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October 30 2012
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
as it also happens to me. But then you also have to understand the frustration of those gorgeous women who get virtually hundreds of flirts from crazy ratbags each day and how tiresome it would be to reply to them all. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with you. We replied nicely to a couple last weeking pointing out that they had no pics, ask me for everything and a generic template. They then sent us a reply calling us bitter and creepy! LOL Block. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
RHP has traditions you know! You start replying to flirts and before you know it Guys will actually READ profiles, messages will get replied to and before you know people might actually start meeting up for SEX.... acutally I see your point. Please everyone reply to flirts
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Lifes_great
13 years ago
and it does but take a minute. I love to get a reply even if it is 'no thanks'. I do realise though that the ladies on here get inundated with flirts and messages, which can make it a bit of a task. If I don't get a reply I just assume they're too busy or not interested. Those that can't take rejection shouldn't be on here
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RHP User
13 years ago
a good proportion of messages sent are never replied too, I reply to all even with a simple "thanks for the interest but i'm not interested" , which has happenned a couple of times, another interestion topic could be How Aften Do People Check Their Profiles??
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reserve the right not to reply. If I replied to every flirt I'd be here all day. I reply to all messages with an auto-reply and that's near enough I think. Silence IS a reply - it means thanks but no thanks. This topic has been done and done and done and done - if you search the forums you'll see that there are many opinions and not much agreement ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' I agree with you. We replied nicely to a couple last weeking pointing out that they had no pics, ask me for everything and a generic template. They then sent us a reply calling us bitter and creepy! LOL Block. Pusscat xxxUnless I'm interested I cant be bothered letting someone down easy only to be abused for it! It's not worth my time!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' I reserve the right not to reply. If I replied to every flirt I'd be here all day. I reply to all messages with an auto-reply and that's near enough I think. Silence IS a reply - it means thanks but no thanks. This topic has been done and done and done and done - if you search the forums you'll see that there are many opinions and not much agreement ;)It really has been overkilled. Mods should'nt have let this one through... again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i reply to most messages if the person seems polite and genuinely nice even if im not interested but it says in my profile that i wont reply to some! But i am so sick of being abused by people when i do! I can reply to everyone so tuff titties!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
MMmmmm freeks 〠
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RHP User
13 years ago
I rekon uuummmmmmm, maybe not(bites tongue)(says a rude word)(gets beer)☮
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear'Welcome to the forums 2couple Ty MrsP, yes new to forums didnt realize the topic had been done to death, we will always reply to messages and flirts, have fun everybody.
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RHP User
13 years ago
reply to flirts. so slap my arse....Reply to most messages when I get the time. is it rude?.......I don't think so. Besides as Brave say's....some of you can't handle a rejection
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RHP User
13 years ago
Come on people. If I am not interested then I do not reply. This site allows you to see if your message or flirt has been read. If you see that a message has been read and you don not get a reply is that not a reply of sorts. If you are offended that is more your issue then their's. If you cant stand the heat get out of the kitchen.Several years ago when this subject first got my attention on these forums I messaged every person in that thread that said they always reply. Of those that read the message, less then half replied. But then that was what I expected from a dating site. So many pretenders, so much moral high ground in the forumsFor the vast majority of us on RHP we came here to have fun, not to pander to the needs of insecure individuals hanging of attention. So OP out of common courtesy I do not reply to those I am not interested in, I do not wish to waste their time, nor do I want to send one of the reply flirts that totally does not express how I feel at the time, that would be rude. I hate being rude. ;)For everyone there is someone, but then for everyone there are those you would rather bite of your fingers then reply. For those that message me without even reading my profile, join to my block list.. (josh its been a while since I blocked someone.) You have got to love social networking sites for providing the ultimate snub, no right of reply, no recourse. Welcome to the world of social networking. A world where being ignored has nothing to do with who you are. So party on and be excellent to each other... LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' I agree with you. We replied nicely to a couple last weeking pointing out that they had no pics, ask me for everything and a generic template. They then sent us a reply calling us bitter and creepy! LOL Block. Pusscat xxx I think this happen a lot as we get the same when they dont have pics up and also get told we are rude for asking.. But we do reply to all that send us a flirt or messege as we like to to at least reply to us, but sadly they dont so we just keep trying...