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Playing rough 101

July 20 2010

There are certain ways to play rough that feel great, and there are other ways to play rough that are immediate mood killers.Over time I have encountered a lot of bad attempts at semi rough play. So I thought I'd dish out some tips for the not so experienced.Hair pulling: When someone says they like their hair being pulled, do not pull the hair at the crown or at the sides of the head. This just hurts and will likely earn you a slap. Do not grab 10 strands of hair, again, likely to get you slapped. A big handful of hair from the nape/back of the head will do the job nicely.Biting: Don't just start with a big chomp. Nibble the area first. Learn body language, if your partner is pushing that part against your mouth and not pulling away, that's a good sign you're doing it right. Go harder when requested. Use the tongue to provide sensation whilst biting. If biting places that are generally visible when clothed do not suck and bite! Hickies are for 16yo's.Spanking: I don't really think of spanking as being rough play, it's more sensual, but anyway. The sweet spot on a bum, when it's bent over in front of you, is where the butt meets the thigh. Do spank here, concentrate on this spot. Don't start spanking up the top of the arse closer to the back. If you want that person wiggling with pleasure and not discomfort spank the sweet!*** of course the above applies to people who are thinking about getting a bit rougher than vanilla... not those who are already doing it!Anyone have anything else to add? I know there is a lot I've missed.

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drhelixs

15 years ago

My experience says, many love being biten on the shoulder. I agree start with little nibbles first. probably not a good idea to draw blood. Well, unless you're a vampire. Then I guess you'll need to feed................ dr

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RHP User

15 years ago

Great topic PBGhave many special moves which send mrs rough pretty wild.....one nice one is when taken from behind, standing up, like you would in a shower.....use the thumb and 2 fore fingers on your right hand to cup her chin, and turn her head slightly, while bitting her neck, Also don't bite the skin, you are going for the muscle underneath!If you are unsure as to how much pressure, or if it is a first time, curl your lips over your teeth. You can then apply as much pressure as you like, cause you will cut yourself not your partner!

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