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Prostitutes, disabilities and sex....
March 22 2014
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imupinthesky2
12 years ago
very interestingeach year the tv stations run the same stories that generate public interestthey often lack for new stories to runbut this is an interesting topicno havent thought about wheelchair sexbut I realise these people can quite often have a need for love or sex or bothjust bc they are in a wheelchair doesnt mean they are off the shelf per say to add to the thread, I used to have a client who was / is on a lifetime pension scheme with DVA and with talking to him about it some time ago he mentioned they do get an allowance per week in their benefit (wether they use / act on it) which entitles them to engage the services of a professional person (yes I said person ... dont know if they require a tax receipt though !!) I think this is a rarity as apposed to the norm but I honestly feel for these people who are limited ONLY in OTHER peoples perception but not by their less-ability (commonly referred to by the uneducated as disability) would be nice to hear other thoughts on this topic by Cougar
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
They are people first...with the same needs and wants as any other person who can walk and talk. Just because some is in a chair and sits, or can't talk and uses signing or has a body with physical body deformities, does not mean they are not capable of having intimate relationships with some one who can stand, talk and able. I believe in what the mother has done for her son IF he has been given a choice, he has a every right to have sexual relationships. Why not? Who has the right to deny anyone if they have a mental or physical disability of being intimate with another. Who says they can't have sex?? Foxy (upholds human rights for those with physical disabilities)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Sometimes the Government will hand out Packages/Grants. Part of those packages/Grants will be a list of what and what not they can be used on....some packages vary on the individual needs basis. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
a few customers who are disabled who tell me they go and see the brothel around the corner (all men). I have quite a few who regularly buy porn, they don't buy anything particular to their disability and like the rest of us, they like certain genres. I have one who collects porn parodies. We do have a very small section of porn dedicated to physical impairments being amputees and midgets which I have never sold so there is not a big calling for it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am in a wheelchair.Say what you will but people still judge a book by its cover. I have had one girlfriend (ex since early last year) since 2006 and I'm now coming up to 1 year of no sex.While I don't have the hip movement I once had (doggy is out for me) I am still functional and have needs/wants, the problem is finding someone who looks past the chair and wants me for who I am and what I can do. I know other physically disabled people in the same boat, too many normal bodied people go by looks or think we are not able to have sex. As for paying a pro for sex, even if they are disabled friendly, its still not the same. I'd rather find a lover and friend, then someone who charges by the hour and there's no real connection with. Sex is sex but sex without emotion and getting to know each other is a big turn off for me. I read profiles here and on a few other sites and 90% of people state they want a "fit or sexy, man/woman". I know Im not fit but it sucks that so many demand 100% perfect or not at all. PS I miss the sex I used to have before the chair but there's not much I can do about it. the ways I can have sex may have changed but I can still have fun and so could a woman who has sex with me (especially if she like woman on top).
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sweetgem
12 years ago
My apologies in advance if any part of my comment in this post, unintentionally, upset or offends anyone as I do not mean to bring out negative messages at all! So, please do not read too much into my comment. Q. My questions are, what are your thoughts on a mother hiring a prostitute for her disabled son? * When you are a parent, you just have to do what you can to help your children who are in need of assistance. There is no right or wrong rule in the extreme circumstances. At least this mother in TV program is getting her son's physical needs sorted, which might lift a little sadness off her son's already unhappy soul. Therefore, I respect this mother for being there for her son. Q. Would you want to watch a porn movie of a disabled person and if so, would it be because of curiosity, or rather its something you get turned on by? * As of now, I would not want to watch a porn movie of a disabled person, because I don't need to, as I am hopeless at keeping my sympathy (for people with a disability) to myself! And I don't think people in that kind of situation would need or want sympathy for their condition! Hence, I better not being rude or stupid in the first place. However, I am gonna do a course on counseling soon, so at some point, I would watch a porn movie of a disabled person (as part of my study) just to gain some understanding of how a person with a disability feels or thinks, when it comes to physical needs, and what would they do to have their needs achieved. Body, mind and spirit are all linked and working together to make one a functional human, so I am interested in studying the mind, which controls the body and spirit. Hopefully in the future, with my study, I could help to bring back some lights to people who are in need of help, with appropriate knowledge and approach, and that is unnecessarily just helping people with a disability. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
