RHP Safe Sex options

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  These are both reckless categories and tell us something of a person's disposition towards safe sex. Clearly, they have never contracted anything, or have never been tested... either way, I think alarm bells ought to ring around these characters."when required"... I kind of thought that meant something like "I don't want to but I will if you insist", although as you point out, it could also mean "I'm going to use one if your junk smells nasty"."Sometimes" speaks for itself. It means "I'll be safe if you remind me to put one on, otherwise, I'll just do you bareback"... it could also mean.. "I play safe with everyone else, except my spouse..... and I trust him/her, so you can trust me, I'm clean."HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Stalky .... you are right about the "sometimes" category.   It also means.... "If you are REALLY assertive and after all my nagging you still wont let me shove my cock in then as a last resort I will put one on BUT ... I expect YOU to supply them" !!!   I don't find the categories hold true anyway. I find lots of "always for everything" guys still TRY to get away without using one or say, "I forgot to bring one".   Cheers, Saturn

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  In this environment there seems no other choice but to use condoms. Given condoms fail then its better to date guys have been circumsized. I will not give oral except circumsized.

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  erotictouch4u

  14 years ago

  "Always for Intercourse" I would expect to mean that initial foreplay and possibly mutual masterbation is not included.   Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I find lots of "always for everything" guys still TRY to get away without using one or say, "I forgot to bring one".     Then to them it is "Close the door on the way out babe" ET xox

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Ahhh... kinda what I suspected, but wasnt sure if its really what it meant... Thanks Stalky and Miss_Saturn.:)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For me that means someone that I'm dating exclusivly, not playing and we have both been tested and she's on some form of long term contraception thats not the pill. Geez, nowdays even then I'd probably still use a rubber.     Miss_Saturn, there is a lot of women with" always for all activities" that have turned around and have told me that they don't like the feel of condoms and want it bare back!!! So it's not just the guys.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Is there a way to play safe? We've met couples where chemical/biological warfare suits are the required attire in order to play. Kinda takes all the fun away and spontaneity of the occasion. Thats what we assume from the term "always for all activities". This we don't mind so long as its consistent. Its no use the female insisting on a condom for oral while her parner is quite happy without. It does make a mockery of the term. As for those who demand a certificate of testing, well they're only good on the day of testing. A certificate obtained on a Wednesday would not be valid on a Saturday. Plus not all diseases are tested for. And whats the incubation period before it can be detected? We assume those who use the option " if required" are happy to play without condoms because their only concern is contraception. Usually the female is on the pill, had a hysterectomy Or tubes tied. Some guys like myself have had a vasectomy which means I don't use a condom with my wife. She on the other hand is still fertile so safe sex is a must. Our concern is those who assume they are safe because they hold a certificate or cover themselves in bubble wrap. They seem to have this attitude that they're better than us while we should walk a distance behind with a bell shouting "unclean". So regardless of profile options, we like to get to know people, not just jump into bed on first meet. There's no such thing as completely safe, apart from abstinance of course, but who wants that?

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