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February 16 2011

Why do i find promiscuous people unstable? Is this just happening to me? I would love some info on the subject

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What do you consider promiscuous?? And unstable in what way?? xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The majority of females I know who are Promiscuous do have a darker side to them and sometimes have deep issues that are unresolved i.e abuse (verbal/non verbal), low self image & self worth..So therefore they go into self sabotage and seek attention in other ways but not really addressing the real underlying problemnot that I'm talking from experience or anything Ok you could say I used to be this way...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oooh where do I start with this one! If you find promiscuous people "unstable" then what the heck are you doing on here? And what do you class as 'unstable' and is this just women or do you see men as promiscuous beings as well? Being promiscuous is a way of exploring sex and your sexuality - it is about learning. People that do this certainly don't have a darker side to them or deeper issues - they are just having fun! (most of them before settling down with right person). Pusscat xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    There is a theory that what offends us most in other people is just a reflection of the parts of ourself we don't like. ;) Is there something about your own promiscuity or lack thereof that makes u worry about how people will judge you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    there is no chance of me being unstable with these legs...... . Does that mean I am not promiscuous?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Unstable..... you mean, as in wobbly legs....... or perhaps you mean emotionally... or maybe you think they're all nutters.... you really need to communicate more by way of an example perhaps. Notwithstanding, sex is one way of escape from their troubles... and for good reason... dopamines... happy pills.... you can be someone else.. or no-one in that dreamy euphoric state of sexual ecstasy.... and it's free... well.. for some of us. :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    How many sexual partners does it take to wear the label of promiscuity? Are we about to hear the word "slut"? In what way do you find these people unstable? Mentally? Physically?Lots of non promiscuous people could be called unstable too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    come on you know how dumb i am can we make the questions abit easier please im not promiscuous but im very unstable...or maybe i am promiscuous...geez i dont know ohhh see, now im just confused roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm definitely promiscuous. Have been, well, since I started shagging. I go through stages, when I've had a partner in the past I have been a good monogamous girlfriend. I'm out shagging because, well, you know, I like shagging. It's fun.I don't think I'm unstable. Maybe because I shag for the fun of it and not trying to build self-worth or self-esteem out of it, and I don't use sex as a bargaining tool to try and get other things in life.I think some people just attract the crazy, maybe you're one of them? Or rather, they're attracted to the crazy. Fortunately I haven't ever really been a fan of the crazy people, but I can see the appeal.The energy, the intense look in their eyes, the excitement of being with someone completely unpredictable... it sure has an allure. For a short period anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    can be a symptom of instability, but it doesn't necessarily follow that everyone who is promiscuous is unstable. I would go so far as to say that promiscuity could also be a trait of someone who is very strong, in a "I know what I want and I'm going to get it" kind of way.And Roxxy, could it be that you're unstably promiscuous? Now I'm confused..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't understand what you think 'is happening' to you? Soubi

  • N4November

    N4November

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'touchyfeelie' There is a theory that what offends us most in other people is just a reflection of the parts of ourself we don't like. ;) Is there something about your own promiscuity or lack thereof that makes u worry about how people will judge you? I wanted to go on a rant, but you know, I think touchyfeelie captured the issues perfectly!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Again the complaining about the unstable. Are we but tables upon which to place your feelings of distaste? NO.Promiscuity is its own security, a little tab, a folded note, a reason to be, placed under a leg, or the table will be unstable. We are here to keep you able to not spill your little mind across that table. Is it insecurity that makes you fear promiscuity. Can you dance on a table that you imagine unable to keep you mind able. Who is unstable, you or our table?We are the produce of desire, the expression that wants, needs, and demands the lust in us all. More more more!. Should we let the unknowing hoard, the fools, unbalanced and fearful, stand up high on our backs to proclaim superiority. We give you life, we make humanity, how dare you call us unstable...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    IF YOU COME INTO THE CHATROOMS IN THE WEE HOURS YOU MAY CAPTURE THE SIGHT OF SOMEONE BEING SHAGGED BY 5 GUYS OR ELSE SHE WILL BE CRYING AND ABUSING EVERYONE. I REMEMBER ONE GUY SAYING AFTER SEEING THIS SPECTACULAR OCCURANCE THAT IS GENITALS HAD TURNED INTO A MOUND LIKE A KEN DOLL. IM WONDERING IF UNANTICPATED IF THIS IS THE SAME PERSON.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Fortunately, it's not sexually transmittable. . Even the most selective people can have it too. I think it's either a) bad luck that you've met some nutters or b) you're projecting it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Who is anyone to judge another's promiscuity or lack their of...and unstable ? don't start me ..... did you know at least 1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men have mental health issues ie depression / anxiety .... that would indicate a great snap shot of RHP subscribers are 'unstable' as you put ... I wonder if they are all promiscuous too ? I wonder if you are just describing us 'girls' as promiscuous and the 'boys' as studs !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    They are sick, twisted, demented, individuals. I mean...just take a look at Stalky. RFLMAO

