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Players.....

November 12 2012

Hi all, I'm a little confused by the term "player". My understanding of the term "player" (and happy to be corrected) is (1) someone who has several partners but not serious about any of them. (2) someone who is only interested in on-off play meets, collecting as many notches on a belt/bed post as possible. (3) people who chat and tease endlessly online but have no intention of ever fronting up for a meet. Given that many RHP'ers state in their profiles that they don't want, or have time for an ongoing relationship, doesn't this in effect mean they are players, out there playing the field, enjoying a sexually fulfilling lifestyle with lots of variety? Is that such a bad thing? I read a profile today that belonged to a married guy. He stated that he didn't "want to meet players, only genuine people"! I thought that being married, and seeking sex outside that relationship for a bit on the side (without his partner knowing) was in fact playing the field and therefore made HIM a player. Am I wrong? Please enlighten me. Looking forward to your comments. Hugs SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

In my definition, a player is someone who is a charming tease, who has/has had multiple partners and is not serious about any of them...But the definitive feature would be: they don't tell the people that they are involved with that they are not looking for anything serious. The people they charm are led into a false sense of belief that the person is interested in a long-term commitment with them, and the player 'plays' on this emotional desire to get what they want.

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RHP User

13 years ago

You can see the player comming at you. Problem is we think or hope that the sexy little fucker just wants only us. For me , a man has it written all over him when I meet him Especially other peoples husbands, I can tell with that hi nice to meet you and that handshake. I just look right at them, and if I have that twinkle in my eye, I can see it reflected right back at me. You know a player, we all know a player but we just put our player blinkers on.

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RHP User

13 years ago

has said,that is my understanding of the term player,hence the phrase being played or conned. Mr.Married Guy,good luck to him ,searching for hen's teeth me thinks.xR

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RHP User

13 years ago

manipulate situations to get what they want, where as genuine people don't. Playing the field doesn't necessary mean your a player. If your not seeking something long term and are honest about what you want with your potential playmates, then it's all good and fair ...no one is getting played that way!

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RHP User

13 years ago

crikey

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RHP User

13 years ago

To me a player who tells you the stuff that you want to hear to manipulate the whole situation so you will give them what they want. You fall the cheesy lines and "promises" of I would like to cook you dinner, you are a really special person, blah blah blah....Which is not fair on the people that wear their hearts on their sleeves. You meet have an "instant" attraction and then get the whole thing on and then a day or so later, you hear nothing!!! Yes this happen to me a couple of times BUT.... I wanted to meet them again for the sex, they assumed I wanted to fall in love .....not this lil black duck!!!!! Call me cynical, but when the lines are laid on really thick alarm bells go off and you think yeah, how many girls have heard this line before or how many other girls are you currently saying this too. Now I just sit back and for my own sick amusement I play the game too.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'coodi_yowie'manipulate situations to get what they want, where as genuine people don't. Playing the field doesn't necessary mean your a player. If your not seeking something long term and are honest about what you want with your potential playmates, then it's all good and fair ...no one is getting played that way! Thanks coodie_yowie, that's makes sense in a RHP kinda way which is what I was looking for. SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanks for your responses amuse_bouche, TF, Freya and Ozboy SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hi Cassy Yeah I hear you! SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

I dislike players because they believe there own bullshit is a fine and just action,whether you are married or in a commited relationship if you know your going to fuck around on your partner why start something.Players are just that play with several hearts and pussies/dicks and waltz in to there partner making out they have been elsewhere total bullshit they should be called pretenders,live in there own fantasy world while the slowly crush there partners world.PLAYERS that have partners ect you make me sick.Those that are single dating several people at once good for you thats cool just dont play with there heart otherwise your just a jerk/ bitch

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RHP User

13 years ago

From the miss Frannaman

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RHP User

13 years ago

players have had an empathy bypass,overblown egos and yet low self esteem too

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RHP User

13 years ago

what is the female version of a "Player"?A Playette?

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Freya13'players have had an empathy bypass,overblown egos and yet low self esteem too I represent that comment... my ego is only thissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss big ( trillion trillion trillin blow ups) fat arse and ego Its good if your a player , if your woman , well anyone will bonk ya thank god I am a woman, Or i would have nobody to play with....

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RHP User

13 years ago

of that notion missy but ya simply don't qualifyx R

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