Same sex fantasies

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  its 100% normal to fantasise about same sex relations, and absolutely insurprising that you might be inclined to explore the reality of these fantasies. its all good, normal and totally understandable. dont at 21 be too quick to label yourself as one thing or another, not when you may only still be exploring the options you have in front of you. just relax, have fun, explore and learn.... make a decision when your heart tells you that the choice for you is at hand......you will know........

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I have had fantasies about women and followed them through. I have had nothing but wonderful experiences although I am not gay. I don't think one has to be gay to enjoy women. Unless you don't enjoy men, in which case, yep, you may be gay.Experiment, follow through on some of those fantasies, and have fun working it out!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'mikeandshel'its 100% normal to fantasise about same sex relations, and absolutely insurprising that you might be inclined to explore the reality of these fantasies. its all good, normal and totally understandable. dont at 21 be too quick to label yourself as one thing or another, not when you may only still be exploring the options you have in front of you. just relax, have fun, explore and learn.... make a decision when your heart tells you that the choice for you is at hand......you will know........

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Cant say i have ever thought about having sex with another guy.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Neither of us have ...we are very happy with the opposite sex!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hey Shani, I would say same sex fantasies are very common for women. This doesn't mean that you are gay and it may not even mean that you are bi-sexual, it may just be something that turns you on. I agree with irresponsibility you can enjoy being with women just for the experience and because it feels good. As for my experiences - yes I fantasies about women & I watch lesbian porn, I have even been with a woman or two and no doubt will be again. But I feel straight though and I would say my natural inclination is definitely for men. I could never give up men's bodies. Sometimes these things are meant to stay as fantasies and sometimes not. As shel says don't worry about trying to fit yourself into a label. That is just going limit your fun. As long as you stay safe you should experiment and try what ever feels good at the time. I wish I had at your age. :-) Good luck with it gorgeous! xx Meeka

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ...if I was a woman I would be soooo gay! haaa

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For example Meeks says she is straight prefers men as her main diet and women as a occasional treat, which is quite acceptable and same applies for men. That does not make anyone Gay / Lesbian / Homosexual, as these three the primary preference is same sex. Except for certain brands of motorbikes can definiately turn one gay! Bisexual is quite different I do not see how admitting to your self you are Bisexual limits your play, I would have thought the opposite. Once you accept within your self that you like playing with the same sex as a occasional treat it would be more enjoyable. Primary dersire = Opposite sex.............= Staight Optional secondary desire = Same sex....=Bisexual My feeling is by not admitting to yourself you are Bisexual there is some type inner reconciliation missing? So whats wrong with applying words in the Dictionery to your sexual desires. And whats this "Experimental" whats that catering for?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  To me, experimental means you are willing to try most things. Whether that means same sex play or A wide variety of kinky play. As for putting labels on your sexuality, well I think if you start with the premise that you are gay or straight that limits your thinking & your experimentation. To me, being turned on by a certain type of porn or fantasies doesn't necessarily mean anything. People can be turned on by the most outrageous things but would never consider doing it themselves :-) Justenough are you saying that I should consider myself bisexual rather than straight? You might be right.... I never say never. Meeka

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  "gay" bikes? are they the 'pink'ones then? the ones you ride sidesaddle? i dont ride anything under 1700cc's these days,,,so you cant mean me can you?

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