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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  only may be a stumbling block for you as there are not many single women seeking couples as opposed to couples swapping and single men etc. Your profile reads fine but doesn't stand out in any way. Can't help you with first message dos and don't as we have never sent a first message... Ever. We reply to messages and flirts but have never made initial contact and we have been happy with most experiences that have resulted. Having said that, we have never appreciated overtly sexual first messages or messages from people that obviously have not read our profile and match our preferences. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Sorry I am not a couple but I am a single woman and I think I can offer some thoughts. 1. Finding single women appears to be quite difficult for most couples on RHP so you really need to show that you can offer something to a single woman. 2. You are newbies and Mrs is not sure if she is bi or not. I think most single women will pass you by because of this reason. Nothing personal but I think most single women prefer a couple that have their "shit" sorted out. They know what they want and they have had some experience because things can get very messy with couples new to the scene. 3. You are smokers too which will limited the women that will be interested in you. Not much you can do about that. If I were you I would attend meet & greets, swingers clubs and some sex parties and actually get some group sex experienced under your belt so you can clearly show that you know what the risks of swinging are, for example jealousy issues, etc. And also that you have some idea of what you like and what you want. Just my thoughts.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Also, your profile has a lot of "walls" i.e don'ts and restrictions and doesn't come across as very open. Seems like potential for a lot of drama, to be honest.

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