M41
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August 17 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
No idae if this helps or not but since you can't view "dirty" pice if you are a guest I am pretty sure it isn't all that good a way of attracting women. My main problem is no pics at all on womens profile.i have a face pic and I know its not a good pic of me so if women are interested they can flirt amd then I can give them access to my private gallery. However that said I tend to look at profile and see if they are interested in some of the things I am. the pic is supposed to be a lure not something to make you want to laugh/vomit. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
For myself it does not seem to hinder me getting mail or flirts by not having a photo up. If I am asked nicely and a man has sent me a pic as per my request, I will gladly show him my face. The reason I do not show a picture on here is because my face is well known and I do not want my business splashed all over the place. So it is for privacy. Having said that, I would still never display body shots for all and sundry to see either. Don't want to put off anyone who may be remotely interested, lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think clothed/semi clothed, face, innocent photos is nicer to see than cock pics - Not that I can see them now I'm only a guest. But I think we are given private galleries for a reason and more should exercise the use of them.I love a good perv but on the main page the last thing I want to see is some flaccid willy or some snake pit staring at me.But like I said, I am a prude or am I.
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razor2000
13 years ago
I don't think the private galleries are just for putting naughty nude photos in otherwise your wouldn't be allowed to put them in your public profile. They get blocked out as underage people can be guests and look so this stops that happening. I and I'm sure a lot of others have face pics in my private gallery and obviously I have more control over who sees them. Do agree with the OP about close ups though,a little teasing and not showing EVERYTHING is good but so is actually being able to tell what part of the body is being shown. Plenty of women on here showing tit and pussy shots and I can't recall anyone complaining about them, this is a "sex" site after all so I don't think it's a surprise that some of the equipment gets put on display.
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RHP User
13 years ago
as to why some people have no pics here at all.In their profile they often say they are attractive but refuse to show their faces. I understand why someone would have their face pics in their private gallery but to have no pic at all? The only conclusion seems to be that they have something to hide,are fake,or Brad and Angelina.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cock pics ... do not get my attention A Nice tasteful sexy shot ... will get my attention A bare chest nice pair of jeans fly slightly undone ... A cute Arse ... in a tight pair of jeans ... Or simply a cheeky smile ... with a naughty spark in the eyes
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RHP User
13 years ago
When men say what do you think of me in a flirt and have no picture. It gets tired when they do not show their face at first contact. As much as I may find a guys body and his penis attractive if the face is not doing it for me I just cant go there. Its not always about looks either as in the most handsome dude ever, its just my how I am wired with attraction. I have three lots of pictures that I update on a regular basis, as no point to put up an airbrushed perfect picture if your intent is to meet a person. Public you can see me with sunglasses, I am sure its a thin disguise but its better than non I guess. Second may be legs or boobs etc. Third yep naked, reason it turns me on to know it turns on guys to look at them. So its a sexual buzz for me that horny mine guys may be having a wank over those pictures. Though I do not do the open leg chain saw gash pictures. But it suits the reasons I am here, as I am not after a dinner date at all, I have a partner. Men may also get turned on, just in the fact someone can see his willy even though he may not had a person look at it in the flesh for years. Men love their cocks and no matter what shape and size they are still proud of them, unlike women who often are not happy with their body parts. But it does not help your cause guys to have your cock as your main picture. I take cock pictures for work and I tell men to put them only in their private gallery, if possible. They need to show their face if they can, or just part of their face if they cant. Their torso as that way a woman can determine your weight and build and you do not have to be naked for that. Eventually you will have to show your face as I and many others will not meet a man without