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'reply to flirts. so slap my arse....Reply to most messages when I get the time. is it rude?.......I don't think so. Besides as Brave say's....some of you can't handle a rejection Although we reply to all we get I do understand why some do not reply, we rather someone just say: thanks But No thanks... But we all have our different ways and yes we have found some people do not handle rejection very well but that is their problem not our's and if they get too rude and nasty we just send it to RHP to sort...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Move on...drop your expectations then the disappointment will turn into surprises. And everybody loves surprises.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those that reply are the ones worth the time and effort, I don't take it as a personal insult if they don't as that may not be their thing or they are flat chat busy at the time, it is not a big issue if you don't make it a big issue
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RHP User
13 years ago
I PUT IT OUT THERE NEED WOMEN TO TAKE PICS OF ME TO PUT ON HERE I THOUGHT PEOPLE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE FUN JUST BECAUSE I SAY IM LOOKING AT WOMEN AND TOCHING MYSELF WOULD EXPECT PEOPLE WOULD LIKE TO SEE ME DOING THAT AND TAKE PICS OR VIDEO IT U STILL SHOULD REPLY
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're f**king with us, aren't you ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'gtbi_mm' Quoting 'inspirit'reply to flirts. so slap my arse....Reply to most messages when I get the time. is it rude?.......I don't think so. Besides as Brave say's....some of you can't handle a rejection Although we reply to all we get I do understand why some do not reply, we rather someone just say: thanks But No thanks... But we all have our different ways and yes we have found some people do not handle rejection very well but that is their problem not our's and if they get too rude and nasty we just send it to RHP to sort... Yep it's about you and your choice. I made mine so need to quote me don't you think
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RHP User
13 years ago
nah had some pics taken depends if women encurage me to do it will do that if females tell me to
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
its amasing how many people say the wont reply to flirts or messages..why to many freaks, pardon me if im wrong but isnt the idea of joining a date site of any kind to meet people.if you cant be bothered replying ,why be on here in the first place
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RHP User
13 years ago
You crack me up!! That was just the laugh I needed today xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I’m sure I've no idea what you're talking about ~laughs~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shit, I ruined it by using punctuation, that's a whole new level, my bad. Also, I stand by this viewpoint: if a guy walked up to me in a bar, thinking "it's a singles bar, she's here to get laid" and flopped his cock out on the table with the 'words' "wannafuk"? I would absolutely ignore him. If he then said "but I paid to get in! I deserve sex!" I would ignore him with prejudice. MANNERS beget manners. Ignorance begets ignorance. Your right to not read my profile begets my right to not reply to your message/flirt. My advice to the whingers: put out what you'd like to receive. And by that theory, most of you want to be treated like shit :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can someone please reply to this post
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RHP User
13 years ago
But, sometimes I have an overwhelming urge to gather all the people who whine about non-replys, put them in a room, and bang their heads together! This is one of those rare issues where I simply can't see two sides to the story. The right to ignore drivel that turns up in your inbox will always trump any (ridiculous!) notion that it's impolite to ignore such drivel. Silence has long been understood to be a legitimate form of communication. Folks, it not rocket science and suggesting that I/we only have manners if we reply to ALL messages and flirts is utter nonsense. Vagabonde summed it up perfectly.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry, did you say something? I was distracted by your oh so yum manpits. I have a thing for manpits. A big, weak at the knees, kind of thing. Nice pic ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
its just common manners to reply, and for those who receive alot of interest, perhaps a suggestion to the webmasters to put in a group reply function might be the ticket!
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RHP User
13 years ago
sorry, europe, im better, got a bit wild back a few days, memory recounted of comments get mixed and confusing...... but happy to respond to who i can......
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RHP User
13 years ago
have i recently or ever just said do you wanna fuk? my memory is that im reasonably courteous unless baited, and even then i dont threaten to come after anybody, i just want some harmless banter, and learn ,meet some cruisers
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart'Sorry, did you say something? I was distracted by your oh so yum manpits. I have a thing for manpits. A big, weak at the knees, kind of thing. Nice pic ;) Thank you for replying brave_heart lol. Is that a thanks but no thanks....but you still want my manpits ;). Really is a tough gig being male ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your bar was too low! You only asked for someone to reply to your post. I replied, albeit with a little bit of drooling over said pits xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree - so frustrating! At least a thanks but no thanks if not interested and if interested.... well fantastic!
