RHP

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SINGLE GUYS!

September 10 2011

Why is it sooooooooooooooo hard to talk to girls when you are a single guy? Yeah some are shy and have know idea what to say! And yes im sure some are just players....thanks dickheads!!!! For giving the genuin guys a bad name!!!! But if a guy sends a msg, why doesnt it get a reply???? I think its just a nice thing to do! Lol i bet i get hardly any responses to this because there is so many people that do it! Ive done it.....but i dont anymore......its a shit thing to do!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You'll get heaps of responses, but most of them will criticise you for being a whinger or that ladies can choose whether or not to respond and most won't if you don't meet any of their criteria or look like a serial killer... then you'll get a few people agreeing with you and bitching about this place being too hard to pick up in, and lastly someone will moan about how the 'I'm a single male and noone replies to me' topic has been done to death a million times but never solved.. . I belong to that last camp.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    what camp I belong to, but geez your cock curves upwards Hey ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Your not shy at all I know that and you seem to have alot to say... and you are getting response even from a female...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nice work DGT, nice work indeed! *big grin*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    as a new pick up line....................."Hi, my cock curves upward, great for hitting your Geeeeeeeeeee spot" hehehehe.....sorry, feeling a tad giggley this morning. Too much bubbley last night maybe.     Ok, in all seriousness Strider, single women and couples get a lot of flirts and messages from single guys. I have a life and don't have a PA. Also, if you are not what i'm looking for i just move on. If you're in this for a relationship fine but if you're in this for a bit of slap and tickle then you have about 10 seconds to impress while they quickly look at your pics and skim over what you've written in your profile. If nothing clicks they just move on. It's just sex after all. No response is a response in itself, it's a "thanks but no thanks" response. What is the difference between that and an official, in writting "Thanks but no thanks"?. I don't understand. That they actually bothered to make the same effort you did in sending the message or flirt? Are you THAT needy? Honey honestly, take all this with a grain of salt. It's nothing personal, it's just a fuck. xxgoodgrl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'Nice work DGT, nice work indeed! *big grin* If there was ever one that was built to spec. that would be it . Mrs.Peachy you need to get back your viewing pleasure

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Every one of you girls above. Poor guy. Now you know that there is more to a man than a cock that curves upwards.....but much can be forgiven if he does have the goods. How many topics need to be posted about how we ladies dont like cock shots before you get the message? Well spotted DGT

