RHP

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Safe oral sex

May 14 2010

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I was reading a forum topic the other day dealing with the use of condoms as opposed to bareback. Lots of opinions from both sides of the argument and some very valid points of view. I am curious as to the opinion on oral sex. It seems to me that most deem this to be a 'safe' practice in it's unprotected form (I'm talking of those I have encountered in the swinging scene) and yet as I read through articles from professional bodies,, they implore us to use condoms or dams when performing oral. Gonorrhea can apparently live quite happily in the mucous lining of our throats, as can chlamydia, and HPV. Syphilis can inhabit the mouth as well as the genital tract and so the sorry litany goes on. Is it acceptable in the swinging fraternity to insist on the use of protective devices or is this 'frowned' upon as being somehow overly paranoid and detrimental to the 'pleasure' of the occasion. With STI's on the increase yet again, what is the answer and how do we pursue our swinging lifestyle with pleasure and responsibility shared in equal measure. Your thoughts please....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Geez i was just having lunch..Now i think i will throw up !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You can also pass on HIV if you have bleeding gums (not uncommon for HIV sufferers) and an exposed wound on your genitals.. say from bighting or prolonged friction for example. Definitely not a safe practice and nobody wants to use a dental dam or go down on a latex covered dick. The only positive response to all of this is to get yourself tested very regularly. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Some of us have a latex fetish! Hmmm, love licking rubber. Condoms kinda suck to suck though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i think im just gunna give up sucking cock....seems safer roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'geturroxyoff' i think im just gunna give up sucking cock....seems safer roxxy xxx Don't do it Roxy, we need your talented services.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    It's something we think about and we all should be aware of. It does seem though that the swinging fraternity in general (of course there's always exceptions to the rule) do the right thing and are aware off the pitfalls. Because this is a regular way of life for all of us and 'most' people are decent & responsible we would hope that everyone keeps these problems in mind & acts responsibly. Swinging is probably safer in these aspects then say people going to nightclubs & getting rolling drunk or high on drugs and then just mindlessly screwing nightly pick-ups with no thought of protection or consequences. For these people there are no come backs and if they give "anything" to others they don't care. Couples & girls in our scene we would think are most particular about their sexual health. The single guys (or married guys being dishonest to wives tsk tsk) out there we would also hope keep all this in mind. You guys are onto a good thing (ie: more action than the average man on on street LOL)...don't fuck it up for yourselves by being irresponsible & endangering other's health, because in all likely-hood your name would end up mud.Your thoughts...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Everyone just has to keepca look out for there own and other peoples safty. I've never had any oral sex so I don't know what it's like so I don't try to look for some chick to do that to me or for me to do that to her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'thegardener68' Quoting 'geturroxyoff' i think im just gunna give up sucking cock....seems safer roxxy xxx Don't do it Roxy, we need your talented services. and talented i am im told hahaha fucking men will say anything to get laid lol roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    WELL THATS IT OMG WHAT A TURN OFF!!! Back to jenstas playtime safe to pleasure myself!!! Life without good sex is WRONG!!! U know what, could get hit by a bus too, Safe sex is fine but 4 oral omg cant be the same!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As the proverb goes - still to the basic dafety. Pleasure remains the same in either case. Its the mindset that requires a change.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am really really good at putting a condom on with my mouth as I am giving him oral !! It is a great gift to have and most guys don't realise it until the deed is done .... no way am I putting my health at risk for a random!! xFunlovingx