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have a coffee table that is unstable / yet she is so well behaved

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think promiscuous is someone who will fuck anyone and anything with little or no regard for others.I think they are selfish....self centered....and usually self loathing.This is totally different to being sexually open and enlightened.Of course...this is JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sooo, let's see here, are ypu saying that bottling up pent up sexual tension and staying celibate or just refraining from sex is normal. My god made my pussy to accept pleasure, he made Mr.Ty's dicky just right to give me that pleasure and also there are many others that do so as well. (getting hot in here). I personally feel it is totally irrational not to express one's sexual needs or desires whenever possible within the restrictive confines of legality (not in front of schoolchildren).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    .....so nicely said

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I always wondered at the significance of "GirlTuesday". Haven't seen you about much since I have been back from.... Exile...lolHope everything is going ok for you.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    All hail Markuss the poet.HugsStalky Quoting 'Markusss67' Again the complaining about the unstable. Are we but tables upon which to place your feelings of distaste? NO.Promiscuity is its own security, a little tab, a folded note, a reason to be, placed under a leg, or the table will be unstable. We are here to keep you able to not spill your little mind across that table. Is it insecurity that makes you fear promiscuity. Can you dance on a table that you imagine unable to keep you mind able. Who is unstable, you or our table?We are the produce of desire, the expression that wants, needs, and demands the lust in us all. More more more!. Should we let the unknowing hoard, the fools, unbalanced and fearful, stand up high on our backs to proclaim superiority. We give you life, we make humanity, how dare you call us unstable...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' They are sick, twisted, demented, individuals. I mean...just take a look at Stalky. RFLMAO ahem.... was it the white jacket that gave me away? I've tried to blend in with everyone else but with my arms tied behind my back it's complicated!HugsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'fionabee' They are sick, twisted, demented, individuals. I mean...just take a look at Stalky. RFLMAO ahem.... was it the white jacket that gave me away? I've tried to blend in with everyone else but with my arms tied behind my back it's complicated!HugsSNothing like a big warm hug.......from yourself!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Your profile clearly says that you want a woman that can lead! Wouldn't that be a promiscuous woman? < Your profile says that this is a sex site and we all know why we are here! Again, what kind of woman are you expecting? > Your profile also says someone that has the sex drive that comes from knowing and wanting so much more! < I don't get your beef? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    bahhhh just words for describing a person who we dont know enough about to have an educated opinion on really. . Promiscuous ? Unstable? . because they dont fit our behaviour? . . If we encounter someone who clearly doesnt suit us in the bedroom or otherwise, why not just say NEXT, move on build one of those funny little things used to get to the other side of water and forget about it. . I think stopping to make a judgement on them or give them a label says more about 'us' than them . .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    "Doctor...I become really unstable when I am promiscuous! What should I do?" | "Well...don't do that." | Please send $50 to to your favourite charity that supports mental health. That's cheap...the online shrinks and tarot card readers charge way more than that! | Psssttt...all you promicous and unstable hot chicks, can we talk?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks Stalky. A minor bit of midnight madness to maintain mental momentum, lest managed modern morality mess with my mind.