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RHP User
13 years ago
If people take the time to send a message Its only polite to reply, So that both parties can move on wether your intereted or not So frustrating sending mesage and no reponse,
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RHP User
13 years ago
If a person is well over my age bracket I won't reply to their wink, but I reply to all messages even if it's just my standard thanks but no. I'm always surprised when he/they take the time to then respond thanking me for actually replying. What had happened to curtesy and basic manners? Only takes ten seconds to choose a template and send it on its way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well yeah its just courtesy and i think most dont as there either guest or have a restricted membership which alows you five messages a day like me but i still reply even if its to say thanks for checking me out hey sounds stupid but once i start something i usualy cotinue doing it . i also think some peopl think by saying heyyour not what im looking for will hurt your feelings hey it beter to know then be snob , or mabe they figure if they say nothing and go to someone they figure is better then you and if it dosnt work out well your there for a back up fuck or friendship ect ...das
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sheesh it seems some people are highly strung . We didnt expect so much backlash but it is a forum and everybody is entitled to an opinion. But we will always reply.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I d understand that the lovely girls are innundated.. however I ALWAYS read the profile and I put significant thought into any well worded introduction covering the points of interest outlined in the profile. IF I wrote Nice tits wanna fuck? I would expect no reply... I think the frustration comes when you can see your message has been read and people still cant be polite enoughto drop a quick note that says thanks but not what we are after.We are all adults and common courtesy costs nothing even on hereEnough ranting.. I agree Please respond
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RHP User
13 years ago
My current profile specifies that I will not be replying to new messages. And, yes, I still get them. 2couple, not sure how long you've been here, but after you've dealt with Mr Don't Take No For An Answer, Mr Creepy Stalker, Mr 10 Profiles To Harrass You From, and Mr "But Why?" as well as Mr Please Help Me Write My Profile And Messages So Someone Will Fuck Me, you'll probably be a little jaded, too. And yes, these are all people I've dealt with personally. Some of them appear to have twins... or triplets... Also, those who spend their time in a sexsite forum are likely to be a fiery bunch ;) don't let it put you off!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ty silken for your feedback we have ben here 4 yrs now. We understand there are a lot of fakes and idiot guys who stalk. Thats what the block button is for. The annoying part for us is those who contact us exchange messages and seem to vanish even tho they are still online. If yiur not interested anymore just say so. We are grown ups we will move on .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart'Your bar was too low! You only asked for someone to reply to your post. I replied, albeit with a little bit of drooling over said pits xxx My bar was to low.....is there any particular height it should be at that will help my cause ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It takes nothing to say thanks but no thanks ! I always thank people for at least saying so if someone sends you a nasty message back just block them there are alot of nice people on here that are being punished for the rude ones I think it's rude not to . Maybe it's an ego thing or your just to lazy really say's something about your character , if you cant be bothered to reply to messages why don't you put your profiles so they are not visible and stop wasting people's time ! And do the chasing yourself !
