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Redhotpie.."Everybodys doing it" how exactly??

June 21 2012

Help some peeps out..half serious half jokey here..For some RHP is a way to facillatate getting a potential partner for others its in hope of getting a potential "fuck" partner or one off action be it groups singular plural or circus event type activity..Or the "I'm only here to read the forums ya ya's"Confusion seems to reign it seems on what people think is a good way to either put yourself out there or sell yourself in the first place..or what they even expect to get from a site such as this.So what would be your tips and hopefully those wondering how some couples/singles seem to have all the luck, they may get some helpful tipsFor Example as a couple(seeking couples..) we are not looking for long term partners hence whilst a nicely worded profile is good, the pics is what we are more interested in as that's whats going to hold our initial interest.In public galleryNo up close cock homing in on vag shot...( has to be a guy that thinks that's a "really cool " shot to add)..we all know how it works...plus your thrust timing can't be measured and that'd be all Im intersested in with a shot like that..Put a pic in of your man especially if you are after 4 persons play. If he's that worried on how he looks get out/ exercise and do something about it.Recent pics! No one likes fakes..Whats some of your ideas? From a couple or a singles perspectives ( even forum readers what they'd like to see from other readers).. ;)

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I would reckon guys with pictures of themselves doing something interesting would go well. Such as skiing, or interesting holiday picture, etc. this would be the same for a couple. I know you say you are mainly interested in the pics Saturn but as a single gal I like to have fun with my flings. For me that means that I would laugh with you, be able to hold a conversation as well as have a potentially awesome night of dirty naughty fun. Meeka xx

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    The profile of lucky75.....lmaox Hugs H

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    If half the "single" guys were to have a pic of themselves doing something interesting, such as a holiday pic..they would be violating the TOC..ie... there would be children in the pic...on the annual family holiday...   Personally I would like to see a single man pic...taken in front of a BBQ, cooking a rib steak - a bleu, with some salad - or green stuff in a bowl in the background, Beer in hand - esky choc a block full of Beer to share...mmmmmmmmmmmmmm....and if he is wearing a tittie apron...omg...I think I want to marry that man...

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    That's be more of an 'I'm married' giveaway than the holiday shot with kids in the background wouldn't it? Or is this a subtle suggestion on how to pull more chicks here? Salad!? Cheaper than tequila shots I guess.   Quoting 'caitsidhe' If half the "single" guys were to have a pic of themselves doing something interesting, such as a holiday pic..they would be violating the TOC..ie... there would be children in the pic...on the annual family holiday...   Personally I would like to see a single man pic...taken in front of a BBQ, cooking a rib steak - a bleu, with some salad - or green stuff in a bowl in the background, Beer in hand - esky choc a block full of Beer to share...mmmmmmmmmmmmmm....and if he is wearing a tittie apron...omg...I think I want to marry that man...

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I was being Facetious...but, hey, if the Jose Cuervo is on tap...well, as Joe Nichols states "Tequila makes her clothes fall off"....eff the Salad!

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    For me its without expectation.....you dont expect the man to stay for more then one night, should it be for more Ok when not Ok too. But still I get a bit peed of when the men just say when can we fuck.....I know its a fuck, fun site....I only cant get going this way....I need a bit of a conversation and cheeky talk and flirting in some way with the person on the other end to commit to all the fun. otherwise come one you could ask a hooker for sex and pay....I know in some mens mind because a woman is on RHP its just that you say yes each time they give you a flirt. No thank you...I need some connection. It took a bit of learning for me to get my mindset right....now I think I got....... I am also not saying I have not a little bit of hope I will find someone on here for more serious stuff.....where else would you find one....who is on the same wave lenghts then ME????? I want sex, intelligence and a great man, I am not asking for much....dont I?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Eh, I've been called worse.   Tips for a successful profile...? Best advice I can give is don't do anything I do.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You are asking for waaaaaaaaaaaay too much....I dont think those men exist !!!!!!!...they are a urban myth.......the Holy Grail..................ah but to live in hope.....   For me as a single gal...I do like an interesting wordy profile injected with some humor....Im a wordy person so detailed profiles do it for me..   I dont mind body shots (BTW Saturn lovely profile shot and the B/W looks fantastic) but please no fist wrap around your aroused tackle... - um hello trust me, Im not going to fall off my chair gagging for your erect member....chest shots, ab shots, shoulder shots...yummy back shots always pique my interest....b/w always looks great too.....if its a face shot..please be smiling and please guys toss the Ray Bans to one side and show us your lovely eyes....and guys dress nice....I so dont want to see you wearing your High Vis gear and miners hat or blue singlet....sooooooooo doesnt interest me...nor does it enthrall many chicks....   I think so many of the ladies get it rite here with tasteful shots, showing assets in a interesting way using color, lighting, lingerie and added effects....a hint of whats on offer...the ladies always looks so inviting   I dont mind a interesting shot of anyone participating in a sport /interest etc.. ...as the OP suggested, but please no shots of you holding up a dead fish...the only response to that pic would be WHY ???   And lastly I can only speak for myself..but Im always interested in peoples handle names.....theres some terrific ones out there... original name always attracts a click on from me...( I currently love the handle - Rage of Penguins - awesome name)   But a username which is something like........Hotcock4U2rotateon2nite or 2cocks4urass is so not going to cut it with me....   Some intrigue and mystery please

