on how to monitor it,just try and form a better relationship before they are passed on,then they might play fair.
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RHP User
7 years ago
She said her private gallery was face pics only. Why would he share that? He screenshot it so he didn't have to look at the profile. You guys always go off on some tangent
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah you basically assume that your pics are free for all once you up load them, being in a PG just means not everyone can get at them.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sooo much whinging and loaning about a nothing subject... welcome to the world you live in hahaha
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you comftable putting it on the net fair game. Just don't have your face in the pics where anyone can recognise you.
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usrightnow_Again
7 years ago
It comes down to respect I guess. I see the point of view that says a Private Gallery is opened as a privilege and can be closed. Perhaps have the first Private Album as one type of shots and the other, after greater trust has been gained, as another? As an aside, and perhaps worth a thought. During 2016 and early 2017, our photos were repeatedly used by other profiles. These were photos in our Public Album. We were not the only ones that encountered this problem. One of the suggestions made by rhp. at the time, was to watermark your photos. This is a kind of protection, when they are strategically watermarked, however, it does tie the photos to you. We began the arduous process of watermarking all 150 of our photos, yes, we had all three Albums full. We then began removing those not watermarked and replacing them with those that were. During that process, we decided to leave the site, early last year we returned, however, decided we would not load photos up again. It's worth being mindful that not all people think as you do, nor act appropriately, so, be cautious and enjoy what is a rather special site. Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Tentacle' She said her private gallery was face pics only. Why would he share that? He screenshot it so he didn't have to look at the profile. You guys always go off on some tangent A later post did clarify he'd been showing it to friends and there are plenty of comments in reply to that you must have missed. Cheers, Peachy, I do love tangents though!!!
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Perfect timing I can totally relate to the dialemma about your pics, so sorry to read about what you and Mrs. urn. . experienced, I had no idea. Cheers Lily :-)
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Rubyt25
7 years ago
Rusty, firstly I want to validate two things, the feelings you justifiably both felt, violated and very angry. Secondly, after reading your OP, I did a google search to check if watermarking our pics/images constitutes copyrights, doesn't seem so, apart from watermarking not sure what constitutes copyright for this dilemma, worth checking that out perhaps. No guarantees, of course, there will always be some human beings that exhibit opportunistic ulterior motives. .Thirdly unbeknownst to me, my public gallery pics were copied, or screenshot ending up publicly scrutinised, the obsessive and obnoxious twat behaviours left me wary hence I now have zero pics on my profile. One amusing aspect of the scenario was what my computer screen was showing in the background; it was the time from another state, not the weather as was publicly mentioned, as we all know the correct time is in the bottom right-hand corner of our screens — the irony of obsessive scrutinising of pics.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've just uploaded a new pic and I don't know if you've noticed a couple of my other pics have my profile name on them. It could be a thing that ends up being more negative than I mean by identifying my self with my profile but I'll live with it, lol. I almost wish I could say I knew someone has used my photos for the sheer flattery of it, but whew in reality! That's a thought... Who has reverse searched their own photos??? I guess though, there is more certainty to the validity of the pic if it is Watermarked. Peachy, only prepared to upload 'public' pics knowing full well they could be shared anywhere. Sorry OP, I know that isn't the basis of you topic
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rupamohan
7 years ago
If this is your definition of violated feel lucky that you don't know who else must be violating you..else you will be angry all the times. Anything you share online has potential to travel far...wrongly or rightly. Evaluate your risks and see what is worth for you. Separate nudes and unmasked pics, that way even if your pics travels, it doesn't collaborate anything. Don't use social media pic here, though at the moment it is not that easy to do image search as some here think.
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RHP User
7 years ago
recently happened to me but in an online forum, was only because a kik freind knew it was my pic and this person i had given acess to my pic had gone and shared my boob photo in a public group titled 'guess the tits'. i was then notified by my freind. he was part of a couple and she was mortified and he refused to even open my message or apologise. i feel bad that my pic cause the couple to fight but i do believe privacy should be respected even if you did give that person acess to it. sorry you felt violated lovely its definantley not a nice feeling!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Never send a private pics to a stranger with a face shot.. no no.. send dick , pussy , tits ,who cares ,but when full package on the shot, you become a unique product, and you violated your owrn self.. hope you be carefull next time..
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s just wrong taking a screen shot of someone’s photos is like kidnapping appart of them, makes me cringe
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s a bed story. I’m always concerned about showing my face photos for this exact reason...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why is there a need to send face pics to anyone its easier to meet Anyone that displays face pics or asks for them is probably up to something with them
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'liketowatchus2' Why is there a need to send face pics to anyone its easier to meet Anyone that displays face pics or asks for them is probably up to something with themyAre you in touch with reality?How time consuming or maybe desperate does one have to be to agree to meet with everyone to see what they look like to see if there is attraction? It's one of the most ridiculous statements I've read for a while.I value my time and preferences for whom l meet and maybe have sex with. Even with face pics supplied it's hard to fully gauge. But to meet all the hopefuls who refuse to supply the basic requirements of a simple face pic......
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RHP User
7 years ago
I sent a guy a video of myself which he later told me he used to get his girlfriend horny before they had sex. His profile said he was single. I was furious and would not meet him. It wouldn’t occur to me to show something intimate like that without permission. I actually specify that I don’t want to see sex pics or videos, it’s not my business who you fuck.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Even tho you didn't meet him after you sent the video, the owners and accountability is on you for sending. You gave him that video, he then had ownership of it because you did not state "no permission to share" or state your rights to its privacy. It is public knowledge in this digital age, that videos, pics etc can be spread easily. You took that risk. An option you can take is report it to authorities. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Limited contacts would make that a very reachable goal Annie. I know I used to rely on cock pics which was not a reliable gauge and I always used to wonder about how I'd go not worrying about face pics onsite. After all, our first experience from a newspaper add had no pics and rates incredibly high in our experiences. With pics it would have been a no. And pics these days are not reliable things, anyone can take picture of a person and post it with a profile! A video chat comes across as the best option to settle between realism and potential full on fake shit. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Apparently they were comparing who they were meeting
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