  • mistakenidentity

    mistakenidentity

    14 years ago

    I don't think your "about me" in your profile actually says much worth reading apart from the first sentence and the last... the middle?? why do girl need to be told you earn enough to travel? sure shift work might play a part but all I see is... Im single, yes single.......looking to settle down, but hey....havnt met the right girl yet! ~ blah blah blah ~Im very very sexual, but not a pushy idiot like soooo many guys out there these days! I know that NO MEANS NO! Age isnt a concern.....just looking for fun!On a positive the face picture is a big bonus in my books... your a real person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'There's a reason single girls are single... and it has nothing to do with you. It's comments like this that start all the negative crap on these forums.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dear Strider Surely there are plenty of women to give your attention to and those who are attentive to your messages are worth your time. Focus on the good ones... xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'miss_bbw' Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'There's a reason single girls are single... and it has nothing to do with you. It's comments like this that start all the negative crap on these forums. ...that should do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...anyway and have one of those funny shaped ones too. It looks a lot like a Lelo Gigi...or so I am told. One of these days I might just put a cock shot up here too since all these women that don't like looking at them seem to find the rather interesting in spite of them being shy too. | I guess maybe you just have to remember women are people too and just go from there. They are really busy on this site and there was nothing in the contract about having to answer every message...at least not in the one I signed. It beats the hell out of having them hang up on you when you call them... | ...I didn't know you could slam the receiver down on an iPhone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....and in all honesty I don't think that a shift worker from central Qld who wants to find someone to settle down with will be in high demand. The women on the forums have almost unanimously voted honesty is the best policy and while I admire the honesty in your profile perhaps a little more subtlety is required. I don't know what you put in your messages but if it is anything like your profile you may want to try a different approach.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'looking2try3'Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.BraeGeez Brae, you don't have to put it the whole way in I know I know, it's dead tempting lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have never been textbook in my life. Wait a tick, just checking for an approx distance..................................................................about an inch and a 1/2 (3.81cm) But i promise you B, if you curve your finger slightly upward and imagine lots of in/outing it tickles the g-spot. Trust me, i have a vagina Quoting 'looking2try3'Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !..BraeJust sayin It feels damn good and if it is inserted and withdrawn enough times, surely a girl can get lucky and that g spot will be hit. If not, maybe we could practise a bit more until we get it right.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Shallow fucking is a lost art. Guys don't seem to be able to put up with it for long before they want to "go for gold" and launch a depth charger and "dive! dive! dive!" I did try once to sit on top of him and just go to my perfect gspot depth and just bounce away up there but the cheeky fucker pulled me down in the end. And you know me better than anyone else does B, it's a BIG ask for me to be in a dominant position. I have tried every which way but they always thwart my efforts! Backing onto them doggie style or on my back with them on their knees and my legs over theirs, you name it, i've tried it but they won't let me finnish!!!! aarrgghh!!! Such a shame to waste a curvy one. Curved either to the left or right doesn't make any difference to me but upward curves are a real treat. sigh....in the end i just went the toy or middle finger route. Had the same effect without the frustration. xx goodgrl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'D_G_T' Quoting 'looking2try3'Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.BraeGeez Brae, you don't have to put it the whole way in I know I know, it's dead tempting lmaoLMAO !!!!! Can't blame a bloke for trying though!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !..BraeJust sayin It feels damn good and if it is inserted and withdrawn enough times, surely a girl can get lucky and that g spot will be hit. If not, maybe we could practise a bit more until we get it right. I am with you Fi, can't hurt to practice huh ! And the tree ..... well it is little wonder Focus grew up such a cheeky minx ! .Brae ....oh maybe it can hurt ....size dependent !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The one thing you got right is: YOU CAN THANK THE DICKHEADS for ruining it for honest well meaning guys. They have made it hard for you and us...We've been on the receiving end of these drop kicks that many times we have now become very defensive and our guard is always up whenever we receive any messages from the single and the not so single guys.. ( married and out to stuff it for everybody else )So dont blame couples or females for ignoring you... blame the dickheads...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Having a freaking acid flashback, or is this thread really bloody pretty. . taste the rainbow people . Ahhhh Mrs. Peachy, are your eyes curving upwards at all yet ? xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    That's terrible Mrs P! It can't be me can it? :) hehehe Oooh the power!!!! muahahahaha!!! Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Quoting 'D_G_T' Having a freaking acid flashback, or is this thread really bloody pretty. . taste the rainbow people . Ahhhh Mrs. Peachy, are your eyes curving upwards at all yet ? xx Ima gonna blame GoodGirl for the predominance of orange... Good work girl! And the rest of ya... keep it up! You sure do stand out from the rest! You specially Strider... I sure hope we see a lot more of you in the forums. Hugs yas... Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...is such a loverly colour. That's what happens when you quote a quote with quote and leave your tag open.   And yes...go one post below and we know who did it...Punkin Pie?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This is my last try..................... Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' I have never been textbook in my life. Wait a tick, just checking for an approx distance..................................................................about an inch and a 1/2 (3.81cm) But i promise you B, if you curve your finger slightly upward and imagine lots of in/outing it tickles the g-spot. Trust me, i have a vagina Quoting 'looking2try3'Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' You'll get heaps of responses, but most of them will criticise you for being a whinger or that ladies can choose whether or not to respond and most won't if you don't meet any of their criteria or look like a serial killer... then you'll get a few people agreeing with you and bitching about this place being too hard to pick up in, and lastly someone will moan about how the 'I'm a single male and noone replies to me' topic has been done to death a million times but never solved.. . I belong to that last camp. Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' Dear Strider Surely there are plenty of women to give your attention to and those who are attentive to your messages are worth your time. Focus on the good ones... xxx This is my last try..................... Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' I have never been textbook in my life. Wait a tick, just checking for an approx distance..................................................................about an inch and a 1/2 (3.81cm) But i promise you B, if you curve your finger slightly upward and imagine lots of in/outing it tickles the g-spot. Trust me, i have a vagina Quoting 'looking2try3'Goodgrlz the Gspot I am told reliably by the SBS documentary last night "the female orgasm" that the GSPOT is only a few centimetres inside the wall of the vagina in fact remarkable close to the opening! I watched women with speculums inspecting and finding their gspots no less ! .So I must disagree a long bendy cock seems not to be much help in finding a gspot at all !.Just sayin.Brae Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' Dear Strider Surely there are plenty of women to give your attention to and those who are attentive to your messages are worth your time. Focus on the good ones... xxx Quoting 'Jean_Girard' You'll get heaps of responses, but most of them will criticise you for being a whinger or that ladies can choose whether or not to respond and most won't if you don't meet any of their criteria or look like a serial killer... then you'll get a few people agreeing with you and bitching about this place being too hard to pick up in, and lastly someone will moan about how the 'I'm a single male and noone replies to me' topic has been done to death a million times but never solved.. . I belong to that last camp.I'm done.....you broke it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Seriously...orange? | Next time your break it...can we do blue?   Why is it sooooooooooooooo hard to talk to girls when you are a single guy? Yeah some are shy and have know idea what to say! And yes im sure some are just players....thanks dickheads!!!! For giving the genuin guys a bad name!!!! But if a guy sends a msg, why doesnt it get a reply???? I think its just a nice thing to do! Lol i bet i get hardly any responses to this because there is so many people that do it! Ive done it.....but i dont anymore......its a shit thing to do!   Email: Not Listed Phone: Not Listed       Jean_Girard      M 36yrs Kurunjang Sep 10, 2011 Report Abuse | Reply with Quote | Reply Not true.... You'll get heaps of responses, but most of them will criticise you for being a whinger or that ladies can choose whether or not to respond and most won't if you don't meet any of their criteria or look like a serial killer... then you'll get a few people agreeing with you and bitching about this place being too hard to pick up in, and lastly someone will moan about how the 'I'm a single male and noone replies to me' topic has been done to death a million times but never solved.. . I belong to that last camp.   Email: Not Listed Phone: Not Listed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....I need a panadol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...blue is a nice colour.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Come on...ya know ya wanna? Please?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Orange...pffft. Next time try chartruese.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Now which is it CM? Make up your mind!!!! sheesh! xx Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'Orange...pffft. Next time try chartruese.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Why is it sooooooooooooooo hard to talk to girls when you are a single guy? .. It isn't. It's like buying a house. You have to browse at least 100 potentials first. . And yes im sure some are just players....thanks dickheads!!!! For giving the genuin guys a bad name!!!! . No, it really isn't about that either. Plenty of times, the lovely non-player and genuine guy will have the capacity to be a dickhead too. Stereotypical male generalisations won't help. . But if a guy sends a msg, why doesnt it get a reply???? . I always reply to messages, even those that come from "dickheads" and "players". I don't discriminate LOL. I figure it's just good manners, but as others have said, maybe it's the content of your messages that is letting you down ... . Lol i bet i get hardly any responses to this because there is so many people that do it! . More generalisations. This subject has been done to death. Perhaps I belong in the last camp too. .. Hey CM, I once had this little orange ... Oh nevermind... Just fix the damn thread and get on with it! Aren't you very busy??? . Flirty x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Now, how are you with those other little odd jobs I could do with getting done and dusted?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You can colour me anything...just colour me, please?   Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Now which is it CM? Make up your mind!!!! sheesh! xx Now about that tape....ohhhh it hurts soooo good.     MrsP ...I liked that style of country too. | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Today's googling larned me that while 'Blue' was written for Patsy, she died before it could be recorded. It seems the version that I've been listening to for years is actually sung by LeAnn Rimes. | Try this one.... www.youtube.com/watch?v=RICeErc0ni8 ...it might just de-Smurf ya. | Go on... ya know ya wanna.     And as for you young lady... | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'Now, how are you with those other little odd jobs I could do with getting done and dusted? Even it it ain't broke...I can still "fix it". | | Damn...I think I accidentally stayed on topic too? I have to stop that or I'll get bit in the ass again...but even if they turn you orange or make you blue, women are just people too. Well all except for Flirty... | ...she's a animinimanimal. | | Do I hear a buzzzzzzzzzing in the background?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Anything to make you happy xo Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' You can colour me anything...just colour me, please?   Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Now which is it CM? Make up your mind!!!! sheesh! xx Now about that tape....ohhhh it hurts soooo good.     MrsP ...I liked that style of country too. | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Today's googling larned me that while 'Blue' was written for Patsy, she died before it could be recorded. It seems the version that I've been listening to for years is actually sung by LeAnn Rimes. | Try this one.... www.youtube.com/watch?v=RICeErc0ni8 ...it might just de-Smurf ya. | Go on... ya know ya wanna.     And as for you young lady... | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'Now, how are you with those other little odd jobs I could do with getting done and dusted? Even it it ain't broke...I can still "fix it". | | Damn...I think I accidentally stayed on topic too? I have to stop that or I'll get bit in the ass again...but even if they turn you orange or make you blue, women are just people too. Well all except for Flirty... | ...she's a animinimanimal. | | Do I hear a buzzzzzzzzzing in the background?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think somebody needs her cute chartreuse ass baptized... | Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Anything to make you happy xo | There's a reason for all those silk ropes in between the pews....bring them with ya and remember you said "anything". | We talkin' my "anything" or yours...I'm a good boy too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ok Mr Mills & Boon.....watcha got huh? My arse IS particularly cute lately too but i've already been baptized...oh, you didn't mean THAT kind of baptism? Rope huh? Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I think somebody needs her cute chartreuse ass baptized... | Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Anything to make you happy xo | There's a reason for all those silk ropes in between the pews....bring them with ya and remember you said "anything". | We talkin' my "anything" or yours...I'm a good boy too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....you almost broke it again, but it looks kinda cute there where it says "Quoting" over your name. Who says ya ain't got the juice...as it were, and no I won't fix it. | Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Ok Mr Mills & Boon.....watcha got huh? | All this stuff about General Mills and Daniel Boone....sheesh, like I sit around eating my breakfast cereal wearing a funny fur hat with ear flaps? It was that evil albeit delectable tart DGT that started it and that gorgeous ass munchkin Meeka that stuck me with the name. Not sure you were back from your hiatus then but its here... www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Power-of-the-Naughty-Word-32751 | Now be a really good little girl, read and do your homework...we can talk about the chartreuse goose that's part of the ritual. At least blush and pretend you haven't done "that" yet? | Ropes...what ropes? I'm heading to Bunnings. | | Meet ya in the plumbing section...nobody likes leaky pipes, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If you get a message which is just saying "hi" to break the ice as oppose to "lets fuck"the really is it that hard to reply back?If a guy when to the effort of actually reading your entire profile and constructed a message and you are not interested, is it really that hard to say "no thanks"???I guess there are some dicks (being males) and I'm sure there is the occasional females there too who ruin the site for majority with their immature antics. I guess being mature in mind set is a different kettle of fish to being just 18+

