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Respecting Relationships - Men vs Women
September 04 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
If only I had half his luck .... To either have such a hot insatiable woman or be approached by girls he knows or randoms !! What cologne does he wear lol Seriously though, some people are oblivious to being hit on, some are very aware and play on it I would probably be flirtatious with you as I would know you had a hubby (always look at the wedding finger !!) but if given the green light then HELLO (assuming you were open and discussed it with me - wouldn't want hubby beating down my door to bash me lol) ! I always wonder to myself when people watching who could be into the lifestyle - always makes me smile ;-) On a different subject nut simlar, I once met a couple and played a few times with her as he was happy for her to have some company while he was out of town, always with his knowledge, in fact he would ring and tell me he was going away and u had his permission ;-) Probably doesn't answer your topic lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does he wear a wedding ring?
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RHP User
13 years ago
At times Women have hit on Mr S mostly in bar type situations as generally we go out with a lot of friends and the way we are flirtasious wise, it's always been hard in our group working out who is with who..We both don't wear wedding bands as well so I guess that doesn't help the situations. Never though to the point of a blantent sexual act has been offered moreso flirty behaviour...well with strangers that is..our friends a different kettle of fish..Have seen pics of you both Mr and Mrs P and wouldn't blame random strangers making the moves on you guys either!! Just come to a bar near us!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know the problem. A lot of women want to hit me too. ;)And Felonius, didn't I read a post by you recently about proper post titles?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is great the way things have changed.Woman are comfortable to be the aggressor now..its a turn on ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't want anything to do with someone elses man. When I find out someone is taken I totally respect that. I might play with both of them together, but never apart.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh to have that "problem". We use to have a profile on a social networking site as a couple and Mrs T was always being hit on by guys. We decided to just put our profile in my name and guess what? Not a single hit by any females. I'm not ugly by any means so it puts a dent in your confidence a bit. I'm glad my wife gets attention from guys when we attend parties etc as it boosts her confidence and shows I made the right choice. If a woman was to approach me I would suspect a set up. I would never cheat but would like to feel flattered at least. So from a personal point of view, I don't think women are getting more "aggressive" or forward. :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being scrutineers for local speedways, my husband gets all kinds of offers when my back is turned. Sometimes, they don't even wait till my back is turned! He says he doesn't notice. I find it amusing.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
13 years ago
Yes girls /women today really chase the taken ones because they often find it easier the single guys have a lot on offer these days... lucky if you get a call back... ah i lost my ex after 5+ years i was guttered at first now im wanting to thank her she did me a favour...they lasted a whole 6 months now he rings and calls round bit of a joke really... im staying in my happy place ... dont need no man
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' He says he doesn't notice. lmaoMy 2 cents......Not going into details, I think Women hitting on man despite him being in a relationship, is due to women's expectation for a positive outcome, OR having no no fear of the outcome.While on the other hand, Men (not all though) doesn't want trouble, which could be a physical one. It is subtle subconscious fear. Men are programmed with it to sense trouble.Post your CommentThe history of this fear is that, since evolution, millions of men have died fighting over woman and protecting their women, so this fear is evolved in men which signals a warning.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Neither of us get propositioned in vanilla world - half your luck! Nice little ego boost for Mr PP I'm sure. Perhaps we give off "stay away, I'm taken" vibes, perhaps we are too shy, or perhaps we are simply not that interesting - I dont know. On the flip side, saves a lot of hassles I guess! And here's my generalisation for the day - Some younger women seem to be interested in the taken ones over the single guys they can have any day of the week - for the thrill of the chase! Once conquered, they probably loose interest and move on.....Mrs Waterbabes XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can recall Trinity. Always willing to be proved wrong though.Cheers Feloius.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cannot verify this personally and it may just be an urban myth but I have been told that if you are cruising bars etc, wear your wedding ring as some women like the challenge/thrill of having the illicit, an-others man.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The reason I asked was that I'm sure it's a game to some women, to see if they can lure away a married bloke. When I used to wear a ring I used to get hit on occassionally, once i stoppedwearing it, the getting hit on also stopped.Incidentally I stopped wearing it because it was getting too knocked about, bent outof shape, chunks missing, scratched, not the reason I'm sure some are thinking.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' The reason I asked was that I'm sure it's a game to some women, to see if they can lure away a married bloke. When I used to wear a ring I used to get hit on occassionally, once i stopped wearing it, the getting hit on also stopped. Incidentally I stopped wearing it because it was getting too knocked about, bent out of shape, chunks missing, scratched, not the reason I'm sure some are thinking. Cheers FeloniusI think women who are looking for just no strings fun find it easier to target married men because they know the man won't want more. I'm not saying we're all like that, just some are. As there are men out there who are the same too (prefer affairs with married women for the same reasons).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mrs PP,Please dont go around feeling inadequate.....or left out :(Our relationship is a little like yours. I would never "go there" without her. We want shared experiences rather than individual ones.Perhaps you give off an energy (that stamp on your forehead) which says "taken" or "nurturer" and keep your "sexy" energy for your partners. Not necessarily a bad thing if this is the case.The question I have is what did Mr PP say in response?
