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Players.....

November 12 2012

What do you regard as a player? I always thought a player was someone who was seeing more one person at a time, therefore having multiple partners or serial one-off play meets. Given that most people on RHP aren't open to forming relationships, according to a lot of the profiles I've read, then by definition aren't they playing the field? I am perplexed and confused where people state they don't want to meet players, only genuine people. Really, what does that mean? One profile I recently read was by a married guy who "wasn't looking for players". Isn't being married and looking for a bit on the side regarded as playing around and therefore HE is a player? Interested to hear others thoughts? SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

In my mind a 'player' is someone that feeds 'lines' or 'lies' to playmates to keep them as ongoing interested sexmates. I do not think there is an issue with seeing more than one person at a time, but i do feel that it is unfair play when people are manipulated into thinking otherwise (ie. what ever it takes to keep them interested and willing to give it up however, whenever) to meet the ends of someones randy selfish needs. Play fair I say. Sex needs to be consensual, i.e. both parties need to be on the same dirty page

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' In my mind a 'player' is someone that feeds 'lines' or 'lies' to playmates to keep them as ongoing interested sexmates. I do not think there is an issue with seeing more than one person at a time, but i do feel that it is unfair play when people are manipulated into thinking otherwise (ie. what ever it takes to keep them interested and willing to give it up however, whenever) to meet the ends of someones randy selfish needs. Play fair I say. Sex needs to be consensual, i.e. both parties need to be on the same dirty page I agree with Booba, that is how I see Players! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

13 years ago

My thoughts are that a player is someone who bullshits their partners into bed. Or manipulates them to "keep them on the hook"

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RHP User

13 years ago

Agree with all your comments, thank you. Damn looks like I have 2 topics going and same subject got posted twice! SFxx

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