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Poly living ffm - live in/live out arrangement

July 23 2017

Hello everyone, We are looking for opinions and possibly ladies that are looking for this style of friendship or persons/couples with this style of relationship. We have been long term occasional swingers.....attending parties here and there. We now feel that morphing into this style of friendship/relationship might now suit our wants. We feel that we would like to engage in a friendship initially with a female. Someone that can become a friend to both of us and both of us a friend to her. A mixed style of friendship that might mean heading out for a coffee as mff or ff or mf. Or this combination sexually. It to us is about building trust and rapport. Over the longer term we would be quite open to a special lady to move into our beautiful home and share a great lifestyle. Predominantly we envisage the sexual side of the friendship to be special f and m but we also would love to mix it up and keep open all possible sexual combinations. Please say hello if you feel you can relate to what we are hoping to develop. So.....the question is.......where do we advertise to find that special lady?.

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RHP User

8 years ago

I will come back to this thread after ths weekend coming ... it will be the first time where Iwill be with my hubby, my boyfriend and my daughter for a couple of days, in our home. My BF and I will then go away for a couple of days as we celebrate a special anniversary. My BF has introduced me to most of not all of his family, including his hilarious nana :) I will say his family are an exceptional group of people, I can see why he's as amazing as he is :) I have been included in family functions such as birthdays, been invited to dinner etc and they have accepted me so graciously. A lot of that has to do with my BF and his respect of me and how this translates to them. we are expanding on this with my family this weekend ... though its baby steps ... i lke the direction we are travelling in as a unit :) I will come back as i said and address some of the questions you pose. Mary xx

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RHP User

8 years ago

I love the honesty ☺👍, who wouldnt love to have two wives love triangle - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

In the poly world you'd be known as Unicorn Hunters. What you seek sounds amazing, but the triad is also sought by others, and the third woman so rare and eagerly sought after is the elusive unicorn. My suggestion? Google unicorn hunters, connect with poly groups - for the insight, and whether you need to keep your expectations in check. Then, offer the scenario that appeals to a unicorn. There are poly groups in fet and Facebook. Unicorns can be found, mhmm, here and there, so I hear. Hope you find what you seek.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Hello Mary, Thankyou for saying hello. We look forward to chatting and learning from your experiences with the situation you are in. We are off on a holiday from Thursday till Aug 18th. If we don't reply that is why. Have a great day C and M

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RHP User

8 years ago

Good morning PepperRose, Thank you for your advice re different searches. There are more reasons that we haven't stated to travel down this path. We are not in anyway trying to be greedy........nor are we hunting unicorns. We simply believe that there is one special lady out there in the same space in time that will make contact. It's a long shot but we as a husband and wife are still very much in love and have no problem spending our days as two people together. You have to put it out to the universe to make it happen. Otherwise it won't come to us. We will be researching poly sites etc. We don't have any expectations......let alone having to keep them in check. This exercise is simply to let the universe know what it is we desire. Xx

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks for your support. It's very early stages at the moment. Let's hope we can connect with a lady and enjoy the world in a supportive loving triangle.

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Libertinecple

8 years ago

Interesting topic we have embarked on this route but in our case it's a bi male we are looking for in a poly relationship So we would be a mmf taking it easy at first and the goal is to live together in a union . And it's hard to find but if you don't look you will not find ha ha he would have to be one special male though. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks for adding to this topic. We figure if people add there comments here at least it adds a voice and a space for couples to voice there ideas, likes and wishes for others to take note of.....consider......and make contact. You guys sound like a great couple. I have no doubt that there is a guy who fits your needs out there. It's all about communication and acceptance of everyone's needs and boundaries. Thanks again for your message. We are happy to chat to you outside of this forum. 😊😉😊

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Starburst106

8 years ago

Quoting 'PepperRose' In the poly world you'd be known as Unicorn Hunters. What you seek sounds amazing, but the triad is also sought by others, and the third woman so rare and eagerly sought after is the elusive unicorn. My suggestion? Google unicorn hunters, connect with poly groups - for the insight, and whether you need to keep your expectations in check. Then, offer the scenario that appeals to a unicorn. There are poly groups in fet and Facebook. Unicorns can be found, mhmm, here and there, so I hear. Hope you find what you seek. We'd agree. And while you might not consider yourself as Unicorn hunters, you are (unfortunately) by default as that is what you seek. Our suggestion is be open and honest on your profile what it is you seek. Continue to be open and honest with your position. Being genuine puts you in positive position. Attend events where those that are likely to be interested in this arrangement might be. PepperRose highlight a couple of mediums to try. Good luck!

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