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Pushing Boundries..

February 28 2010

We all have some kind of fantasy's..And boundries we like to stretch ..What happens when we have done  everything ? Do we start again with someone new?  Or if you have had the same partner for many years how do you keep things fresh..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Come on Taipan !  You have GOT to be joking.... there are always more fantasies to do... different places, different postions.    I generally don't repeat the same fantasy with different guys.  I always create a different version, different location etc.   It just depends how creative you are .... I love my creativity !  I will never be bored with myself... LOL.   xxx Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree Miss Saturn but you and i are single we have an apetite ..But i am sure there may have been a time in a relationship ,when the sex was not the priority towards the end of it..   So i guess i am saying do we sometimes get bored..I am sure there are people on the site who have a partner and they express thoughts here and not with their partner..I know i have been guilty of thinking not tonight or i have been with someone who was not as active..   It will be interesting to read the different responses..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have a very active and creative mind..This is only something that i am  throwing out there for the forum..   Sex is great in Taipans World !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Trish i like your pantry !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Taipan   I know sex is on tap here.... at least for the women.  But seriously I could very happily have sex with just one man for the rest of my life and be blissfully happy !  That's ideally what I want...I'm just stuck in the RHP Twilight Zone of casual NSA sex at the moment.  It's a bit like trying to find the cheese in the maze... I'm searching for my cheese.   I'm with Trish... it's all to do with your imagination.  There are SOOO many places I'd like to go with that ONE man, so many experiences I'd like to share.  I can be sexually satisfied without penetration and I can sexually satisfy my partner without penetration.    Intimacy is more important than actual sex.  I can be intimate eating dinner, watching T.V, brushing my partner's hair, scratching his back.  Creativity goes a long way... not just in relation to sexual acts and fantasies.   Cheers, Miss Saturn (who has had an unusually quiet weekend !!! )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thats what i am talking about Miss Saturn..I think that is the ultimate destination , finding the partner who offers all sorts of different pleasures sexually and non sexual.. You have that constant high and errection !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    as a kid growing up i never had contact with a female from 6yrs old till i was 16,,,with that in mind, i grew up having my first female relationship at age 16got her pregnant and married her,, ( no,, didn't last )through the  end of my youth to adulthood ( which i don't think i've reached yet ) i thought love was through the penis,, and i've payed the price ever since,, lust was love/sex was love ,,well you get the picturewhat i have learned from life is this-when i love someone i want to be with them 24/7i admire and fantasize about them,,,even  whilst i'm in the same room as themi adore perving at them from the other side of the roomi want to have them sleep on my chest with my arms wrapped around them all nightthe sex comes naturally anywhere and everywherebut this isn't practical and the relationship doesn't laston the other side of the coin  is thisnot many women want this sort of profound attentionthey wear down and slowly detach themselves from you,, as you've shown all you have to give of yourself,,, so much so and so completely that  she knows you haven't anymore to giveand by jesus , we all have a perv at the opposite sex/same sex,,just human naturea friend of mine once said to her man-' i don't care where you get your appetite from just so long as you come home to eatso the question should bethis------ how much of yourself should you give and how much should you hold  back in reservethis way we would be keeping the relationship fresh as we would always be learning new things about our partner every day of the relationshiplike i've said previously i'm not that good at expressing myself and formatting sentences isn't my thing so i assume some paragraphs may not be in the correct order or even written right  but i hope you all get my drift,,,no english school teachers corrections  please,,,unless it's for a spanking ladies,,,,,,,just sharing some of life's experiences through the eyes of                                                                                      tried and still trying

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have lost interest in sex full stop at the moment. People still interest me....but sex....just seems like all to much effort for now!Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    a foot massage right now :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    That can offer sexual and non sexual pleasures to totally satisfy you for life?  And enough to make you only want to be sexual with that person.... for the rest of your life?  Nuh!  Don't believe that one for a minute.    Sweet... and cynical

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for your answer sweetiepie  , it is interesting to hear from a couple as to how they reinvent or perk up their needs.. I have been single now for a couple of years so i have been in single life mode ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    haven't done everything yet...not by a looonnnnngggggggggggg way...ma biggest problem ?dang horse keeps getting in the way....theSHERIFF..