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August 07 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lmfao.... you poor baby. Awwwhh! :P Well I know you only reply to flirts from most of us because deep down inside you're just as beautiful as your licklicious exterior. But replying to endless flirts from the same person is annoying expecially if you are not at all interested in persuing any kind of personal relationship with them. For this, you need replies that are still warm and in keeping with your character... yet firmly state your intentions or lack thereof. Here are some warm hearted replies that I wouldn't mind being on the recieving end of.... 1) Leave it off, mate. You're a complete Twat but thanks for the giggle. 2) Tough luck Brucey, there's plenty more fish in the sea and I just can't picture you tuning my radio. :p 3) Is that you Gazza you sexy man? I just put the key under the mat so you can leap out of my wardrobe while I'm undressing :p And finally .... a tongue in cheek knockback that I'd like to use on occasions... that is if I ever got a chance to :p 4) No thanks. You're fit but you know it. You know... It's from that song by "the streets"... you can check it out on youtube. Warm hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I rarely reply to flirts cos my profile states I dont want any and i figure if i receive some then they haven't even bothered reading my profile properly and also it takes so long to read each flirt only to find they are usually from a guest member anyway.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I bumped up the flirt comp RHP held a few months ago which has the most suggestions for new flirts we've ever seen lol, nothing like a bit of competition to get those creative juices flowing... and noticed something very interesting on the winners thread @ http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/FLIRT-CONTEST-WINNERS-23797 too lol. Out of the ten new flirts... there are SIX new flirts to send and only FOUR new flirt replies! The comp was looking for FIVE of each. Does this mean RHP owes us ONE I admire your honesty, here and the bit on your profile that says clearly, "I try to reply to most, but if you're nowhere near the age range, not single, you're a smoker, or not taller than me, or you dont include those details in your profile, then I probably wont reply - but THATS why Ive let you know what Im after!" Unfortunately, I don't think adding any new 'no flirts' is gonna make it any clearer to people. From what you say the 'no flirts' you are sending are taken as 'yes flirts' anyway... that's where I'd be using the 'The short answer is no. The long answer is NOOOOOOOO' flirt and for those that still don't get it, the block button. RE: replying to messages... I'm bit confused there considering we can say whatever we like in reply, but if you're talking about a 'quick' reply, you can make your own templates to reply with as well. Excellent fun, easy enough to copy and paste flirt replies to save as templates as well lol. FYI: RHP used to have a flirt along the lines of 'Thanks, but you don't match what I am looking for', which they took out when they updated the flirts a long time ago. Oh, and the flirt you received from us, the 'I think you're hot, what do you think of me?' flirt. That was sent when we were rating profile pics on the Amateur Pics page and meant as a friendly compliment, cheers We'd like to be able to have the option of sending a different flirt when rating pics that simply says, 'I just wanted to say I thought your profile pic was hot!'.A reply flirt that we would really like to see is a simple thnx similar to one of the auto reply flirts available on women's profiles, along the lines of 'Thanks for the flirt, I enjoyed the attention'.CheersMrsP PS: It seems to me that you would sincerely like to reply to flirts as a sign of good will. Is there any special reason you don't set the flirt auto reply that is available under your profile settings? You could always get back to those who interested you at your leisure
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RHP User
16 years ago
THANK SBUT NO THANKS( in red print) would be a good response to have. Frankly if somebody does contact you as dumb as they are a reply is polite to send.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I used to use the thanks but no thanks flirt but i dont think a lot of guys actually read what the reply is, cos they would always come back and say thanks for the flirt, glad you are interested etc etc
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RHP User
16 years ago
desserts - if they are that dumb to reply like that to a negative flirt it is wise to put them on the block list before they drain any more of your brain cells. I mean they seriously can't be that dumb can they.The only time I will reply to a negative flirt is to simply ask what it is that I don't match. Especially if the profile appears to match me. It is not to bother them, just so I know if something on my profile is putting them off or there is some other reason. I'm not stupid enough to think they are interested or I will somehow magically change their mind when they send a negative response.Most of the time I do not get a response to that message but have a couple of times. It allows them to give a specific reason, especially if they are a guest.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fuck Flirts