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have found when ie said thanks ut no thanks to certain messages or flirts, guys dont sem to read it , they just see it as me contacting them ,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Time to hit the block button littlered.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'littlered'i have found when ie said thanks ut no thanks to certain messages or flirts, guys dont sem to read it , they just see it as me contacting them , Hot damn girl you are just "Red Hot Spunky" aren't ya I'm pretty sure there's a law against that!!! LOL Oh' and no need to reply I'm sure I read in your post somewhere you said about contacting........LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reply to all messages sent to me but I understand and I believe all the other young men on hear should to that we are a dime a dozen and recive relatively few messages compared to the stunning women that frequent this site:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
People accept it no reply means no , not interested and move on . Accept a few of the more respectful genuine nice people treat others they would like to be treated . The majority are so wrapped up in themselves , don't give a rats about anybody and could Not care less
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SilkenWhisper' Mr Don't Take No For An Answer, Mr Creepy Stalker, Mr 10 Profiles To Harrass You From, and Mr "But Why?" as well as Mr Please Help Me Write My Profile And Messages So Someone Will Fuck Me Don't forget Mr Abusive! But that's why you have the option to use (and create) template replies. I have several different ones. One click and the person who emailed me gets a friendly and polite no thanks response. A lot of people actually email back thanking me for responding and wishing me all the best. Except for Mr Abusive, who then got the "block" response.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zx10knight' its amasing how many people say the wont reply to flirts or messages..why to many freaks, pardon me if im wrong but isnt the idea of joining a date site of any kind to meet people.if you cant be bothered replying ,why be on here in the first place Seriously? Are you saying that just because someone, who more often than not hasn't even read the profile they are sending a flirt to, that the recipient should 'meet' them? why be on here in the first place To meet someone compatible which I would of thought was the purpose of a profile - to give a general idea of compatibility. 2couple...I can see where you are coming from. Courtesy and simple manners right? To help you see where others are coming from here's just some of the reasons.The sender doesn't bother to read the profile and sends a flirt anyway. Now I get quite a few from guys under 25 (I have no interest in anyone under 35 and that's my choice) yet I receive heaps of flirts from young guys, often with "you are exactly what I am looking for" Something tells me it aint going to work... if he is that self absorbed that he has either a) read my profile and decided he knows better or 2) (I am going with this one ;p) he hasn't read the profile and is just flirt bombing, well, do you really think that deserves a reply? Bad manners shouldn't be rewarded.The flirt says "I just wanted to say I loved your profile"Great thanks for letting me know :)But wait, there's no flirt that says that. Bummer. The only way to reply is to encourage further contact (hey they may not even want that) or knock them back... for making a statement? It's not a question, it's a statement. I wish there was a reply that was in the same format, but, there's not.I am not interested in attached guys (in my profile). So when I get flirts from them saying "where and when" etc etc. I figure no reply answers it.Interstate guys asking "where and when" or "I have some free time" etc Ok, fair enough they may be travelling but that's not up to me to find out. Sending these types of flirts is just a waste of time.Don't forget, most of these types (that don't read profiles) couldn't give a rats ass if they get replies as they are non paying Guest members who flirt bomb with the hope of hooking one along the way. I pay for my membership so I can send a message if I want. I don't pay for membership to respond to guests who have shown they couldn't be bothered even giving the courtesy of reading what I spent time writing. I know my profile is long and that should be a good filter. If someone thinks its too long it's pretty simple - we are not compatible so they should do a silent "next!" and move to the next profile.And then there's the ones that religiously message every second day - even though they have received some form of "not interested" reply flirt. Yeah, not going to keep replying when they haven't even bothered to read or acknowledge the first or fifth reply.Then there's the messages. I have replied politely to many and received pyscho apeshit responses. Hopefully that explains a little why some longer term members have the view they do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
and sorry to all the people that can find the time to respond a special thanks to all of them witch i always respond back to with a thanks for letting me know at least theres a few of us with a bit of common decency and respect for others cause i think allot of them are getting just as many messages and nasty replies or are you so far up yourselfs you think yous are supper stars
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's just polite to answer flirts/messages. But it's also polite to actually read a profile before sending a "You're hot, what do you think of me" flirt. I'm pretty sure men who send us those would prefer no reply than the message I'm tempted to send.Quoting 'RussianBelle' I agree - so frustrating! At least a thanks but no thanks if not interested and if interested.... well fantastic! Really? People don't reply to your messages? I find that very hard to believe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
put it out there what you got to loose they want you they will reply the loss lol....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wooduck78' and sorry to all the people that can find the time to respond a special thanks to all of them witch i always respond back to with a thanks for letting me know at least theres a few of us with a bit of common decency and respect for others cause i think allot of them are getting just as many messages and nasty replies or are you so far up yourselfs you think yous are supper stars say that to the woman who receives 300 messages a week and asks yourself this ...would you reply to all of them. I wouldn't. Thank god i'm a bloke on this site, we've got it easy!! Respect that people aren't obliged to reply and have the decency to accept that. In other words, have no expectations and this won't leave you so disappointed champ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
we reply....if its obvious our profiles been read, and understood. if not, then we dont feel its appropriate, or 'courteous' to respond.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'blowinginthewind'its just common manners to reply, and for those who receive alot of interest, perhaps a suggestion to the webmasters to put in a group reply function might be the ticket! I use the template reply function. I've written several templates that I use for responding to men and couples. One click of the button (ok, two clicks) and a pleasant and polite response is sent.
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