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Firstly...thanks for all of the feedback to our predicament we find ourselves in. Both Mrs PP and I have always discussed how the lifestyle would condition us for such encounters from "muggle" couples or singles. Unfortunately like many facets of the lifestyle reality is often very different to what you play out in you head. In this particular occasion I was working in close quarters with not only this magnificently sexy woman but with 2 other of her colleagues, but the biggest and most important factor was that Mrs PP was not there so any direct feedback (or more importantly a go ahead) from her was not available to me.Believe me I was very flattered and did have the opportunity to hand my business card to this sexy woman but I thought better of it and was happy enough to come home and discuss the blow by blow with Mrs PP. For the question of if I was wearing a ring, the answer was and is no. Mrs PP and I have been together for nearly 20 years and it seems to be the best way to describe our relationship, even more so now we are sharing each others bodies with sexy playmates.:)Mr PP
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' Quoting 'feloniusfossil' The reason I asked was that I'm sure it's a game to some women, to see if they can lure away a married bloke. When I used to wear a ring I used to get hit on occassionally, once i stopped wearing it, the getting hit on also stopped. Incidentally I stopped wearing it because it was getting too knocked about, bent out of shape, chunks missing, scratched, not the reason I'm sure some are thinking. Cheers FeloniusI think women who are looking for just no strings fun find it easier to target married men because they know the man won't want more. I'm not saying we're all like that, just some are. As there are men out there who are the same too (prefer affairs with married women for the same reasons). Right on the money me thinks !
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would wear my wedding ring all the time and not get hit on....unlucky perhaps, or just mr pp is one hot man. Just saying.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Mrs P.P, It's nice knowing your man is attracting to others but also nice that you guys play as a team. In regards to not having anyone "hitting" on you. What I have seen of your profile you are a very sexy and attractive gal and would respect that you are married, and wouldn't venture there unless I was with my wife and she approved....as she would like to join in on the fun.. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've never understood the appeal... One Friday I was out with work colleagues for drinks when we ended up having a dance someplace. I was getting ready to head home and wanted to make sure my friend was ok getting on the ferry, so waiting for her to finish her dance with a guy, when I got asked to dance by someone else. We put on a bit of a show, so to speak, and I noticed some interest from a group of girls standing nearby, one in particular. My friend then said she wanted to leave, but once we were outside, she realised she had forgotten her jacket and didn't want to go back in to face the guy. When I went back in, the girl from the group was now dancing with the guy I was with, and upon seeing me, she asked 'Are you two together?' I replied 'No, no, go ahead!' And oddly enough, she looked extremely put out... Yep, don't get it at all.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
And those lovely complements too. Mrs PP here, I've been mulling over some of the concepts delivered. One thing that's crossed my mind when 'friends' have put the moves on Mr PP is that maybe some girls feel safe putting out sexy vibes to a man they know won't go there. Like it's a game to boost their ego. I think I just have to face facts... He's a hunk of spunk :p
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