a face picture? Why you ask Because he could be my best friends husband, or my friends son or a friend of my children. The beauty of this is we have choices to put it out or not, but what you do will reflect on what you get back in return. Especially for women, if you show your stuff then be prepared to be looked at as an object of lust and lust only. Works well for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mike, are you saying your main profile photo is not your best one. And that only after you have lured women into sending a flirt to you with it, you will then allow them access to your private gallery. That’s unusual. Is that working for you? If there is no photo at all on women’s profiles, I just walk on by. And if others are not happy with the photos I put up, they should walk on by. No problems. But let’s not go banging on about it forever. I can understand people not showing face photos, because I don’t myself, but no photo of anything says it all to me. It says there is not one part of my anatomy that I would like to show to others. Not one. When the time arrived for me to show my face to people on this site, I well and truly knew and trusted them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Johnny Quest :) Thanks for your Topic.. I agree with you 100% infact I'd take it a bit further. .I feel as part of the Conditions for Joining...Everyone on RHP should be required to Place a Profile Pic of themselves on their Profile Page unless for legitimate reasons they can't show on the Profile.. still making 1 available on request..that includes Male Partner in Couples seeking.. Guys want to know such Intimate things about me.. share what they want to do with/ too me.. They expect me to say sure rush on over.. we'll get down and dirty .or they send the flirt I think you're hot what do you think of me Dah!!They haven't a Pic in sight . disregarding the Nude/ cock ones that is..They can take them all day.. but few Women can see them.. .Oh! that certainly works for me!.. At the very least it's Manners being Considerate to the Women they want to know more... They don't wear covers over their faces in Public... Online it's even more important they show it.. there's little enough we know about them.. A different thing about Profiles...Why do Guys fill in a lot of Interests A-Z.or none... When it comes down too it... all they have is a Sexual Interest in Women Online .. usually seperate from their Mainstream Lives..Never get to experience any of his other Interests anyway.. Enjoy Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
A little mystique does wonders for the imagination, it makes you think what is behind the little black door
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RHP User
13 years ago
my son has mates on here and they told him, thats why only a boobs shot. But when i start flirting/messaging i always give access to my photos so they can see my face and smile :-) then they can see if they like me, not just my boobs. it would be nice if a lot more men would have a facial picture on here, even in private gallery. the real attraction for ME comes from the eyes, a cheeky look, smile and sexy hairy chesty pose... not his dick!!!! well maybe later on xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
when i first joined up a couple of years ago, a guy contacted me, whew what a pic - yummy - said he was a personal trainer - had a gorgeous upper torso shot - great pecs, wonderful abs ! well to cut a long story short - i asked him over to my place, big mistake ! When I answered the door he looked nothing like the picture I saw of him! It was obviously a fake pic! He was at least 30 kgs heavier in real life! I felt angry and cheated! He was in my house, it was potentially a volatile situation! Luckily he left without me having to get too nasty! but i did get a few angry texts on his way home!Id much rather show a pic of the REAL me, I may not be perfect, but few of us are! At least with being honest you'll never turn up to anyones place and give them a fright! lolMaybe guys think they can baffle you first with their charm & wit so you wont care what they look like ??To me there is no excuse why you cant put up a recent face pic, thats what the PG is for! I dont care how important you think you are! it gets so tiring when a guy says 'i cant put one up on here, give me your number and ill text you one!' GRRRRI dont want to give everyone my email or phone number !!! Again, thats what the Private gallery is for !!!if they cant do that then they arent that serious and hence not worth worrying about! men are like buses, if you miss one ....there'll be another one along in 15 mins!
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RHP User
13 years ago
its a 2 way thing...we see many cpls profiles that only have pics of her bits...these we discount as quickly as the profile of guys who show only cock shots.... excplicit shots arent sexy, but then neither is no pics at all...
