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Question, met a couple but it was a single guy
August 28 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
that you would be stalked on the phone. I think it is better to have a phone chat. There are lots of couple profiles which are really just single guys. If you are really concerned about the phone, why not just buy a really cheap prepaid one and use it for these purposes only, but as for myself, I would never meet anyone without at least having a phone chat and in your situation you would be wanting to speak to both parties. Good luck
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RHP User
15 years ago
You could always get the other person's number and you call them and set your phone to private until you have established that you are speaking to genuine people.
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RHP User
15 years ago
This has happened to us before, you just have to laugh at how pathetic they are. Sure it wastes your time but feel pity for the poor guys to have to stoop so embarrassingly low. Early on we went to meet with a "couple" at a hotel. Arrived, only a guy was there, said wife was held late at work. Even had several "conversations" with her on his mobile. After 3 or 4 of these he suggested we start without her. OMG what a creep, we made excuses to go and get some food and got the hell out of there. I'd love to hear from any of these creeps that actually had any success as seems like a huge waste of time to me!
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RHP User
15 years ago
puppy That would have been worse to meet at hotel, my wife would have freaked,lol. This must happen a bit, I wonder if some are successful too. desserts will look into fake phone, sounds like a plan if we keep trying.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can you really blame them??? Considering the bad rap single guys get on here is it any wonder that some might try a different tact to get a look in??? I understand its dishonest and not doing them any good but they arent meeting any lovely couples such as yourselves as a single guy so why not try another approach??? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi focusliason We don't have a problem with single guy's as long as they are honest and up front. Sure we will talk to them and if we don't click then it is good bye, but they have to suit our requests just as much our's for them. We are open to meet any lovely person,persons as long as we have an attraction. But they have to show us the respect they ask of others. Keep in touch Focus, nice profile.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Look what happened to Hermann Rockefeller when he turned up to meet a couple without his "wife"
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Innercircle
15 years ago
you gotta love it that the ONLY person actually defending these clowns, "focusliason" is listed as a single female, but has a profile picture of a nice throbbing cock. Maybe 'he' is just pre-op?
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RHP User
15 years ago
The girls speaking to each other on the phone and doing the organising. That sorts the wheat from the chaff.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80'you gotta love it that the ONLY person actually defending these clowns, "focusliason" is listed as a single female, but has a profile picture of a nice throbbing cock. Maybe 'he' is just pre-op? ...and finally... have had said pic up for approx 48 hours and Rockercouple80 are the only ones (apart from regs that have actually met me) to make a comment...have been doing an experiment to see if people actually pay attention and while the number of flirts and msgs I have received has dropped...I AM STILL GETTING THEM...lol and not from guests either but those who can see the pic...makes me wonder... and guys if you go back through the forum threads of the past few weeks I have been defending the single guys a bit...am sick and tired of them getting the raw deal when there are some absolutle lovelies out there.. But anytime you want to try out my new appendage let me know Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
we were newbies when we met at hotel, now girls talk on phone or no go - it's the only way and even then people pull some funny shit.
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ocean_man
15 years ago
Well, you just can't trust some men. They will say anything to get some action. And some women too, as I discovered when I was a newbie here. Well at least three women, anyway. After those three disasterous meetings, I bought a webcam! Haven't had a problem since. I have had a few guys with female profiles send me messages too. Doesn't take long to figure them out though. haha I am never in a hurry to swap numbers either. When I see a profile with a phone number in it I automatically assume something is awry.
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RHP User
15 years ago
IF you are after a couple, have the girls sort it out, that probably the best way. If I become half of a couple that plays I reckon thats what I will be suggesting. Lol will probably not automatically rule out single guys though, she would need her fun too :) It does seem a pity that all of us single men get tarred with the same brush a lot on here. I have met some truly obnoxious couples and single females so I guess it is probably just that because there are so many more single men on here, more chance of meeting a bad one. Anyhow as I have said before, "Honesty! Not helping me get laid but definitely helps me look in the mirror in the mornings"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80' you gotta love it that the ONLY person actually defending these clowns, "focusliason" is listed as a single female, but has a profile picture of a nice throbbing cock. Maybe 'he' is just pre-op? Focus is one of the most gorgeous women on the planet, she's 100% female and a soul of an angel. Her experiment is to test whether people actually read the profile or just message based on pictures but you've just made yourself look foolish and ignorant. I guess your saving grace from this will be you're simply new on this forum and don't know the lovely Focus but I can assure you that's not the way to go about it.Rob
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now as crazy as she is we have in fact meet Focus and as mad as SHE is, SHE is a SHE ! LMAO Focus I mearly thought you were doing a little cock worship ! You little cheeky subbie ! Brae ...... smirking Now as for the single boy turning up pretending to be a couple I completely disagree with her bad rap or not that is disgusting behaviour from boys and deserves condeming not excusses ! Still lurve ya focus but guys that do that are a problem for all !
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
it was a couples profile and only the female showed? would it turn out to be the same disgust as such? just a curiosity question eh....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Couples get this all time.....the guy in the couple wanting to meet and his wife is not available, they also soon start talking about MFM 3 somes....thats our signal to end the communication and move on. Phones are a good idea, but the female here gets really annoyed with girls must talk and comes so close to calling it off. She says we are swinging as couple ie 4 people....all 4 must talk!! If just the male did turn up.....we would leave, we have talked about this with other genuine couples and these guys are taking a big risk, as they may get physically hurt!
