M56
Rude Or Not ???
December 29 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have sent 4,263 messages Reply Rate: 126% I have received 5,369 messages I have sent 388 flirts Reply Rate: 1,041% I have received 4,038 flirts Ya kinda get a bit over it. Just sayin
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hog Day! (⊙＿⊙)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sweetheart you always answer my messages - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Perhaps the recipients, of your unsolicited messages, don't reply because they don't want to receive messages from single males and have made this clear within their profile wording? Remember that there is no onus, on anyone, to reply to any unwanted messages. Just as no means no. Subtlety and a gentle approach is important we feel. Being pushy with messages including photos of cocks, does not always go down well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' Perhaps the recipients, of your unsolicited messages, don't reply because they don't want to receive messages from single males and have made this clear within their profile wording? Or....perhaps he has an eye for the less-than-genuine profiles........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't take it personally. Unfortunately the male flying solo is in over supply, so couples and females receive waaay more mail than you and I could dream of, so much so that even for some writing 'thanks but no-thanks' to every message could simply take them more time than they have. The mail system here tells you if the recipient has read it, so if they've read it and not replied I assume the answer is no and move on, no big deal. Even if your profile maybe a match to theirs, it doesn't mean you're what they're looking for, it's not necessarily saying you're a bad person or a negative thing about you, just stay positive and carry on. If someone's interested, they'll let you know... Cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
and I was a little shocked when I viewed my own stats...that is a lot of message writing! I have sent10,780 messagesReply Rate: 100%I have received10,754 messagesI have sent10 flirtsReply Rate: 14,140%I have received1,414 flirts
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can you see a shadow Meeka ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
As we have not received an unsolicited message from the OP we would not really know. Nor would you for that matter. We receive messages from "males" daily together with their opened PG's full of penis photos. Clearly they have not bothered to read our profile with regards us NOT being interested in single males. Either that or they are simply taking a chance and or don't respect our wishes. Initially we used to be courteous and reply to all messages, but it becomes a bit much sometimes and these days we tend to ignore them. On the subject of less than genuine profiles, there are plenty of fake ones on here. Ours is verified, what you see, in our photos, are the real deal. We are verified and have been to several social meet n greets over the past 22 months. In fact going to a private party on NYE with a few couples from here. But hey, if you think we are fake then that's your opinion. Whatever floats your boat . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
May stats look tame compared to RalfI have sent 5,535 messagesReply Rate: 99%I have received 5,461 messagesI have sent 367 flirtsReply Rate: 411%I have received 1,508 flirts But then again I am just a man... LOL I so much want to get to 100% but I can stop my self replying, dam it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My not May
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RHP User
11 years ago
LookingForMore96 You would think that with this subject coming up once or twice a week I would get bored with the manatomy. But no! Tho I am over being nice, so am just telling it as i see it. OP you are on a sex site, I have no clue what you write, but your profile is bland. You are just another grey ghost in a faceless crowed of sex starved guys. Nothing about your profile makes anyone want to know more. Why should anyone bother replying to yet another same old same old. Nobody owes you anything just because you have written to them. Its not rude, it is just indifference. You are just a profile, one of millions, and they have their lives. You might think that its nothing to type a thank you. But think about it, how many thank you's would you do before you start to find it a chore. You just pop in to have a look, see your inbox full, have a quick scan, someone catches your eye, then you completely forget all the rest. Its not rude, time is precious especially if you are busy working on attracting someone you are interested in. You want replies then stand out above the rest, be someone that is noticed not forgotten. Nobody is being rude on purpose, its just that you are invisible in the crowd.
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
Since we are all engrossed in stats consider this 18,736 messagesReply Rate: 71%I have received13,387 messagesI have sent7,143 flirtsReply Rate: 38%I have received2,729 flirts and tell me why the reply rate is meaningless??
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madotara69
11 years ago
Received 2,437,000 messages, replied 3, slow typer, but they turned up on time. Each time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is what it is .Would you be excited to meet you after reading your profile?xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure what the time is over but I have been here 4 years lol Fuck you're busy. So what is your day time job again
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RHP User
11 years ago
And again there is nothing wrong with saying " thanks but no thanks" but obviously YOU cant be bothered to do that on your own self Blindman67......................... maybe get your own glasses checked !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In all honesty !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not exactly sure whom you think you are but there is absolutely nothing wrong with manners? Do you know who I am ??????????????? I'm guessing not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!So how dare you come out with such a forked tongue Maybe you should get to know a person before you come out with such a thing with a vile mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
And i think we have our answer why no one replies OP.... When i look at profiles i also read past forum posts. That last response to blindman is a keeper. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do I know who I am? Deep, Who Am I? I will have to ponder that. I don't know who you are, not a clue, but you sound a little prickly. I totally agree manners is important. Part of good manners is not drawing conclusions and making assumptions. If you care to reread my post you will see i made no assumption as to you as a person, I simply pointed out that your profile was bland. Which it is. That you are but one profile in millions, which is again true. I tried to explain that people are not rude when they don't reply. Being rude requires deliberate action, not noticing you is not a deliberate action. I also gave you a simple tip to try and help you improve your chances. I will now say that the tone of your OP lacked manners, it was presumptuous, judgmental, and border line misogynistic. I chose to ignore that. But rather than taking in what others have said and replying with a thank you, you spit exclamation marks, call me names, and show not a hint of manners, poise, or dignity. Touché. Do I know who you are? Can I say that you are a nice guy that got out of the wrong side of bed and I hope you have a better day tomorrow.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been participating in this online 'dating' life for about 6 months now, and I was initially as frustrated as OP, however after many hundreds of messages, only 10% or less of which would get a response, and of those responses only a few were positive and even fewer have led to meetings, (those have been fantastic btw...you know who you are) I have learnt several things that I'll state here. OP, you can ignore them, blast me for stating them, or accept and let it go: 1) the ratio of solo guys to solo girls is about 1 to a gazillion; to couples it is only slightly less at 1:1,000,000 2) in an average hour, any lady can receive upwards of 250 views, and 50, 100 or more messages, and don't even bother with counting winks; 3) even with extra 'standout' highlighting for having a higher membership level, you'll still get 'lost in the crowd'. So what can you do about this? Only 2 things: 1) Stand out from the crowd with your initial message; really stand out with great words, questions and of course a picture; and 2) Let it go; accept that very few people will respond to you, and move on. Just my 2 cents. SS
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