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Pic-less profiles
January 13 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wife has recovered from surgery over last 3 months .....no photos = no interest. So for us no photos was because we could not play....laying low!
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RHP User
15 years ago
sorry for the senseless text! I attempted paragraphs... evidently, I failed.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There. I said it. I'm a shy exhibitionist. Is there any hope? Maybe someone can cure me?HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
or does anyone else think RHP should start selling undies with NEXT! written across the butt?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I imagine some of the photo-less folk just browse profiles and pics for a bit of visual fun and send out flirts? | And maybe our shy exhibitionist is actually in the middle of a sensational photo shoot and he is going launch his new pics tomorrow? | But the ones that puzzle me are the photo-less folk who pay for membership and send out emails, then ask 'why' when told 'no thank you'.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe for some, it is so hard finding that elusive photo on the web to match the description they made up when creating a profile.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have told Kj to stop cleaning the bathroom, and when it gets really grungy then i can take one of those lovely self portrait shots with the flash and all.....lol I mean really if i just went and messed it up it might look a little too contrived, perfection takes time!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka'Maybe for some, it is so hard finding that elusive photo on the web to match the description they made up when creating a profile. Think there could be some truth in that! love it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah. I'm just waiting til the mirror gets enough toothpaste and spit on it so I can also take one of those classy bathroom photos with the toilet seat up in the backgound just to proove I'm really single. No really! Don't take any notice of those perfume bottles and the hair straightener... that's for..... errrr ... Fridays. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Yeah. I'm just waiting til the mirror gets enough toothpaste and spit on it so I can also take one of those classy bathroom photos with the toilet seat up in the backgound just to proove I'm really single. No really! Don't take any notice of those perfume bottles and the hair straightener... that's for..... errrr ... Fridays. Hugs Stalky Come on. Not everyone's a cheater or a liar some child-free grownups really do just like to layer that 'bubblegum' scent by using scooby-doo toothpaste, spongebob shower gel and barbie shampoo!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Wife has recovered from surgery over last 3 months .....no photos = no interest. So for us no photos was because we could not play....laying low! That actually makes sense.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well there may be no of reasons. One is that females demand a fulll face shot where as they might be having a hidden face or neck - toe shot. I had put some body shots without face but everyone wants face in the first go. I am not saying people whould not see who they are clicking on but a face shot at first go is a bit too much to ask for may be. May be face shots should be sent via e-mail only. Secondly a very high percentage of woman mention they only want athletic build guys or six-packers even though they them selves are average or ample. This also makes guys not to put a full body pic if they are average build. So somewhere expectation are also very high, a bit far from reality... may be And then there is this guy issue that even though he is single, people around him should not know that he is looking for women online, if thise people also happen to be on this site. Or may be they will find he is bi-curious or likes BDSM. What will they think of him? I am just being honest. Its difficult for guys to admit these things openly. Thats just my thoughts but YES pics should be there. What kind is what we need to see.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Yeah. I'm just waiting til the mirror gets enough toothpaste and spit on it so I can also take one of those classy bathroom photos with the toilet seat up in the backgound just to proove I'm really single. No really! Don't take any notice of those perfume bottles and the hair straightener... that's for..... errrr ... Fridays. Hugs Stalky I have one of those. LOL. xxx
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SexyArse
15 years ago
if a person doesn't have a pic. I do one of two things. I would either send a message asking for a photo or just delete the message. At the end of the day if I am going to meet someone I will see what they look like eventually. So why not sooner than later. Everyone is attracted to different people, it's what makes the world go round. Who I am not attracted to someone else might be and vise versa. At the end of the day I need a pic and would prefer it to be straight up so I can make an informed decision to accept or decline an invitation to a conversation. Declining someone straight up is less hurtful than doing it down the track after realising there is no physical attraction.Mrs SAOT xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have only recently put photos in my private gallery and i am thinking of taking them off again, this is not because I am fake, shy or anything similar. It is because with pics I get loads of messages and flirts from people who have not read my profile at all. Without pics people read my profile more because, well, there are no pics to distract them. When I put pics up in the private gallery the number of flirts and messages I got tripled mostly from guys with comments like "wanna fuck?". Also without pics I am able to look for what I am wanting and sent flirts or messages to those profile I am interested. It saves me time!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'crazyadonis' Well there may be no of reasons. One is that females demand a fulll face shot where as they might be having a hidden face or neck - toe shot. I had put some body shots without face but everyone wants face in the first go. I am not saying people whould not see who they are clicking on but a face shot at first go is a bit too much to ask for may be. May be face shots should be sent via e-mail only. Secondly a very high percentage of woman mention they only want athletic build guys or six-packers even though they them selves are average or ample. This also makes guys not to put a full body pic if they are average build. So somewhere expectation are also very high, a bit far from reality... may be And then there is this guy issue that even though he is single, people around him should not know that he is looking for women online, if thise people also happen to be on this site. Or may be they will find he is bi-curious or likes BDSM. What will they think of him? I am just being honest. Its difficult for guys to admit these things openly. Thats just my thoughts but YES pics should be there. What kind is what we need to see.....i wasn't just talking about boys, there are pic-less women too...