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
im with Jensta all the way here.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes trax I am saying its not the best pic of me and while I would like to look like Brad I don't. Lure? I am hoping the pic shows me as a "normal" guy and yes I am hoping it will entice women to meet me.I do have other pics of me but since I have taken them on my phone they are not all that good either and also the pics in my private gallery are "naughty". That is why I am giving access to the lady, so they can judge if they still want to meet. I believe in being open in my contacts and letting the other person some room to be quietly surprised if I don't look exactly like my pic. Of course the pic may be a better pic than I thought, and I genuinely am a toad. Its all about ME.... HAHAHAHA Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Appears to have double standards.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A beautiful smile, and a beaming pair of eyes are just an absolute goer. Even if my children's friends did find me on here (and I say this without malice or prejudice) then so what?? We're all adults, or at least supposed to be. That said, and back on track, a woman's warmth to me is delivered by her smile, some of them just really make me melt and also allowing for a few surprises, it helps that lovely art of seduction!! Chris.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Was just surprised to see you comment that it was not your best pic as your main profile photo.Its all "horses for courses" on this site.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am of the opinion that its very diffcult to take a "good" pic of oneself. Since I am not about to pose repeatedly for pics and its a close representation of what I look like I am leaving it on. Yes it is pretty much horses for courses. Of course I could get some professional pics done by someone like tuscanred but I am not so vain as to believe this will improve how I look in real life after a really shitty week at work. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'miketheduc' I am of the opinion that its very diffcult to take a "good" pic of oneself. Since I am not about to pose repeatedly for pics and its a close representation of what I look like I am leaving it on. Yes it is pretty much horses for courses. Of course I could get some professional pics done by someone like tuscanred but I am not so vain as to believe this will improve how I look in real life after a really shitty week at work. Mike hands over her business card, believe me honey my pictures and profiles work a treat... people are visual creatures and crappy pictures cause people make the wrong assumptions about a person I think my work speaks for its self, lots of satisified customers
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RHP User
13 years ago
The old profile pic puzzle. Firstly most of us know there are only 2 body types...and most of us know in detail what these 2 bodies consist of lol. Now with that said the rest is easy. Think about the type of person you are then think about how others with view your display. We are all different in personality....some of us are exhibitionists...liberated...intraverted...extraverted and so on. Personally i want to reflect to women and give the impression that i'm a normal decent approachable guy that has substance between the ears...so i wouldn't put completely naked pics on a public profile. My thought in my head is women already know what the male body looks like so i'd rather create impressions with words on the screen rather than with my body. Don't get me wrong...i also know i wouldn't get much interest if i had no pics at all...so my 'intentions' with my pics are purely for display purposes and recognition. Good intentions by displaying average ordinary pics in an attempt to create attraction. Similar to what goes on in the animal kingdom when the peacock flexes his feathers and puts on a display for the female lol. * So pics for display with good intentions * Words that demonstrate you...and in an attempt to create interest * Full naked pics for private gallery
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RHP User
13 years ago
See me smile? I have had the best Sunday evaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. To have been invited to your little fun place of studio made me realise what it is to have nice photos taken from a fantastic enthusiastic being ...and I have to say wow, wow, wow. I can’t believe purple is my colour and you captured my essence so well. I asked to be photographed, in a fun sensual cheeky sexual way, presenting me in this way, so men can see my vibrant inside…and I think you did it, no I know you did it. Thank you so much I am deeply hounered.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I lurve the pic of you in purple....it is gorgeous....TR I am soooo jealous ...you need a trip to Brisvegas...NOWx Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its my colour...this is what happens you never see yourself as otehrs see you....you shine without knowing it sometimes. ANd the you cant believe its you with this halo around. Thank you so much Hesione....I am still in picture heaven thanks to TR
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok I am impressed with the pics taken by tuscanred of you Litonya. My thing is I want to look like I look in real life, Its much easier to live up to what you actually look like than some soft focus fantasy. It was very nice of tuscanred to do the business card thing and I actually considered it, then I looked at myself again and looked at my profile pics. I think they look ok for me and that's what I look like. Hope they don't make people actually sick..... Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'letmerideyou44' my son has mates on here and they told him, thats why only a boobs shot. But when i start flirting/messaging i always give access to my photos so they can see my face and smile :-) then they can see if they like me, not just my boobs. it would be nice if a lot more men would have a facial picture on here, even in private gallery. the real attraction for ME comes from the eyes, a cheeky look, smile and sexy hairy chesty pose... not his dick!!!! well maybe later on xx
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