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Scars ...
January 28 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your scar is part of you, and you as the complete package is a lovely person, So easy to say dont worry about it, but we women do! I have pregnancy stetch marks which Im very self conscious about, even though they are a by product of having my amazing child, but luckily it doesnt seem to have bothered anyone who has seen them. Just enjoy your rocking new look! xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
...help make you who you are, they are evidence of your experiences in life, good or bad. If someone had a scar, old or recent, I would do the old "kiss it better" trick, just to show that I acknowledge it as part of themselves. But I'm lucky to have no real (physical) scars, as my life has been fairly uneventful. The typical bumps, cuts and bruises generally don't leave anything permanent.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is the person sporting those scars that count. I hope that the man I'm with is beyond looking at such minor things. That my "personality" overrides my physical appearance. Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
It sounds like you have found a solution to covering your scar in a way that leaves you feeling sexy, nothing wrong with that, in time you will probably become adjusted to your scar and won't be as self conscious about it, probably around the same time you find a lover who will kiss and love your scar for being part of you! I just had a skin cancer removed from my nose, scary shit, not so much the cancer thing, I was fortunate it wasn't a melanoma but it still had to be removed. It was the vanity thing. Leading up to the surgery, I was very matter of fact, it had to be done, no getting around it and I would live with the consequences, very brave, but really just putting those niggly fears into the back of my mind. The surgery went well, they got it all, but it was a much bigger cut than anticipated, still being brave though, I posted my face on facebook as a reminder to my young friends of the dangers of chasing the perfect tan. Well, the next day I woke and my face resembled a smashed crab, swollen face, black eyes and what I saw as the biggest wound right in the middle of my face. I cried all day. Not good, not good at all, it was a very dark day for me, It finally had hit me, I was going to have deal with a scar on my face for the rest of my life. I could feel myself sinking into a self imposed hole of darkness. But I'm a stubborn one and quite resilient, I know myself well enough that if I had continued to feel sorry for myself, I would just end up depressed and hide from the world. I wasn't going to let that happen! I told the family we were going out, went and had a shower, put my lippy on, hat and sunnies and off we went. We had a fabulous day, went to the lotus pond, caught up with friends at an art event in the parklands and got on with life. I had a few double takes, but I was rocking a gorgeous sailor dress! It wasn't so bad and those that did see what was under the glasses and hat reassured me. So we are now two weeks down the track, all bruising and swelling gone, stitches out and they did an amazing job. While I still have to tape the scar during the day, I can cover it with make up and it is barely visible. I am getting used to it and you know what? It's not that bad, oh and Chicks dig scars
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RHP User
11 years ago
From an adventurous childhood with multiple accidents to stretch marks and caesarean scars from two pregnancies. Not one of my fwb has made me feel less for them. In fact, I had an interesting time outlining the stories attached to each one with a playmate on one occasion. I can be self conscious of them but I can't change them and as mentioned above, it's a part of who we are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
they are cool :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would like to think that guys like scars as much as the women and guys understand what has been endured and overcome with those scars. Cheers, W
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flawless, pearl white skin. I also expect to win the lotto. Maybe I should put my entries in for the lotto and stop chasing Asians?
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RHP User
11 years ago
they are all so unique and tell a story which is usually a great insight into who is wearing them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A sign your living life, we all have them. Every guy thats circumcised is testimony to that! LOL (Some scars bigger than others) - Posted from rhpmobile
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precious142
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' they are all so unique and tell a story which is usually a great insight into who is wearing them. I have learnt to live with mine, but it can take time.........hell, if I could cash them all in I would be a rich bitch!!!!
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Rocknminx, I hear you, a very special friend had exactly the same thing 12 months ago, a very speedy recovery and please take care 😘 thank you all for your lovely insights, my scar does tell my story of my liberation from a particular body part that was both painful physically and emotionally. I do love the new me, scar and all! Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are all over my body, I just say I used to be a knife fighter back in the day
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Flawless, pearl white skin. I also expect to win the lotto. Maybe I should put my entries in for the lotto and stop chasing Asians? You know we Asians are exotic and irresistible. So why fight it? Just give in to your fantasy Luke.... Lol. But like anything, men can't get enough of us. Like Chinese banquet, you feast on us like mad and satiate your needs and so it seems, Give it an hour, you are hungry for us again...
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RHP User
11 years ago
they are part of the road map of your life. I have a couple of whoppas and dont care who sees them or what they think about them....
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
Everyone has scars and skin bemuses. Except when they have been airbrushed out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are an indicator of your mileage. I have them on my left elbow, both knees, three fingers, both sets of knuckles, my spine, both eyebrows and earlobe. And shaping up for another spinal one in a fortnight. Oh, and also on my 'lower abdomen'. Nothing wrong with them. Each one tells a story... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Twisted mister. Wishing you as painless recovery as possible and a speedy one. You're too far away for me to drop off a casserole but sending hugs and kisses your way. Mary xx
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MissBishere
11 years ago
is the type that scars really badly, which totally sucks. I have surgery scars and lots of stretch marks from kids. My arse actually has a very nearly scar but no one has ever complained or cringed at them, well not that I know of anyway. I do love to hear the stories behind how people got their scars.
