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Porn? Practice? Or RHP? What has been the greatest influence on you as a lover?

August 19 2011

Recently showed hubby a new trick that i had picked up from watching porn, (good porn, most porn is purely visual with no real skill involved; lets face it) he was VERY impressed. I do LOVE to learn new things. It got me thinking, what has been the greatest influence on your journey as a lover. The idea is to become more accomplished as you get older surely? So....since you have joined RHP have you become a better lover through lots and lots of lovely practice? Have you learned from other lovers that you've met here? Is it porn? Older is NOT always better so where and how have you honed your skills? Share some tricks if you like, i'm sure others can benefit. Goodness knows their future lovers will. xx Kitty

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think everyone would benefit from spending a night lubed up in one of those swings suspended from the ceiling at Aarows sex club. Loosen up your wild thing a bit. If not that, then at least find a way to drop your inhibitions, cut loose and be the slut within.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    or is that you make everything sexy sound so damned dirty! mwah! I've missed you you baaaaaaaaad boy xxKitty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I learnt more in the late seventies that I have recently on RHP. Those were wild days back then....

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'I think everyone would benefit from spending a night lubed up in one of those swings suspended from the ceiling at Aarows sex club. Loosen up your wild thing a bit. If not that, then at least find a way to drop your inhibitions, cut loose and be the slut within.HugsStalkyReply...... yes I think everyone could learn from taking turns on stalky.....You Slut Staky !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    would you push the swing for me !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Early childhood trauma.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well two years ago , before trying website organised meets I was totally hopeless , really didn't have a clue , but since I've become a total slut lol I'd like to think I've improved.... ....ok women seem to cum a hell of alot more than they did before so that's a good sign I guess.... ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh yeah porn has def helped too but not as much as the real deal , actually I think what has helped the most has been just trying to figure out what women like and asking them for pointers OCCASIONALLY that is , -asking too often is a big mood killer :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Always pick up something new and different, every experience we/I had has been different

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A combination of careful selection of experienced and patient subbie boys and lots of hard play and practice helped me with the basics but I got the most out of listening to what they wanted me to do and many hours of trial with not too much error. Imagination is also a wonderful thing and once I could set the scene in my head the rest flowed naturally. I didn't look at bondage DVD's or porn as I didn't want to be influenced by anyone and just wanted to do my own thing. I also took note of other Mistresses and watched their play at parties and finished up by assisting a well experienced professional in her sessions. Hard work, fun to learn but the best thing is having the skills to know how to give a subbie boy a fantastic time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A mixture of your own imagination, a little bit of decent/instructional porn and practice all play a part.One thing i've learnt a bit of is g-spot stimulation and deep penetration stimulation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' I learnt more in the late seventies that I have recently on RHP. Those were wild days back then.... late seventies. gee i missed out, wasnt even born then...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The imagination is a wonderful thing...that and a partner who is willing to explore and push yours and their boundaries then you really can learn new things....with this in mind my exploration of the sub within and what I truly do enjoy has been a fantastic journey - and of course I want to thank those who have helped (one in particular who has showen me that my kinky side isnt something that needs to be hidden but something that should be explored and celebrated - mwah) . Kitty - please share what is this thing you showed hubby we are all keen to know (BTW we have missed you too) . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i had very limited vanilla sex skills from two very boring husbands. the guys on rhp have been very exciting and have taught me and encouraged me to try new things and push my limits. like deep throat, anal, hand on the throat, i was shown i could squirt as i didnt even know about squirting, the variety of cock shapes and sizes have teased and pleased my every sense.   definely a good place to be to learn new skills.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Kitty, RHP has corrupted me, seriously, that and the swing. Kisses Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yup RHP has opened my eyes after missing a lot of sex for years. Funny I should see this post, as last night I got the courage to tell the ex that I like like 2 men better than the FMF's I had with him.. oooppss       sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I thought I knew them all til I meet this one particular asian girl.. She not only showed me areas on my own body I didnt know existed , but also guided me through her own erogenous zones which resulted in explosive orgasms for the both of us.... Naturally I use all these learned tricks with Mrs JJ who also reaped the benefits plus any other female Ive had the pleasure to know..You never know it all because it can differ from female to female.. but I now have these few skills tucked away in my bag of tricks which I use at every opportune time. Mr JJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sassy minx. Sexy, confident, cheeky as f@#K, drop dead gorgeous....babe. Nothin' but fire and mischief in her eyes, and there was only ever gonna be more, when she collared me in a bar in London.   Imagination, passion, confidence, a deft touch, generous, respect, body worship... and the ability to breathe thru my ears....   The girl didn't just teach me tricks, she cut me a key for the fricken magic shop. And taught me that the grandest, most fullfilling, jaw-dropping tricks can only be performed with your beautiful assistant.   Position Vacant: Apply Within

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    They gave me my first ropes and taught me how to tie knots. Getting kicked out was worth it...the Girl Scouts made me an dishonourary member. The turning point was at about 20 at a Chinese restaurant when I got a fortune cookie that just said "Go get fucked" ... | ...I took it seriously.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    What about if it just comes naturally??? Mich x

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    There was a video I got when young and inexperienced long ago which showed with a real couple the "where, what, how" of all parts of sex, including manual stimulation and the particular reactions of the female body to these at various points throughout the stimulation phases. It helped immensly to understand the bodily reactions and to know when to change stimulation techniques for hightened pleasure for the woman.   Quoting 'justjuice'I thought I knew them all til I meet this one particular asian girl.. She not only showed me areas on my own body I didnt know existed , but also guided me through her own erogenous zones which resulted in explosive orgasms for the both of us.... Mr JJ...Purely in the interests of instructional learning I would be pleased if you could message me her username ET xox

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    We aren't hardcore swimgers, and I don't know that we have learnt much more technique wise, but we have had our confidence boosted by the feedback we have recieved when playing with people we have met on RHP and at CI. We have learnt to relax and enjoy things and to choose playmates based on attitude and outlook.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Kitty, RHP has corrupted me, seriously, that and the swing. Kisses Meeks Corrupted you you say? I think there was just a very bad girl wanting to come out and playand we're all glad she did xx Kitty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'focusliason' The imagination is a wonderful thing...that and a partner who is willing to explore and push yours and their boundaries then you really can learn new things....with this in mind my exploration of the sub within and what I truly do enjoy has been a fantastic journey - and of course I want to thank those who have helped (one in particular who has showen me that my kinky side isnt something that needs to be hidden but something that should be explored and celebrated - mwah) . Kitty - please share what is this thing you showed hubby we are all keen to know (BTW we have missed you too) . Kisses Focus Well Focus, i have a workshop coming up for Uni in the next few months in Sydney so i will definatly be down to say hi, it's just one of those demonstratable things unfortunatly, my new trick BUT i will say that the days of sore arms and changing position because your hand is getting tired are long dead when giving hand jobs. The new trick is MUCH more efficient and you can easily slow things down and start again for as long as you want without getting a sore arm. Banana or live bait, i don't mind what we practice on as long as it's co-operative...hmmmm....may have to bring my "blue for boys" bondage tape. xx Kitty