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Ratio of couple playmates to single playmates

May 28 2018

RHP COUPLES...... Just something that we’ve been wondering of late. Do you have more couple playmates or single playmates (men or women)? We seem to have more single friends these days than couples and are fine with it. But we’re curious as to what you have been finding to be your particular situation. Perhaps our situation is reflective of our changing experience and preferences. We’re not really that sure. We do find that singles are available more than couples, and I suppose that’s due to combined family and work commitments. Perhaps it’s simply mathematics. More people meeting equals a harder scenario to make work than with just one other person. What does everyone else find with their meet ups? Ms HNP XX - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I definitely have more catch ups with couples compared to singles; socially and for play. Yet to meet you guys though 😉

  • BungCpl

    BungCpl

    8 years ago

    And probably similar to yourselves OP in that it is due to a change in our preferences and desires based on previous experiences

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...just because it is easier to organise and match. We tend to go to clubs more when we want couples fun, as it is often easier in that environment to work out who might be a good fit. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...because it is easier to organise than couples. Whereas going to clubs to meet couples we find easier - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But that's because that's what we search out. We like to full swap and engage in couple play, neither of us are bi so there just isn't the same level of enjoyment for us both with either a single male or female. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It’s definitely been more singles than couples as it was easier for one of us to get away to play a bit of one on one. Also we found the 4-way compatibility of couples meets was never as relaxed or comfortable. Having said that, we do want to play together as that’s why we came on here in the first place so we are now focusing on couples and taking our time to find the right mix. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    8 years ago

    I guess when you first sign on here you have a certain idea of what you want from your meets. Experiences and opportunities definitely dictates the direction you go from there as do your personal preferences. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That way you can develop a great network of people for social “cum” sexual, (pardon the pun!) someone who may seem not your type, might be a great social fit, which may turn out to be a fun playmate, where as Mr Adonis,?may have the personality of a warthog and breath to match! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    8 years ago

    We meet couples 90% of the time. We've had a few negative experiences with singles and so we focus on couples only. That said, we have met some truly great women here both have not been in the right headspace to give it another go. Not yet. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    8 years ago

    We have been on here a while now and though we don’t have much free time to meet with others we have met some really nice people be they singles or couples. The last couple of years though has found us meeting more so with singles than couples. This is purely due to the fact that our four sons are at that age where they are playing two sports each, training, driving lessons and after school work until 10 pm for the older two. Add in living remotely where they can’t get dropped off home by someone else and it is killing our social life at this point in time. There are some lovely couples or parties we would like to meet/attend but things just get in the way. For this reason it is sometimes just easier for one of us to have the odd evening out on our own as a single,with another single ( or possible couple) while the other does the running around at home. This arrangement is not for everyone but after 26 years we are pretty secure with each other. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have managed to take the middle ground here. Best of both worlds. I actually enjoy couples and singles for different reasons. It’s easier to have a an in depth conversation with a single but it is more social with couples. Oops I just realised you are all couples on this thread lol. I should have said I prefer couples hehe. It doesn’t really matter as long as people are relaxed and friendly...... J

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    8 years ago

    Looking for one thing but it turns out it’s quite complex to meet up with couples given time and our busy schedules as well. Doesn’t mean we don’t want to play with couples. - Posted from rhpmobile