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Recognising other RHP members in public
November 23 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have you heard of the app Grinder for gay men? I think its a BRILLIANT idea. They should make that for swingers. Its an app that you have a profile on and your phone gives off a signal when you are out. If someone logs on near you they can tell how far away you are and if you have put a pic up they can also see what you look like. Gay men use it to meet each other and its so good.Its should be available you single hetro's too but could you imagine how much attention women would get if guys knew they were single and standing next to them.
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Innercircle
14 years ago
We get recognised a lot. A LOTSome people are discrete, and some are not. If someone recognises us, we'll have a quick chat. It's nice to meet new people. We've met some good friends via being recognised on here.However, a lot of people (younger guys, mostly) want to just come over and brag that they recognise you, but won't say their profile (or real) name, and usually make a big deal about it to their mates standing right there. Thankfully Mr Rocker has burnt those twats with his quick tongue, and they usually ends up scurrying away with his tail between his legs, his mates digging into him also.BUT, if there was a little badge, or something, to identify us as members, we'd proudly wear it. The only concern being, how do you wear a discrete little badge or symbol, without the vanilla public catching on at some stage?
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RHP User
14 years ago
trying to get some on the internet? Just wear a modest little pin with the green wedge of pie logo on a particular day. But what day? Not valentines - that's soppy. Ah - I know! The Pope's birthday. That's when all the latent swingers should make that extra effort to celebrate adultery.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like you say all it would take is a few twerps yelling somthing out across the street or making a big fuss. Its this kind of people set on making a dick of them self that could spoil it though.We were thinking just recently with all the talk about meeting at everyday places like bars that something suttlle to display would be a good way to be recognise others.Jane and I some times nudge each other when we see a nice looking couple in the supermarket or down at the beach and think to our self . If only they were on RHP. It's kind of fun to be able to do this open perving as a couple as we know each others taste in singles to. Has to be something suttle and simple that both male and fem can have on perhaps RHP rings? for your little fingerWe have bumped into a few people from RHP but they have all been people we have met in person before .Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
we are recognised already, and have had people (men and couples) stop us to ask if we are either 'mikeandshel', or if we knew of RHP. we arent always happy with this, and feel that marking ourselves as 'lifestylers' would single us out for special attention and potentially put Shel or I in an awkward or embarrasing situation.this is something we do off on one side of our lives and is in no way who we wish to be identified as. so its a very loud 'no' from us....
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RHP User
14 years ago
A colored ring on the little finger of the right hand should do it.... yellow would stand out..... That way' if u see someone with a yellow ring on' you can then make yours obvious ... just a thought...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'want2tryUout' Have you heard of the app Grinder for gay men? I think its a BRILLIANT idea. They should make that for swingers. Its an app that you have a profile on and your phone gives off a signal when you are out. If someone logs on near you they can tell how far away you are and if you have put a pic up they can also see what you look like. Gay men use it to meet each other and its so good.Its should be available you single hetro's too but could you imagine how much attention women would get if guys knew they were single and standing next to them. I use Grindr to keep a track of my friends. You actually dont have to be gay to use it you know.... just dont tell them that.Gaz
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree...an app like that would be great. It would make it a lot easier to locate others in your area for play. You might be onto something there justjuice!!! Like a secret society...lol.
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
We get recognised quite a bit...generally people will say hi briefly. Donna has been recognised at work too (works with the public). The strangest ones are when we've been out in the city just having a coffee or something..then a few days later we'll get a message from someone we've never met who will say "I saw you sitting in Starbucks the other night", we reply "Why didn't you come and say hi?"...the general reply is they didn't think we'd want people coming up to us in the street!! Well..maybe not yelling out "Hey Swingers" across a crowded shop LOL..or acting like dickheads as Rockercouple pointed out. But if you're sensible & polite please do..you just never know where it could lead???
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we4real
14 years ago
We always have fun trying to put the RHP profiles to people that we meet at partys after the event, Because people dont always tell you their profile name at the time of meeting. Having done some profile reasearching in the past it would be nice for people at partys to wear a badge with their profile name on it.....lol That way it might shortlist the party goers at the time. Although that usually takes care of itself !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just friends showing respect to each other.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We're so going to be checking out Starbucks in the city in future!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Blendr is the app developed for straight people, but seems that it's marketed at making friends etc than sexually hooking up. I having looked at it or have it... Really I don't!, but check it out kids and post some feedback. I always thought the an easily recognisable subtle piece of jewellery would be a great thing for single people looking, either for a relationship or sex would be a great thing... I wear a toe ring on my right little finger between the knuckles which often gets comments about how unique that is, without being too "out there" I haven't been into liasons by the number or have passed too much time on our beloved RHP, so haven't been recognised yet
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jandv
14 years ago
We have actually seen donnaBrett at our local shopping center. I noticed donna and said to my wife isnt that the couple who post on RHP. We wasnt fully sure at the time....... LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I knew all people on RHP would keep their discretion then it would be fine... There were many "secret societies" through history and the number one rule was to follow some procedure as not to reveal to the outside world the connection. With a large proportion of stalkers and plain dickheads within the membership who are just after a quick fuck (and do not have the intelligence to read forums or figure out anything about people's profile names or pics anyway) this would be too much to ask :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I recognise that sexy butt... :)Was recognised by a client of mine just yesterday. She didn't say it straight out, but worked it into the conversation. It took me a little to realise how she was arriving to rather intuitive conclusions...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Skout is a singles app that shows distances from you of other people and online status. It is a singles dating/sex app but I have seen couples use it successfully. Your profile cannot contain any r rated items but you can send photos in chat.
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RHP User
14 years ago
When you think about it why limit it to RHP when it could be for swingers regardless world wide an app on ph descrete maybe list preferences and more than a few laughs. My miss hates set up dates and and swingers clubs she likes random been chatted up and seduced, i find that so much harder as couples rarely approach a couple this would definatly suit us
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RHP User
14 years ago
yep it happens as we often cruise the shops sunday morning after a big nite. Some come and say hello, others turn away quick? 1 blonde with cowboy hat came to say hi, then a muggle friend spotted us.. "woooo...how do you know those 2????" errrrrrr....hahahahh...doesnt matter Come and say hi, we are harmless
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RHP User
14 years ago
completely agree with you DonnaBrett
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RHP User
14 years ago
making yourself recognisable to others, doesnt give you the opportunity to remain anonymous. what if, for arguments sake, people who you dont wish to have recognise you, are able to do so, and approach you even when you wished they didnt? we like that few know us, as theres a degree of safety in being just another face in a crowd. we have teenage children....they dont need to be exposed to this either........do they?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was thinking more Just something to put on just before entering a venue.(could even be a flower in the hair for girls) Easy to talk you way out of that one. Especially if it was a mix of non swingers in there. Just as a way to know who was who. Wouldn't be something to have on at home, street or everyday life.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
You dont have to log in to read forums or to see profile pics...so some of the peeps that recognise you may not actually be members of RHP...but may just be wowsers having a stickybeak.In saying that...I'm sure I've been recognised a few times while out and about...lol.BJ
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RHP User
14 years ago
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