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It is difficult because you make it soooooo difficult. Get some social skills dude. Stop being afraid to crash and burn. Really, there are no "genuine guys" that's just a mind block, mental amour incase you catch a round in the chest from a pretty girl and they all laugh. I is one that is also in a lot of other people's heads too. Point to the "genuine guys" dude. They aren’t there. They never were. A guy can be "genuine" one day and canned fish the next. All because of mental stories. Show me how that lone label covers the complexity of who we really are, from minute-to-minute. A lot of your attitude towards other males taking away the fantasy of a "good name" is again just mind stuff. And it’s in the road of results ONLY found in the real world. That’s where the rubber hits the road, come and see. It’s where the latex pushes into the pussy. That's real. Talk of why this or that won’t, or can’t, or shouldn’t happen to your perfection is nuts. Most women just don't like to be weighed down dude. They stand in groups and giggle, waiting for you to get out of your head and into them. The skills come from knowing what blew you off last time. And guys who know this like for you to stay in your head, because it reduces your on-field play down to a couple of bad passes and then the bench. Women want real world fun and lightness. They mostly like the well-supported weight of a body, not the heaviness of morose thoughts. In your head where you are missing out, you are defeated. Guys without it are parting pussy lips. Are YOUR results in the smiles of the ladies who come to you? Maybe occasionally when she did it for you, but mostly all there is here is talk pf why you can't. Is it about how you are unhappy with a car you won't start and drive to where it happens. You think yourself out of the pleasure and the joy before you turn the key to go there. And it shows, because when you take that junk thought anywhere near a women, funny, she doesn’t like it. Confidence is the power of doing what you want without the loss of pre-conceived thoughts erroding that powerful stuff. Standing in front of womanhood while you are in your head will see you miss the fun in her voice, the tiny come-ons she gives off and why exactly does it have to be like that? Because storm clouds in your head put a raincoat over your perception and you don't feel the warmth of summer rain as it happens. Don’t get to sucking my dick honey, I’m worried and not here with you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Being that 'Upset = expectation not met'. You may have to lower your expectations so you experience less upset. Perhaps especially in websites generally, as they are merely a model of reality. Be Cool.