In Queensland the law does not recognise that every person with a disability is able to give informed consent when it comes to sex...and if you are a parent or support worked and you arrange for someone with a disability to see a prostitute ,you can be charged with procuring......conversely a few years ago the mother of a man I was a service provider to witnessed a male carer fellating her son..she had the carer charged with sexual assault but the magistrate deemed that her severely physically and intellectually disabled son,was able to consent,and that he did. xx Q
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YoungOne91
12 years ago
Like Geek im in a wheelchair as well and have similar opinions. Personally id rather find someone than pay and have some connection and attraction rather than just a service. Ill admit it seems alot harder compared to able bodied people as its another thing people have to learn to be comfortable and accept. Fortunately so far ive had more people tell me my age is a problem compared to my wheelchair so its nice to see people are seeing us as people and not some alien they wont go near. In regards to the questions never have watched a porn with a disabled person, but think the experience would be the same. It would be what happens that turns me on not that the people are disabled. I will probably never pay for sex and would be mortally embarrassed if my mum did it for me but i understand some people dont have the independence i do so not judging those that have. Have i used my chair to try and get sex before though?..yes and no, Its not so much of a thing for some but there are those that are curious about it and after further chatting with these people i have found them more accepting than most. Im not the type to walk into a room and say "who wants to fuck someone in a wheelchair" but if someone is curious its better than using some pick up line. If a girl can use her features to pull someone in why cant we use a wheelchair :).
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YoungOne91
12 years ago
i meant to say "who wants to fuck me i'm in a wheelchair. This is what u get for going on the forums without the morning coffee.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A couple of months back I was contacted on another site by a young lady(29) in a wheelchair who asked if I would meet her and take her virginity.She had been trying to lose it for some years apparently and finally resorted to the adult sites for it to happen.According to what she told me many men had a problem with the fact that she had no control over her legs,and consequently would lose their erection.So after a couple of meetings to get to know eachother and a hell of a lot of laughs,we got our acts together and made it happen for her.She is a terrific girl and some one will have a good lover one day,as I spent quite some time teaching her how to please a man and she certainly wanted to be completely and thoroughly fucked.We started out using condoms ,but after our second session she wanted to know what it was like to have a man blow inside her.After that there was no stopping her.We met 3 times a week for the next 2 months until she moved away,but we still keep in touch online.So ,never discount any one who may have a disability ,you may well be missing out on a marvellous experience,not to mention make a new friend
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Geek_on_wheels' I am in a wheelchair.Say what you will but people still judge a book by its cover. I have had one girlfriend (ex since early last year) since 2006 and I'm now coming up to 1 year of no sex.While I don't have the hip movement I once had (doggy is out for me) I am still functional and have needs/wants, the problem is finding someone who looks past the chair and wants me for who I am and what I can do. I know other physically disabled people in the same boat, too many normal bodied people go by looks or think we are not able to have sex. As for paying a pro for sex, even if they are disabled friendly, its still not the same. I'd rather find a lover and friend, then someone who charges by the hour and there's no real connection with. Sex is sex but sex without emotion and getting to know each other is a big turn off for me. I read profiles here and on a few other sites and 90% of people state they want a "fit or sexy, man/woman". I know Im not fit but it sucks that so many demand 100% perfect or not at all. PS I miss the sex I used to have before the chair but there's not much I can do about it. the ways I can have sex may have changed but I can still have fun and so could a woman who has sex with me (especially if she like woman on top). did go and meet you, and ladies he was pretty nice from what she said. but she was a nurse, so you have to be fair with this, a lot of the so called normal are a bit scared and apprehensive so its up to you to guide them and take away that apprehension. she sure had fun
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RHP User
6 years ago
disability My partner is very thin and has mobility issues but we are adventurus.We enjoy group sex but find Initial Contact Very Difficult. Would Love To Meet Similar Couples MS etc. We Need A New Category.
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Sensualdays
6 years ago
You’ve missed the point. The services provided by Touching Base are for people with disabilities like cerebral palsy, blindness, Spina bifida etc etc. we all have mobility issues as we get older!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I am sorry if I have been misinterpreted. My partner would love to have mfm or meet up with other similar couples. Like others we have fantasies. It is just difficult to approach others.
