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Pics or should I say NO Pics!
June 27 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
We totally agree with you Hot2Trot.What's the point of putting a profile on RHP if you don't put anything in it!!!Hey it's all about window shoppingGotta see/read what your getting, right.Makes you wonder what these people have to hideCheersTwofor
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RHP User
15 years ago
No info, ======== MARRIED =======CHEATING ======= USUALLY, Or maybe just plain BUTT ugly, living under the bridge and frightening all the school kiddies walking home from school!
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RHP User
15 years ago
One of my most favourite play friends, met from RHP about a year ago has no picture up at all, very sketchy information, younger than Focus, not my type. NO way. Sent me a very brief message "Wanna play?" That was it and I sent a smart arse reply back. I was in a cheeky mood and thought I might mess with his head a little. We still see each other, still play, still have fun, still text each other often.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Its all about what you are looking for, just a laugh or to meet ppl ( playmates or just new friends)I understand what you are saying have pics increase your chances but just take a look around. there are ppl who just join cause they are curious and have no pic and even use the generic template profile to those that put heaps of pics up and are serious swingers. This site covers all of them.As for all the 'Ask me" points in profile they are just too scared in case someone local recognizes them in the street, so they want to be discrete.......otherwise they are just like WIFE2BESHARED cheating etc and the liars always get found out!Yeah Yeah I know I'll get knocked in here for no showing a pic ATM but been here for cpl of yrs now and just havin fun in the forums nowadays
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RHP User
15 years ago
No interest from me at all. I got a message from a guy yesterday saying that if I showed him my face pics .. he will show me his! I mean really how ridiculous is that? He contacted ME and was interested in ME! If I was to send a message to someone that I was interested in I would automatically send my PG with my first message to them! As for people signing up with no pics...I think that they should not be allowed into the chat rooms at all! The amount of guys that "direct" when someone is on cam is unbelievable and around 85% of the time they have no pic up at all! Also on the chat rooms...I think that if people are not looking for fun they should stick to the "Social" chat rooms and leave the "Adult" rooms for the ones that are here to hook up and have naughty playful fun! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree. Pics show what you look like and the profile helps fill in all the shaded bits, plus adds some colors here and there. I guess I will get around one day to putting my pics up. I must confess that while the computer is reasonable easy to master, my camera (alas) is not. And it would be a trifle awkward asking one of the kids, or grandkids to do it for me. I can just see the conversation now, "Hey Granddad, what's this picture of you all naked on this camera?". Oh, the embarrassment of it all. Although one does wonder, do people ever update their pics . PS. I do love these cute little icons, just clicked on by mistake.just call me pops
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah, we're with the majority on this one. Don't bother putting up any photos or info? Then don't expect any response or attention from us! It's not hard to upload a photo or type in a small piece of information about oneself... (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's a filter...I don't mind the "no pic" if there is at least on in a PG as some folks really do worry about and want to feel they are somewhat anonymous. The "ask me" list is a red flag...and a poorly written, templated on near non-existent profile is a full on stop sign. If you can't say something interesting or nice about yourself... | ...who can?
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi,can anyone please let me know how to give access to my pg pics to someone
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok how do you put a photo on if you know jack shit about computer thanks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've found the proportion of truffles amongst the toadstools to be inversely proportional to the amount of detail in my profile. An excedingly sparse page tends to intrigue the few who are likely to enjoy conversation, and leaves me free to do the hunting for myself. That said, I choose the words on that page with care.. I do not like to ignore those who have taken the time to contact me either, so I try to ensure I'm wasting as few people's time as possible. If the lack of information is a deal breaker then I'm happy knowing the filter has worked. I'm accused of being ugly, overweight, and insecure reasonably regularly by people I've politely turned away, simply on the basis of my lack of available information, and I accept it as a part of the process. I'm finding the whole business utterly fascinating because I'm getting a better understanding of how other people tick. I had no idea that women were so visual, or that a semi anonymous night of fun was quite so common. I'm just completely blown away by the spectrum of wants and needs, and the importance placed on each. Unfortunately, what astounds me even more is the lack of acceptance placed on people who are wired differently. Some of us are highly visual, some more cereberal, some operate on pheromones...rather tricky online. Why should it matter what language we use to advertise ourselves? You have the right to ignore a message, you have the right to filter it. You have the right to decline any offer you wish. Judge us as unsuitable by all means but please at least have the decency to be polite about it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've found the proportion of truffles amongst the toadstools to be inversely proportional to the amount of detail in my profile. An excedingly sparse page tends to intrigue the few who are likely to enjoy conversation, and leaves me free to do the hunting for myself. That said, I choose the words on that page with care.. I do not like to ignore those who have taken the time to contact me either, so I try to ensure I'm wasting as few people's time as possible. If the lack of information is a deal breaker then I'm happy knowing the filter has worked. I'm accused of being ugly, overweight, and insecure reasonably regularly by people I've politely turned away, simply on the basis of my lack of available information, and I accept it as a part of the process. I'm finding the whole business utterly fascinating because I'm getting a better understanding of how other people tick. I had no idea that women were so visual, or that a semi anonymous night of fun was quite so common. I'm just completely blown away by the spectrum of wants and needs, and the importance placed on each. Unfortunately, what astounds me even more is the lack of acceptance placed on people who are wired differently. Some of us are highly visual, some more cereberal, some operate on pheromones...rather tricky online. Why should it matter what language we use to advertise ourselves? You have the right to ignore a message, you have the right to filter it. You have the right to decline any offer you wish. Judge us as unsuitable by all means but please at least have the decency to be polite about it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Common sense of fair play is to swap pics..If no pic there is no further convo ! and be recent ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED'No info, ======== MARRIED =======CHEATING ======= USUALLY, Or maybe just plain BUTT ugly, living under the bridge and frightening all the school kiddies walking home from school! That's me. I consider it a public service that I don't show pics. I did have one up once, the requests to withdraw it were numerous and compelling.
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RHP User
15 years ago
But that's what the private gallery is for. I mean if you intend to meet someone then they will see you at some point, can't avoid that one forever really. As to the info I gotta say I know it can be a bit hard but you have to write 100 characters at least and the multple choice options aren't that difficult. It's not like sitting for an exam. At least put in some effort. It doesn't have to be Dostoevsky but say something... But it does help weed out the "no thankyou" profiles.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Fionabee. People have different reasons for not having pics on their profile. Some people may have family. relatives, friends or work colleagues who would not approve of them being on a site like RHP so they are afraid of being recognized. I could cause them all sorts of problems. A fellow RHP member once confided in me that she doesn't have pics because when she did, she was simly getting too many messages and flirts. Just because a profile looks the real deal, it doesn't mean that the person behind the profile is genuine. I almost got scammed by a member on RHP once. We were communicating on another program when she supposedly sent me a photograph of herself. I got suspicious because it was the photograph was of a different woman than the one on the profile.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Damn I really am a newbie - abuse hurled because you choose not to accept an invite????Quoting 'Steeletto' I'm accused of being ugly, overweight, and insecure reasonably regularly by people I've politely turned away, simply on the basis of my lack of available information, and I accept it as a part of the process.Judge us as unsuitable by all means but please at least have the decency to be polite about it.
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