M51
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January 29 2025
Always wondered what needs to be said to a woman to get their attention and to also keep the conversation going
As I'm usually polite and straight to the point most times
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Opalrose
a month ago
Considering most messages are ‘hi’, anything more than that is best.
Saying things like ‘let me know where you sit so I can sniff the seat’ or ‘where are you right now before I make it my mission to find you’ or ‘have to admit I’ve already cum to your pics’ are straight to the point but you shouldn’t go that way either.
Read their profile. Find something to acknowledge you’ve read it. Ask questions. Tell them about yourself. Make a joke.
Pangolin28
a month ago
Seems it isn't really about what you say polite or otherwise. Just need to write to the lass here that relates and digs you. Can take quite some time and many messages or you can strike it lucky and find her very quickly. Just perseverance basically
Flirty2020
a month ago
So you are asking for “templated” comments so as to increase your chances of scoring on here, even if you don’t mean what you write or the templated comments don’t really apply to the woman / women that you are sending unsolicited messages to ?
So is this about telling them what you / others believe that they want to hear, even if you don’t mean it, simply to get lucky?
NeoAndTrin
a month ago
Step 1. Have the body and face of a Greek god.
Step 2. Be verified
Step 3. Read their profile and then compose a sonnet in iambic pentameter that focuses on the key words in their bio.
Simples.
Ex007
a month ago
The way your profile is written is off putting. It resembles a check sheet. 1 photo isn't going to get you far.
Speaking for myself I do not fraternise with anyone who is married.
Search the forums for profile tips there would be thousands of them.
Ex🐈⬛
Blueflamingo
a month ago
Listen, pay attention to details, remember conversation and ask genuine questions.
If this dont come natural and you have to pretend all this, shes obviously not the right match for you.
MsSuperFoxy
a month ago
MOST times? Dude it has to be ALL the time, not "most".
If you can talk to coworkers, family, waiters etc respectfully and you know how too, theres no reason why you cant to talk women in the same way. If she likes you she will engage back. If she doesn't, move on same as you would with family, coworkers, waiters etc.
Ms Foxy
RHP User
a month ago
Most....not all.......most women on here prefer single guys or couples. So that might set you back. Also, dating sites ( adult dating sites) are not going to guarantee you lots of fun. It's been over a year since I've met anyone. But that's how the cookie, or pie, crumbles I'm afraid.
Rinoandpinkie
a month ago
There isn't one magical sentence that will instantly grant you access to a women's panties. But I'd suggest a little more than just one line and being generic. Show you have read and paid attention to their profile. Don't be gross. If you were to approach someone at a bar and said "I'd love to take you to pound town" what do you think would happen. Just because it's over the interwebs doesn't mean standard societal etiquette doesn't apply. Expect to get No's - having a profile with a little insight into who you are will help too I feel.
EarthQueen
a month ago
What does straight to the point mean though? I mean you are looking for 1 in a million so your odds aren't great?
Pineapplexchange
a month ago
Huh ha, my opening line is" Hey nice profile, fancy doing something you're going to regret in the morning?", bit of humor goes a long way!
Willoh
14 days ago
Honestly I feel like you could do all the right things so to speak, upload multiple photos, get verified, have your profile done up so most details are filled in, go through her profile and try to tell her something about herself that interests you or any common ground or even a nice pick up line or joke to break the ice instead of the mentioned "hi how are you" type first greeting that some maybe most women don't like or wont respond to. If your a good looking dude you could be lacking in those areas and still get dates. And that's just how it goes and that's fine. Even on these sites that are highly hookup friendly it's the same as anything we will choose the better looking option everytime. Why try the average chick when you getting a hottie on the regular? Obviously not advice but if your not getting responses but alot of profile views there's something obvious in there too. We deal with the cards we are delt. Hopefully get some good timing at some point.
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