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luvsilver
6 years ago
I did security for mobile strippers and escorts in my thirties for about five years.There were a few customers with varying types of disabilities that used the escort service.Some arranged themselves while 2 or 3 clients had their time arranged by their carer.The customers needs were met where they may not have been able to have been otherwise.I think i'ts a great idea.Mr Luvsilver
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Dryphuz
6 years ago
Its great to know that people with disabilities have options. Its hilarious that there's an allowance on the DVA for that (As a gamer i thought you were talking about Overwatch). But I also totally agree with it and would go to the barricades (pun intended) to defend that allowance from being taken away. Wish there was an allowance like that for people with anxiety... I met a blind girl (yes girl, i was 19 and she was 17) once that i would have really liked to date, but she told me she thought she could better. She was probably right. In the same way that i've watched dwarf pornstars (male and female) out of curiosity, i would watch disabled porn stars. But if there was a disabled star that did it for me, I'd then probably seek out more of their stuff. Porn is an industry where catering to niches is just good business sense, so it wouldn't surprise me at all to find out that there's lots out there. I've just never stumbled across it before, but i've never sought it out as a fetish or anything either. I have heard of amputee fetish though. I think, short of a doctor, a mother is the best person to decide if she wants to get her disabled son a prostitute. That being said, Google Jim Jefferies muscular dystrophy if you dont already know the story. Jim's a comedian so the telling is funny, but its also a true story. A best friend is the next most qualified to get a disabled person a prostitute. The disabled person themselves...? That's going to depend on the disability. Other than twins, i ticked off my fuckit list (which was pretty tame, but hey some of us don't have much sexual ambition) and wheelchair was not on it. But... Now that i think about it, I wouldn't mind trying having sex while winging around on a mobility scooter.
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Sawadee
6 years ago
...to any mother of a disabled son or daughter who puts the needs of thier child before thier own ? This would be the furthest thing from most mothers minds , but under these circumstances it takes quite a woman to look past her own teachings to want to provide gratification for thier child ? Because ' l feel for people with disabilities , l dont think id feel comfortable enough to be intimate .. but thats me , until confronted I don't really know.. I've seen some really attractive females minus a limb .. so ?
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
In my private life i have been with someone who was hearing impaired and another who was paraplegic.. Both beautiful people who I have shared some damn sexy memories with. I have a fantasy about being with someone who is vision impaired. Intially found providing services to people with an intellectual disability, was a challenge due to my perceptions. Have an arrangement where a mother will call me for her adult son. I meet the mother for payment and with this being a long-term arrangement, it is like catching up with a mother in-law.
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RHP User
6 years ago
In sydney. There is a program for sex workers to sign up to, get vetted and seek to help out disabled men. I used to be a sex worker myself. I signed up to this program to help disabled women. I was the only male escort that did so. And I never got a female client from this program. They also told me they have never had a female seek a male escort but they have a huge database of disabled men seek this service. This seems odd to me. Perhaps as a female, it’s still easy to pull even being in a wheel chair etc..
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like2watchNplay
6 years ago
In my late teens and early twenties it was hard to go to a pub or nightclub to meet girls, (I guess no one liked my rap dancing talents) lol, and it was hard to watch my mates pick up while I went home alone most of the time, so yes... I've seen escorts before and I really take my hat off to them, they are amazing ladies. Having said that, those old mates have very sexless boring lives now and I'm living the dream lol, I have to one of the luckiest guys alive. I've been married to the most amazingly beautiful woman for almost 18 years now, and i have had the pleasure of meeting and making some awesome and incredibly sexy friends on here. I must admit it's still sometimes hard to limp into swingers club or party, because unfortunately there is still some people who give you that look of WTF are you doing here? you don't belong here... but that's their problem not ours, and to be honest we wouldn't be interested in most of them either lol. I have to say I am very grateful to those we have met and who have welcomed me, (us) into this wonderful lifestyle, you guys are amazing. I'm probably not going to go out of my way to watch disabled porn, but if anyone wants to make some send me message lol.
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