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks MrsP, I thought I was keeping a reasonable eye on the forums but I definitely missed the thread about the Replies competition, .. and thanks for the Flirt x, and I also agree with the Flirts that go with a compliment to a pic. I wont include the Flirt as if its someone Im not interested in to actually meet I dont want them thinking I am, and I think the Flirts currently suggest that. Your idea of the compliment only for their pic is perfect ;) As for using the standard replies to messages, I found people got quite upset at me using these - something like:"geez it only takes 2 minutes to write a reply, it costs you nothing, why couldnt you be bothered writing a reply" came back more than once, and thats to someone who doesnt match what Im looking for sheeesh. I also tried to be polite by writing a reply, but thats just like oh she's interested even if Ive said you're not quite what Im after... so now I find its just easier if I dont reply. If I send a flirt or a message and I dont get a reply I TOTALLY RESPECT that, why is it so hard for people not to realise that IF we are interested we will get back to them? I dont use the auto reply as I dont think that means anything other than the system works. All it does is fill peoples in boxes and wastes peoples time having to read the damn things. Yeah thanks for that Gazz, I like some of yours, I might have to create a couple of template replies ;) Problem is, someone like you would get the humour, so many wouldnt :( then we'd end up sending endless Emails back n forth to explain ourselves.. xx Lovenlust - "The only time I will reply to a negative flirt is to simply ask what it is that I don't match" is EXACTLY what we mean... we are not interested, means we are NOT interested, why waste any more of YOUR time OR ours? No half decent girl is going to tell a guy (and Im not referring to you, but any guy for whatever reason), well, you're overweight/out of shape/into TV and TS/into clubbing/partying hard/whatever... coz then they just come back with oh that was years ago or my profiles out of date or or or... Sorry guys, if I dont reply to your flirts.. bite me. I'm going to have another look at those templates. If anyone has made up a template that does the trick let us know :) J x
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have the bit below on our profile If you decide to send us a message, we'll be sure to reply though we apologise that it might take longer than you expect and while we will reply to unverified profiles that have minimal detail or no pics as well as profiles that don't match, it will be a template reply with no explanation given, so please don't expect one :-) And the bit below is our template... doesn't say a lot and can be adapted to suit distance etc... 4 eg: but you are further away than we/I were looking for.Hi, it was lovely to receive your mail, thank you, but some of the details on your profile are not quite what we were looking for. Again, thank you & all the best with your search ;-) *******We have been using this message template (the bit on our profile is a new addition) since our first few weeks on RHP a couple of years ago.We've had at least 10% of the people we have sent this to message back very nicely and have only ever copped abuse/idiots (3x) when we got into the whys and where fors... which explains the new part on our profile lol Cheers n hugsMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rotflpmsllol wiv me legs kicking up in the air @ Gaz HAHAHAHA u jumping out of the wardrobe in a superman outfit or the lastest Osti Frock, orthopaedic stockings and girdle....oh the visions are amusing.xxMissyxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Buy a membership, and make your profile invisible, then nobody will have to see your profile and feel compelled to send those pesky, troublesome annoying flirts and messages, and you contact the people you want to! Win Win situation!!! Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
oh thanks Mrs P, that's a beauty. I'll make one up, that covers it nicely and politely. Hey Toshi! Thats a goodie yeah? I think everyone could use that one on occasion. Thanks Mrs P x
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RHP User
16 years ago
haha Miss Honey! You are right.. I do like dressing up.... in my spiderman suit as much as my little miss muffet... but its not called a spiderman suit just because of my varicose vein.... and we don't call it a girdle.... it's a kidney belt. :p I don't agree with you Nev. If JamandCream49 made her profile invisible, I'd have to find someone else to stalk!! Warm hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Glad you like it!Thnx jamncream xOxMrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
that is possible to save a template to send as a quick reply directly from the message after opening it... OR...after opening the message you can click on the reply tab to take you to the reply page... where you can select your saved 'template reply'... and now you can edit it to your hearts content to suit details you might like to add re: distance etc... as well as being able to personalise it for that extra touch xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd like another Chat reply, for when people want to have a private chat. Theres no "No Thankyou, I dont wish to chat" theres only Id like to chat in the main chat room or chat later etc, no NO, not interested. Thanks MrsP, now Ive had a good look at Templates Ive got them pretty sorted and seem to be working well :) PS LOVE your new pic ;) Gazz... x
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RHP User
16 years ago
thnx Will keep changing it up lol...I'll hope the template works as well for you as a single woman as it has for us as a couple!HugsDebxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Luvn ' ur pics n all Debxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ive always thought it would be nice to be able to flirt to a specific picture, as in, when the flirt is received it displays almost like a comment on that picture to the receiver. These could even be visible to other users in the picture window when you view someones pics... I'm sure it would be alot of code for Toshi and the team to write but it would be fun from a user perspective. It open up a great realm of other flirts, cheeky and naghty and fun ones about costumes/nakedness/seductive looks/positions etc. etc.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There's a fairly new thread at the following link asking for suggestions for the RHP website...There are great suggestions on this thread that I would love to see copied and pasted onto that thread where we might hope they will get more attention from RHP seeing as how we've been so thoughtful and put them all in one place lolol...http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/Suggestions-for-the-RHP-website-24459Hugs allMrsP
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