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RHP User
15 years ago
..as are single profiles that are in fact couples, guys using a womans profile, a woman using a male profile...and the adorable BubbaJ make a good point...would it be as much of an issue if it was a woman....while not making excuses I can see why someone might do that..I dont condone it but I do understand the reasoning. Brae...see what happens when this naughty little sub has too much time on her hands???? Bu thanks for the defence babe..mwah Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Got to say that it isn't unusual, but not a common occurrence either.We have had the same thing happen once and since then we ensure that Sheba speaks with the female, although being fair we don't get a lot of couples hitting us up to that point as most seem happy to look at pics and go no further (are we that dang ugly).Our way, simple.If we get hit up the girls chat and agree to meet as that way at least one can be some way towards comfortable that the female knows and is at least comfortable. The only downside being that one must then trust that the female being spoken with is indeed the female half of the alleged couple.Ah well, we figure that is the risk we take but that aside, if we agreed to meet a couple, had spoken with the female yet only the male showed - well that could be interestingShebagazz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bubba ! Bloooooody great point ! We had a friend who did just that , had a couples profile and there was NO husband or partner. She found it a great little way to keep away single boys who bugged her if she went as a single girls profile.....oh dear have we just done a circle ? So ah ha ! It can indeed happpen ! Now to that naugthy little subby ! (you know who you are) you deserve at least 10 firm straps across your butttocks from your Sir. Get to it ...... ! Brae
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gawwddammit focus you're full of delightful surprises! I'm going to have to pay more attention! :p I don't get how guys become that desperate for a shag that they have to invent a partner and go through all that crap of messages, meetings, all the cross checking phone calls and what not just to get a root. Do these guys have two heads or something? I mean what makes them so unattractive and unfuckable that they have to go to such lengths just to fuck? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's no wonder we single guys get a bad rap on these sites if there's sleezes out there pulling shit like this!! Be honest guys, if you aren't doing any good maybe you need to look at your approach? Sorry Focus, I gotta disagree with you aswell, but thatnks for going into bat for us!! As for any additional appendages Focus may or may not have, I can vouck for her....she is ALL woman!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Since my previous post a few gorgeous guys have come into bat for me and I say thanks guys.... Mwah to the beautiful Rob - one of those honest genuine and sinfully delightful single guys I am going into bat for Kisses too to the beautiful Dazza...ahhh fond memeories of my first experience on this site...again a beautiful single guy just looking for some honest NSA fun Stalky - baby you need to visit the ooze pond more often...you never know what you are missing out on... As for my experiment - as you can all now see I had to give that up.....shame too cause he was very yummy - Oh and thanks to the adorable gentleman who kindly and willingly let me utilise his appendage you know who you are.... Brae...that norty subbie will take your recommendation as soon as she possibly can Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
...I dont actually say I agree with their tactics but I can understand why they might take this path... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
there has been a lady with a cock on here and us guests dont get to see her ........... that is just plain mean I may just have to stare at my own and imagin what hers may be like Andy XXX now looking down but not far,,,,,,,
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RHP User
15 years ago
What Nev said: talk on phone as soon as possible too many hot couples to waste time with games. If you want a guy look for a guy. as for ph stalkers , an annoying message or 2 is easy compared with wasting your nite meeting imaginary couples who are guys lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
at the end of the day, theres no excuse for it. Our profile clearly states what we are after, but yet we still get messages from single guys. And yeah, posing as couples, or females, when obviously, if we thought it was a genuine couple, of fem, and we did meet, we are going to tell them what we think anyway, and prob more, for wasting our time. its no different to women putting profiles on here, but then stating they will only play with their partner, doesnt that make them a couple? Same as what is said above, we talk on phone, girl to girl, and if genuine, then we meet. As for the single guys, they get a bad rap for a reason, be honest, respond to profiles that request you, and sure you will be much better seen upon by all members. We had one guy we were going to get in touch with for a one off for MRS C, but he messaged us first, and we completely lost interest, yeah lovely guy, but if he is that illiterate or rude that he cant read a profile, then why should we waste our time. Most couple, even if asking for girls or other couples, will seek a guy and contact him if they wish. So make your profile stand out, and be attractive and honest to couples searching.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It isn't just single guys. I get heaps of couples messaging me and when i say no, I often get quite abusive messages telling me I should be grateful that they want to meet me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I hate to have to say this but I will, the abusive ones are usually the ones of the larger size when clearly I am not, so how about not putting all the single guys down.
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RHP User
15 years ago
well i am a married guy here on his own i do not hide the fact and i do not pretend to be a couple because i am not here as a couple. if someone contacts me its the first thing i clarify so that there is no missunderstanding. most couples seem to be just the men. 1 in every 50 agree to turn on their cam so u can verify that the woman is involved. most say "oh, she's asleep" or what i was told just last night..."she's feeling a bit off tonight". and being married and here on my own i cop a lot of stick.....but i try not to judge those who throw the stone or weild the stick. i have been let down twice in the last week by 2 supposed couples, with a third in the pipeline it will be interesting to see what happens there.
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