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Random sex with total strangers!
September 25 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is just something that gets me going. The adrenalin that rushges through you anticipating whats ahead. Some of the best sex Ive ever had is meeting strangers down the park.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I am sure plenty on here do it...because they can. So OP - what do you think, is the difference of sending out random emails to meet someone and meeting someone out at a bar/club for a one night stand and hooking up with them?? Is it same same but different? However meeting a stranger in a hotel room for a woman is a pretty scary thing to do...who knows what is going to happen? I think of my safety first before a random root in a motel room. Which I may add, the company they work for has most likely paid hotel room?? who knows? Sending out random messages for some is like fishing - might throw out 100 lines - may pull the line in and get an old rubber boot, seaweed, a Tyre, rubbish, nothing, then nothing and nothing again, throw it out again might get a bite then WAMB got myself something - dam it's just a tiny fish.. I think those that throw out lines think they are going to catch a beautiful perfect mermaid or something? *LOL! sorry DG I had to mention mermaid* Pretty boring and so time consuming as well as lazy isn't it?? To be honest, I'd rather just go out to a club/bar and talk to someone face-to-face. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is exactly why we signed up to this site and we quite often respond to random spur of the moment emails.We still have standards we adhere too and guidelines and we don't ever meet without up to date photos and a few emails, but the majority of meets we have had have been spur of the moment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A moderate success rate in this field, I suppose as I'm away a few times a year for work. BUT - it's never 'Hey, I'm town tonight, wanna fuck?' I put a travel profile on, and start messaging about a month out, asking a) if the lady's available, and b) if she would like to catch up for a drink to see if there's some chemistry. In a public place of course. Sometimes the chemistry's not there, and sometimes it is!!!!!!! I work on the theory that if there's not a bit of (genuine) laughter going on in the first 20 minutes, it's not going to happen. And if it doesn't happen, that's ok too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Even when I'm out at a party or gathering I talk to people, Id rather know someone first before anything happens, they could be anyone for all I know. meeting people in person than online is so much better.
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RHP User
11 years ago
then run off with the Wedding Singer:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
to not tell the whole truth,in fact,anything but the truth so help me..er anyone really:-) xxQ
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andyrabbit
11 years ago
it's fun exciting and usually goes well, only a few times its a no thanks. but I don't treat it as a free brothel, it is a site to meet swingers, groups or singles to meet and play and have safe fun..it is not a naughty Facebook.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
and have had the same random emails..... I am here for work, wanna fuck tonight? Seriously???? We're married, why would we need a random hook up like that? We've got sex on tap lol. Hubby used to get sooo cranky about them and their rude responses. We're like you, this is a naughty facebook and way more that just a sex site. It has been an adventure and addition for us and we never wanted to become fully involved in the "lifestyle". You wanna whore, look up the local paper for all the visiting "talent" lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Another 'men need help" topic. Make no effort, earn no candy. DG
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MissBishere
11 years ago
and say that I have on occasion accepted an offer of random sex. don't do it so much anymore as I really just want a regular one or two but when first on RHP yep random was all I wanted. A couple of the encounters were amazing but most were just sex and a means to an end. To me it is the same as Foxy points out, picking up in a pub for a one night stand just without being drunk and him not being able to get it up. Would I do it again? yes of the mood struck me I would and I sometimes do when I travel.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I have to say it was me using his body to get off though not the other way around as I went into it with that intention. I think this site is different things for different people and I'm ok with that
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RHP User
11 years ago
With the random messages. It's the nasty responses when we either don't reply or reply with a courteous "no thanks" that we don't understand? K. xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
About 10 months ago I received a message from a guy from Sydney (different website but same premise) saying that he was coming to Perth for work the following day and would I like to meet up. I agreed and met him in the Lobby bar at the casino. He was handsome, charming and told me exactly what he liked and what he wanted to do with with me. It was freaking HOT and I ended up in his suite 40 minutes after meeting him. We had amazing sex and had a lot of fun. He comes to Perth about once a month with his job and I meet him in his suite every time and it's still great. I know virtually nothing about him except his name and the fact that he is good in bed, but we're safe and respectful of each other and I don't regret it for a minute.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't do the random sex thing. It's just not me. Obviously some men have no quality control as even I get these kinds of offers, but it's always a "thanks but no thanks". Sometimes I wish I was the type of person who could do it, as I imagine it can be quite exciting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am glad people have commented in the positive as I feel the OP is being a little judgemental. What's with the "how did you feel afterwards?" question. I am sure people felt well and truly rooted. Mind you I specifcally used to have on my profile that I didn't want to hear from out of towners that were going to be in Sydney for 10 minutes on a Tuesday ... but they still wrote to me which annoyed me no end and yes I have replied to them suggested they go to a sex worker. Otherwise I have met up with two randoms from RHP after 2-3 messages exchanged but I went to their place and I saw their pictures first. First time it turned into a long dalliance and the other was okay but overall the stranger thing isn't my thing at all so I never did it again. I don't find the sex that great and the stranger aspect of it doesn't do it for me. However I have bonked strangers out and about and in clubs when I am with my lover......... he is very naughty and loves the stranger thing and I love watching him. So that's fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a couple, we prefer pure randoms with no chat.. In and out hot sex When I play alone, a lot of woman to my surprise and joy, send me their address after only 1-2 messages and away we go! A lot of women view this as a sex site. They have profiles on dating sites like eharmony for the chit chat and dinner dates I even met one woman at a local lake who I had only spoke with once for a quicky... After we fucked she said she was on her way to a date with a guy she met on a traditional date site and wanted to get a quick fuck in before her date so she wouldn't sleep with the guy as she wanted a few dates before she took that step. I was the quick fuck.. He was a potential boyfriend and wanted to play it cool but needed her sexual urges filled so she didn't give in to temptation .... Now that's my kind of woman!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' I don't do the random sex thing. It's just not me. Obviously some men have no quality control as even I get these kinds of offers, but it's always a "thanks but no thanks". Sometimes I wish I was the type of person who could do it, as I imagine it can be quite exciting. That is the single saddest thing I have read on the internet today... Hugs to you and here's hoping you learn to value yourself a little higher...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to disagree there Meeka. I don't feel the OP was being judgemental with her "how did you feel afterwards" question at all. Merely inquisitive as it's obviously something that they as a married couple or otherwise would not participate in. And there is nothing wrong with that either. So, come on random stranger fuckers (for want of a better word)..... How did you feel? Invigorated? Naughty? Cheap? Fulfilled? Non chalant? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Two_Tarts