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If a smartly dressed, attractive guy walks into a busy night club and starts asking every girl "Do you want a fuck" he's going to get several slaps, but he's also going to get a fuck.A not so attractive guy can do the same thing, he just needs to do it later in the evening.   I've lost count of the number of "I'm in your area, do you want to meet?" messages we've had and I dare say they have gone to every profile in Mackay that has "Man" as an option. Is there any harm in that ? No. Is it successful? Do it long enough and you're going to get a hit.   The simple answer is, we choose, and we choose based on the mood at the time. Are we currently looking, are we horny is he good looking. (Pictures are a must and a face shot is a must) the rest, the profile,,,, its an advert. It's not eally worth the effort to scroll to because it's most likely a cut and paste or more an idea of what the profile holder thinks potential playmates want to read. That said sometimes we have a look for something in particular. BIG cock was on the list for a bit so profiles like igot9inches4u and donkey_features got a look. Having a pic of your cock does help with this one. Not too sure it needs to be posed next to a can of sure but hey it does the job.   With couples it's completely different, there is far more mutual selection going on here, there is going to be a meeting, there is going to be a conversation, all the profile does is get you to the meeting. Would I be wrong in saying it's probably the photos that do that too? If you're fella hasn't got his pic up you're at the back of the line. We read a couple profile to see what they like to do. Guys watch, girls play,,,, move on. Same partner same room,,,,, maybe. Swap partners, were in.   Different strokes for different folks I guess, there is no one size fits all.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm one of those. I wouldn't care if I didn't have sex, for quite a while.The getting to know someone, hanging out and connecting is uber cool as far as I'm concerned.This is why I'm not a fan of one night stands.Yeah ok I'm a odd bod...lolCheers Felonius

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Your are indeed one in a million then...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You have funny tastes in men :)   I would say that a single man doing his thing would work, but, if you are a hairy caveman doing a cave side pose... NAH!!   If you are a female... even not having anything up.. having an abusive angry and ugly profile would still work.   Why am I here? I just am... and, as such, therefore my profile is successful. I try my luck.. and therefore am successfull... (I am successful in trying, not "Closing the deal") IF i were here for multiple sex partners, or even an occasional sex romp (monthly or so) then I am not successful.   having said that.. I have a number of friends who are on here... Males who are VERY sexually active, and fine looking females who are not at all successful in selecting co operative males.   In fact, one of the ladies I know outside, considered "Very Attractive" was contacted by a fairly well known male from Perth area.. she got all excited and showed me SOME of the texts etc.. She noticed he was on a number of SOME of the regular female forum posters lists, verified and had verified... but, he so lied to her.. and made a dozen excuses.. AFTER he first contacted her.. Wierd.. but. I guess it just goes to show, that females get messed around too.   who can tell huh?   cavey.. still just cavey

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A lot of the opening emails leave a lot to be desired.....     Just as already stated above by swiing4fun, etc ...if a guy says "Wan to fuck" enough times, (or copies and pastes it into emails without reading profiles at all), sooner or later he is going to come across someone who is really really in a   "could fuck a postman, or a telephone pole" type horny mood who might just say   "yes!" and the poor sod will think he has won tattslotto for having gotten success just that once....       Not me, and not a telephone pole, although sometimes the postman looks alright...as I am sure many do. But they do only come once a day.     I have my own couple of guy play partners, a girl I like to hang out and play with, and a submissive male friend who likes me to call him 'pet' and 'slave' wears my collar and proudly, and who likes dusting and household chores while in a french maid outfit or just my panties. All from rhp.     I stick to them unless someone comes along and really really really really really (etc) manages to catch my attention...then I may reconsider.     But messages like   "Hey, nympho" "Hi Cougar" "Let's Fuck" "are you really all you say" "mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm your tits are nice" "I know I am wayoutside your age criteria but I am much more (mature / virile) than my age might make you think." and....the best for last.... "Can I bend you over my desk, cheers!"       As first messages won't win.....   And believe me, some of the messages are that short as above provided, and taken from direct examples.   You would thinhk I hadn't heard it all before     Luckily they are not in the majority of what is in my inbox or I would have to think about what I am saying a lot more than I can be bothered doing.   I think just be yourself, we are all going to see through it anyhow... Short or long emails, as long as you are being you it will work better than this weird false bravado encountered often.   So, for success, talk to the person indidividually, otherwise, not getting anywhere........ (in my case) No matter what ....especially if the post man is looking REALLY REALLY RELLY tasty 'today' (coz I am so in the mood when he rides that motorbike past, that I could jump the fence and bag him...) I will resist jumping the postman, or walking around in a watered down white cheesecloth sundress with water running over my boobs from the tap as he drives past, and givenit is winter right now, that would take a while to happen anyhow... (although I am surethere are many lucky postmen and rhp guys out there in other localities than where I am)...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ohh lovely Velevt how can I give up on men when I made two of them. LOl but then its maybe a mothers view.....ahh I WILL NOT GIVE UP ON GREAT MEN......should it be a dream........I keep dreaming its better then only seeing the dark site, I refuse the dark site........hahahah, mmm I am so the optimist. Oh yes some are so shallow and simple.....not always there fault.....we mothers dont teach em and the fathers often just play the same. However some are so yummy and write back this amazing messages which can blow me away, and there profilewas just not mind blowing.I believe most males around my age have never needed to do so much thinking about selling them self on line so they sit in front of their profile and think what the fuck should I write.....the ladies can ask me and I answer.....so simple, why cant women get this hahahah. So ladies, maybe because I have only sons....I can understand.....maybe I am just too soft to this males....who knows, but neverless..... And the pool of males is soooooooooooooooooooo big........Plenty of male fish in this ocean of mine. Cheers Litonya.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ATTENTION ALL GUYS i like a nice cock as much as the any lady on here, but please don't you know that an ERECT ONE IS SO MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN A FLACID ONE love Cutie xxxx

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