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IamMrSilly
11 years ago
For me my scars (and I have a few) are part of my life story the same as my small number of tattoos. Wouldn't remove them for anything.... and often spend quite a lengthy amount of time explaining them if asked. :) oh and I LOVE it when someone is paying so much attention to me that they notice them! shows they care about you and where you came from.. in my opinion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Too hot in Darwin for casseroles but I appreciate it - a cool drink of water will do me just fine! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You know what's funny? I have a C-section scar and all the usual stretchmarks that come from having children, as well as any number of other little scars... and not once in my life have I ever stopped to think what my partner/lover might think of them. Not once! Not till I read Bazingal's comment (mentioning a C-section). I guess I really couldn't care less - I love my body, I love how it feels, I love what it does, and I'm proud of all it's done during my life. Anyone worth a second glance will be far more interested in the come hither look in a girl's eyes than in her scars, as far as I'm concerned. And for my part - if I'm getting intimate with someone, I'm going to be too busy dancing with pleasure to waste a moment thinking about my (or their) perfect imperfections. Scars are a complete non-event. What's really interesting, is if the body bearing them revels in the freedom of uninhibited fun 😊
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry about the physical scars, they can provide interesting stories. I have a large L shaped one on my back, from the time I was mauled by the tiger. It's the emotional scarring you need to be wary of. Please don't make any growling sounds.
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
great topic.... Mrs Cheeky has scars on her tummy.. the photos we take do not seem to show up the scars on her stomach. She will get self conscious if wearing a bikini top around people whom she doesnt know... One of the scars she has is a big smile scar as she had to have a c-section with our last child, no option there.... the other scars are not a big, however she knows that they are there... Scars are apart of you... there is a story behind every scar, so wear them with pride. If a person doesnt like you for a scar then move on... I havent met a perfect person yet and some of these people dont have scars. Good on you for making the decision to have a tummy tuck and by the sounds of it you are very happy... love your work. S
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I know someone who had tummy surgery and kept picking at their dry scabs after ... Was effin grosssssss and vile watching them do it...YUCK! (even tho I suggested to stop, seek medical advice and keep it covered to heal faster) they just ignored- now scar is apparently terrible. Well anyways Hope your heals well Mary. Foxy x
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Seachange73
11 years ago
hope your scars heal well and definitely boosts that self confidence more after a successful operation. I do have scars from stretchmarks (having very above average sized babies 9 pounds+) and c-section scars. It is part of me and I do get self conscious at times but none of my lovers have made a big deal of it. only 1 haws asked me and I told him. He was cool withi it. However, I have ongoing bruises and scars from my chosen field of sports which is contact sports (boxing, martial arts and muay thai). I sport one or two bruises almost every week, a few times a black eye but most can be hidden well under a suit and make up. Last week, I have sustained a big kick on the leg from a guy during our sparing session (not meant to be full contact) and as the pads only cover the shins, the blue/black bruise is quite prominent on my right leg just above the knee, the size of a cricket ball. My colleagues have joked that I had another domestic fight at home. But it happens all the time I sometimes forget.. so here's hoping to see your wonderful improved Mary at the next Meet and Greet!!!
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Foxxxxy I have missed you 😘 no scab picker her, ewww alright. I'm doing everything I can for scar management, so I've not had any infections and using the silicon tape/ointment to reduce scar tissue and improve scar appearance. I've invested a lot of money and will do everything to ensure a great end result, I'm well and truly on my way. Thank you lily, I'm lucky my playmates are beautiful, it's not a big deal to them , I love that 😍. Im always pretty happy and confident but I do think I have an extra zing in my step since the surgery, definitely physically improved ( though hubby says I was perfect before surgery too) 😘 Mr cheeky, mwah gorgeous, lovely words. Mary xx
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Hottie1
11 years ago
When treated right I make my own unique growling sounds , come here tiger 😜 Mary xx
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On_Safari
11 years ago
My scar is more visible still than the other lady who had similar procedure done BUT I haven't tended to mine with silicone tape like she did. It'll fade in time like all the others. As for men seeing me naked, not one has said it isn't beautiful but then they seem to get me.....I usually forewarn them about the knife fight I had with a dozen bikers and how I came out on top!! Haha or how I was chewed by a shark and it spat me out after I stuck my fingers through and destroyed it's gill plates. I've got quite a few scars, some of them very visible.....but I've found the ones you can't see tend to run deeper and have more an impact on you and your outlook on life in general. But those scars are only revealed to a few.....and not always as understood. Still, some knife fights are funnier than others 😉 in my experience.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
And a few small parts are completely gone. (Shrugs) can't be going too bad I guess. 😃
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Thank you. :) Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
a part of who you are, only shallow people would be bothered by them...
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LifeUnscripted
11 years ago
Are fantastic. They are like roadmaps on the skin, give you something to follow with fingers, lips and tongues. ;) Very much a fan. Best part is that each one is the mark of a life well lived. - Posted from rhpmobile
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