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Playing alone... Question to Couples and Females
June 26 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
This coming from a couples point of view, it depends on what you discussed in regards to playing and accepting your mutual agreement is...Every couple will have their own mutual do's and don'ts when it comes to playing with others (with or without their partner)...Also, its probably a good idea to bring up the topic with your partner to see if they are happy with your agreement or discuss new options...Everyone couple is different, what works for one couple will not also work for another...
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
We started out just playing as a couple...but over the years we have evolved. Even though it is still mainly the couple & group situations that we indulge in the most, we do play alone at times when the opportunity arises...sometimes the other half knows in advance but often it's a case of finding out after the 'adventure' occurs! Trust is the key issue! Of course safety for her is the most important thing ie: pick playmates carefully, there are a lot of weirdos out there!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Donna_Brett..you are sooo right,....there are a shitload of weirdos out there..men and women...most people think its just the blokes who are the nutty ones...hmmmmm...wrong....some of the fairer sex ( well I think much fairer) are just as looney..if not niuutier..lol....people..its a zoo out there...good hunting..
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RHP User
16 years ago
To play with an attached person I'd like permission from the other half. Given over the phone/in person, not email.I know it's not so much fun being pre-meditated, but my own personal circumstances require it.Cheers :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
The other evening the wife asks "Honey would you like a coffee" My reply "That would be nice" Fifteen minutes later wife says "You havnt made my coffee yet" Keep an eye out for the female lanuage it follows no logic. If your wife says yes and gives you permission is she really saying no? in that girls language they have? We have been together 33 years and allways played together, recently we had to take a 9 month break and this issue was brought up....She said yes I could but I could tell she was really saying no. We say Accept it' suppress your urges and wait till the other half is ready ? and dont risk damageing your relationship. Hope that helps.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As Donna & Brett have said we would agree,, over the years its got to having some fun on our own,, Jay has a toyboy,, lol,, they had a their first nite alone just last week, i had a about 3 hours of work to do and came home to see her riding his him good & hard,,joined in mmm was great,, we are very secure with ourselfs and after 26 years you should be,, but form the female its all so a safty thing,, so thats something to look out for,, but jay is happy most times to stick with who she knows, unless out with girlfriends can have some good fun.. but we all ways let each other whats going on,, which keeps as both horny. Enjoy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Well it's kind of hard to answer in a way because we LOVE to play alone. I know now that we are a rare breed but we absoloutly love our single dates. We are more than happy to play as a couple in an mmf, ffm or 4sum and lend each other out to be third wheels for mmf, ffm experiences but we cherish our single dates as our "me" time. But that's just us, we have no jealousy or trust or insecurity issues in the slightest so i guess this helps. I don't know, i guess because we're flex on this issue we're happy with whatever the other part of our couple wants to do as long as the 3 play rules of our relationship are stuck to without fail. I dont' think i could just play as a couple but everyone likes different things. Mrs S xoxo We have basically the same arrangement as Mr & Mrs S, so I can't add much more to her reply, other than to agree with pretty much everything she said. Oh and add that we are yet to play together, so not sure how the addition of the third affects the dynamic. In saying that, we find that things work much better when we both have an active play life, so balance and consideration are important for times when one is more active than the other.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As the male half of funwithusnow i have enjoyed the delicious rewards of my sexy lady playing alone with another couple & oh how amazing they are. Sharing her anticipation & enjoying my thoughts during the evening of the pleasures she's enjoying. Knowing full well that very soon we'll be enjoying each other as she tells me all about it. Mmm mmmmm We have met a fantasic couple who share our enthusiasm for this, so us two lucky guys get the two sexy ladies all to themselves & the ladies are salaciously satisfied. Awesome to hear others share this delicious form of play & pleasure. Mmm mmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
We don't play alone with a couple(or one person of a couple) if we have been with them together. I think that is treading on touchy territory. That's what we have single friends for. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sweetwithdesire' We don't play alone with a couple(or one person of a couple) if we have been with them together. I think that is treading on touchy territory. That's what we have single friends for. Sweet We agree with Sweet, in part.We've been married for 12 glorious, happy years and we made an agreement at the start that if we do play, then we play together or not at all. Some may say that this limits our choices but we don't see it that way. The pair of us are hopeless romantics at heart and are still hopelessly, desperately and energetically in Love. We find that sharing that with each other and a third makes the two of us closer together and makes firm friends with our playmate. We don't play with couples or single men (our personal choice and not going to change anytime soon) and are very wary about a She if She's in a relationship. That's a complication we can do without (unless He knows and has agreed) and we don't play alone.Besides, don't they say that hunger makes the best gravy? Better to wait and eat the whole cake than lick the crumbs. Anticipation really IS half the fun. Abby - The She half of this dynamic duo. Mwa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just a little survey we did on your responses Two straight girls said .............Play with your partner present only One not sure........................Asking the question Five Bi Sexual girls said............Play without your partner is ok Three experimental girls said.....ditto One Bi Curious said ...............ditto One single male....................ditto Draw your own conclusions........
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RHP User
16 years ago
for us it just dosnt feel rt to play without the other. mrs b playing with another woman is ok but mr b has to b in the room or i (mrs b) dosnt feel comfie. i hate being left out and i guess if mr b goes off on his own thats how id feel.having said that we have played with one 1/2 of a couple with the other 1/2 permission. thats their rules and we have ours.xxxx Mrs B
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