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Running into someone you know well on here

May 01 2010

Not so long ago we were checkin out the single girls wanting couples menu and without knowing at the time that one of the profiles we were looking at is a very good friend of ours lol, so we thought we would put it out there and ask has it happened to you. One thing for sure is i'd rather it be a friends profile than our mum&dads lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    shh but i have 5 really good social friends known from way before the advent of rhp and 1 family member (yes my mum) that I know of on here and it doesnt bother any of us. guess if they are going to accept you as a friend in their life they will accept all aspects of you helps that we are all open about what we are doing between us anyway. i have been recognised by an old school colleague also from many moons ago and they just had a laugh about it. everyone is here for one reason or another kisses focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Had the same thing happen but turned in around. So, we know each other and now WE know more about each other and are interested otherwise we would never have been here. What does it matter? We are both looking and this is between consenting adults.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have always been worried about running into people I know on these sites, but as Mr pointed out.. Well they are here for the same reason so why be embarrassed.... To date (not that we have met anyone in real life) we have not seen a profile of anyone we know, but I guess what Mr says makes sense..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ages ago checked out a couples profile....... no face pics, but recognised the tatts...... it was my cousin and her then partner!!! pretty embarrassing, but we kept it between ourselves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I checked out this guy who's pics I liked, so I emailled. He twigged before me - we went to school together, worse than that (on my part) we were in the same social group at school, spent many drunken nights in the same company. Doh! Glad I didn't show gallery number 2!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    All my friends know I am a deviate. Who cares who knows, the embarrasment is all theirs. If you want to be covert, this aint the place. Expose yourself...

  • mistakenidentity

    mistakenidentity

    16 years ago

    My husband and I emailed a couple and got the reply "sorry my partner works with your wife, we'd prefer not to take this further as it could cause some discomfort" Really it just racked my brains for four days trying to work out WHO it was until the partner messaged us and said... "I fixed your PC a number of time and wouldn't have picked you'd be a swinger" So glad he messaged back lol otherwise I would have looked at every male at work with different eyes LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well said,all our friend know that we couldn't give a f@#$K if they saw us on here,being open to your wants and need with sex is the best thing, we had one of our girl friends walk in on us once,what a good night that turned out to be,leave the door open from now on and curtins

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'I checked out this guy who's pics I liked, so I emailled. He twigged before me - we went to school together, worse than that (on my part) we were in the same social group at school, spent many drunken nights in the same company. Doh! Glad I didn't show gallery number 2! Gallarys 1 & 2 are a very good idea,we only have the 1 which has everything on it and yep thats the one we sent and thats when the reply came back ,we both are still laughing about it still to this day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There is a chick on here I went to school with and wow she was hot back then but now WOW is all I can say we spoke about it had a giggle then that was it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'kittyneedsum27'ages ago checked out a couples profile....... no face pics, but recognised the tatts...... it was my cousin and her then partner!!! pretty embarrassing, but we kept it between ourselves. In some states its fine to check out ya cousin lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'focusliason' shh but i have 5 really good social friends known from way before the advent of rhp and 1 family member (yes my mum) that I know of on here and it doesnt bother any of us. guess if they are going to accept you as a friend in their life they will accept all aspects of you helps that we are all open about what we are doing between us anyway. i have been recognised by an old school colleague also from many moons ago and they just had a laugh about it. everyone is here for one reason or another kisses focusMy mum used to pick up my mates at the pub,so if i saw her on here i wouldn't be suprised (if ya out there mum,i still think ya rock)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A guy that I blocked after meeting him on another site came on to the next site I went on but he didn't recognise me He kept sending me messages and asking why I didn't reply. RHP is much better and I really like it here so I hope he doesn't find this site too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I actually know two or three people on this site IRL, but I am doing my damnedest to make sure they don't recognise me.