Return to previous couple where the guy has a penis that doesn’t satisfy

September 29 2024

This is more for the ladies to answer, if you have an encounter with a couple, and the males penis size isn’t what it’s cut out to be, would you take one for the team and meet up with that couple again?.. (I know men can think they have a penis size bigger than it actually is, or can do other things to satisfy a lady)

Comments

  • Alexis

    Alexis

    3 months ago

    I don’t really think anyone should ever “take one for the team” when it comes to sex.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 months ago

    Nope

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    3 months ago

    I have never tried in my head to figure out what the measurements are of a penis that’s in front of me. And then go back to their profile to check it against the stated size there. What would be the logical reason for that.
    I just know whether I had a really good time with another couple or not.
    Whether I feel we had fun with a couple depends on many factors, such as were they really nice and fun people, were they uninhibited, were they stable with each other (as in didn’t create awkward moments because they might not have been on the same page with each other), did they include my partner the same as me (for my hit of compersion), was the guy a good kisser and did he try to make me cum (make an effort/was he a good lover) and lastly - did my partner enjoy himself.
    So there are lots of factors. Penis size is not one of them.

  • Apples_N_Oranges

    Apples_N_Oranges

    3 months ago

    Take one for the team - NO!

    We know couples who have met with other couples via RHP/in this lifestyle, became friends as they enjoy each others personalities and regularly catch up, but have never played due to not finding the overall physical attraction/sexual chemistry.

    Unless you/they are open to another arrangement such as just the female joining you and your partner, we can’t see this progressing any further.

    You mentioned men thinking they have a penis size bigger than it actually is. We actually think it’s more often the opposite, we have come across more men who are either happy with what they have or are very self co-conscious/hyper aware of thier penis being small.

    Guess you have a hard decision to make and one that your partner may not be happy with, but should understand and respect your decision.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    3 months ago

    Nope.
    What does the team get out of it if you’re not happy? Trust your gut

  • wanderlustQLD

    wanderlustQLD

    3 months ago

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  • Ex007

    Ex007

    3 months ago

    If there was no mutual gratification, that would be a no thank you.

  • Obi1kenietzsche

    Obi1kenietzsche

    3 months ago

    “The penis doth not maketh the Man”
    (Jenifer of Nazareth, year 26 BC)
    ** But historical records indicate she changed her mind sometime after 32 BBC.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 months ago

    No... whats the point if theres no attraction.. This is why we insist on meeting and chatting before anything ... You can learn alot over a few drinks plus it gives you a chance to go home and discuss wether its a goer or not..
    If one of us dont feel it.... We leave it there...

  • Ourmalibu

    Ourmalibu

    3 months ago

    We’d never take one for the team.
    And we’re more interested in how the other people makes us feel, if the attraction is there and if we’ve all clicked. Not the size of a penis.

  • TheMinx

    TheMinx

    3 months ago

    Why would you have "pity sex".
    It's not fair for all that is involved. Just be honest and jog on. We're all adults.

    No pleasure in pity sex surprised your partner has not picked up on the signs.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    3 months ago

    There is silicone sleeves that can fit any average size penis to any size,
    You could have one in a nice box in your handbag and the choice of $10 up to $200 ensure a win win solution.

    Would you take one for the team if the guy underestimated and measured in as 11 or so inches ?

    Mado
    Mado Tara xx

  • SydFembino

    SydFembino

    3 months ago

    Not a lady, but as a femboy it mainly depends on both of them. If the girl dosent take much of an active role and its more like the guy just gets to be with two girls (in my case a femboy) I won't go back. But if its like an actual threesome and we all make an effort to have fun I don't mind if the penis cant satisfy because I know I will feel good from other things too

  • AllNightAlbs

    AllNightAlbs

    2 months ago

    We are strong believers in no one taking one for the team. We both have to be attracted to everyone and both have to enjoy the sex for repeat play to occur. What makes us attracted to someone is varied and doesn’t always factor around penis size but if the sex isn’t enjoyable for whatever reason then we don’t go back to it. After all we’re not there for solely an emotional connection, an emotional connection with a sexy connection sure. For those saying penis size doesn’t matter… half true half not, size, ability to use it, energy, talent in other areas etc. but if the overall experience isn’t great for both of you.. then call it let them know politely it wasn’t the right fit and move on. X

  • WolfandKitten

    WolfandKitten

    2 months ago

    One of our rules is no one takes one for the team. So to answer your question... No, don't take One for the team. The goal is quality over quantity when it comes to interactions with others.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    2 months ago

    Like a quick snack before dinner.

  • eventhorizon

    eventhorizon

    2 months ago

    First world problems...

  • JansenTega

    JansenTega

    2 months ago

    If you are hung up on the size then find a suitable player. It's as simple as that. Probably one of the last things considered by us in a couple interaction tbh . Other things are just as important for mutual fun for us but if you aren't having fun them probably then answer is obvious

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 months ago

    Hunny that’s a push back right there! In the end the amount of work you have to put in does.not get same put out ,