11 years ago
A random pickup of some cutie ('s) with a nice smile at the pub is a cool idea, but....having some bloke (or girl) sitting behind a keyboard with their dick in hand (was that really a girl?) at 2 am messaging to tell us how horny and in need of attention they are right now?? wtf, call a hooker.. and while you are at it why not ask her to pick you up another carton and a pizza on the way... About as boring an offer as you could get, not to mention that if we were awake at 2 am it is probably because we already have friends over.lol... If a message offering of a random hookup came from a swimsuit model or a movie star then that would probably be awesome, but they must have all had something else on because the ones we get are from grey profiles or really dodgy looking desperados. So the problem is not so much the suggestion of the random hookup from a complete stranger, but rather that most of ones we have ever received were a touch on the fugly side. xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
But as a self respecting, fun and safe single girl, I never go for hook ups with complete randoms, whether from this site or met elsewhere. I'm not going to turn up to a hotel room or house without having met them first and got some feel for the people. Likewise if I meet someone out then they have to be willing to talk to me when sober. Neither of these things are particularly arduous but they are very effective screening tools. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had one night stands, where I met a guy and the chemistry was immediate. For me that could never happen online though. Three times I've agreed to meet on interstater coming to Sydney, and only once did we both feel enough chemistry to take things further. I just won't know until I meet someone in the flesh, even camping doesn't do it for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Story'even camping doesn't do it for me. Camming*
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was wondering what camping had to do with this topic! My mind went into overdrive.....
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Yes they could work but there would still have to be an attarction. this is a sex site not face book. So in theory thats what everyone is here for sex. The trick is to seperate the weirdo's from the genuine. the only way for that is to meet in a public place like for coffee or drinks. Anyone that meets in a motel is putting their safety in danger. Randoms could work but set up some guidelines and stick to them. To say go hire a hooker is deaming to the girls that work in the sex trade and boy they have it tough
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RHP User
11 years ago
If its a five star hotel, they take ten seconds and then go Leaving me to call up my girlfriends for a PJ party and order room service and drink the mini bar dry. I have random sex with people at times but its usually after a few phone calls. I had one lrecently. Went to his place, but in all fairness I actually knew who he was. I had seen him a few years ago, not spoken to him then but saw the ladies around him like bee to honey. Funny 12 years later I end up in his bed. All good things come to those that wait There are lots that say, take your pants of drive to Perth, and let me drop my load. I think, sure I can just say to hubby on the way out the door, off to the unsafe sperm bank do you want anything? There is risk in this. I do not know if I would be up for coops fucking me on the school oval in the dead of night, but that being said, he is the master of the Ninja fuck. But that is not my cup of tea, I need a little warm up and a warm down, bit like a race horse. Plus for a woman, you could turn up some place and find more than you bargained for. Sexual assaults for a start and think of this, a woman of RHP would you like to go to the police and have all it dragged up that you went to a place for random sex with a stranger and now your upset that it did not go well? I have come close to that when I first came here, and I bolted out of my studio, left him there. this life does not bode well in the public eye. You will be branded the slut who deserved every thing she got.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'jaybaby77' But as a self respecting, fun and safe single girl, I never go for hook ups with complete randoms, Does that mean that anyone who does hook up is not self-respecting, fun or safe? Or does that only apply to women? This is not only aimed at you Jay but for a site where you would imagine that women could feel safe exploring their sexuality, I still see an alarming amount of slut-shaming going on in these forums.
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Story, I was wondering about the camping reference too. Lol. I've only ever had one, totally random, one night stand and it was a by chance, bar meeting, not via the net. I was overseas and had permission to play if the opportunity arose, so to speak. He was staying in the same hotel and he was hot. Told me all about his kids, his job as a fire chief, he was divorced 12 years. He was literally the second man I have ever slept with. It was exciting and fun and an overall positive experience. It was also the real beginning of our exploration into extra marital sex and we're both grateful for the benefits! As for meeting for sex without preamble of some description...I'm not sure it's for us. x Me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me' Story, I was wondering about the camping reference too. Lol. Actually, ever since I got my first French kiss in a tent while on a school trip, I've loved camping.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'jaybaby77' But as a self respecting, fun and safe single girl, I never go for hook ups with complete randoms, whether from this site or met elsewhere. I think that suggesting people who are into random hookups don't respect themselves is taking it a step too far.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have had good and bad for the last minute sex with Random Strangers. Take all the usual care you would with people you have been chatting to for weeks, and you get the fun and excitement without all the message ping pong. Agree fully with those who have pointed out the similarity with random people met at a pub or club, BUT at least you have their likes dislikes and kinks on their profile to save all the try and see how they react games. Random meets with total strangers, love it......
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RHP User
11 years ago
If math was the final arbitrator the above equation would be worth millions. Yes ive done random plenty of times, for me, maturity has refined my taste. The greater the degree of trust and connection the greater the pleasure. SAx
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