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RHP User
15 years ago
....ah no...i will not give you access to my private gallery...when you have no pics at all?
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have met one bloke that didnt have a pic and boy did i learn that lesson really quick so now if they wont send me a pic straight off then i dont meet untill i get one and the only messages they get are "where's my pic" i didnt have a pic on here for 6 months but only because i couldnt upload one, for some reason RHP wouldnt let me lol...but i always had one ready to email....some people wont even do that it doesnt have to be a face pic, a pic of any part of you is a good thing at least then we have something to look at roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I remember that we didn't have pics for several months after we first joined because we were computer ignorant and didn't know how to upload them. I suppose I should add that we were so ignorant... we didn't even have any pics on the drive to upload! From that experience we learned that it didn't make a noticeable difference to the number of messages and flirts anyhow lolol.I also remember another RHPer who had troubles uploading a pic for ages... Hugs... Mrs P
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RHP User
15 years ago
and there she is. The RHPer who had so much trouble uploading her pic.Hugs 4 ya Roxxy!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' i have met one bloke that didnt have a pic and boy did i learn that lesson really quick so now if they wont send me a pic straight off then i dont meet untill i get one and the only messages they get are "where's my pic" Alright Roxy. You win. Here's a glistening wet looking thing just for you.... Now.. show me yours! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'TassieRose' i have met one bloke that didnt have a pic and boy did i learn that lesson really quick so now if they wont send me a pic straight off then i dont meet untill i get one and the only messages they get are "where's my pic" Alright Roxy. You win. Here's a glistening wet looking thing just for you.... Now.. show me yours! :pHugsStalky Sit on that! xoxox
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with the notion that no picture implies the person is up to no good, but "No Good" can be interpreted many ways. I think it's still up to each individual to decide who they wish to reply to... even though you potentially get heaps of flirts. The spam is just a part of any online community sadly. Please don't tar us all with the same brush though! Some may have valid reasons for concealing our identity.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh... but I am multiskilled mrssweetiepie... I have been known to rotate! ;pHugsStalky
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
No photo..no reply..no exception!! If you do not want to show yourself then you are not serious!! And if for some reason you are out of the game for a while...just put your profile to invisible.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You win Mrs S!!!Now me, pick me! Hugs... Mrs P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'didsodidnot'I agree with the notion that no picture implies the person is up to no good, but "No Good" can be interpreted many ways. I think it's still up to each individual to decide who they wish to reply to... even though you potentially get heaps of flirts. The spam is just a part of any online community sadly. Please don't tar us all with the same brush though! Some may have valid reasons for concealing our identity. you don't have to reveal your identity at all. I certainly don't so I wouldn't dream of insisting on anyone else having to do so. | is there really not one bit of you or one shirt or pair of jeans in your wardrobe that you could wear in a faceless photograph that wouldn't give the game away?
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SexyArse
15 years ago
I notice that ur married and have the need to be discreet. Does ur wife know??????????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett'No photo..no reply..no exception!! If you do not want to show yourself then you are not serious!! And if for some reason you are out of the game for a while...just put your profile to invisible. I have the same rules myself...for me it doesnt have to be a face pic I just want to get some idea about the person visually that I am responding to..and seriously if you are out of action for awhile become invisible...you can still do everything normally just you dont show in the search...not hard to do really...oh and for me the no pic nor reply concept also works for those with their pics solely in PG or available by email upon request - Give me something to visually work with people.. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Understand that, what we did was say on the first line "Sorry we cant play till end of January" and then put our public photos into the private gallery. We see other couples take this approach quite often its routine. Does RHP make this invisible reccomendation anywhere? How about you place your profile on invisible and you still post etc , and if anyone wanted to see your profile to match up with your posts your entire profile would be zero. That would raise suspicions higher? Besides we met couples while we could not play and plan to play soon, even attended a meet and greet party. By taking our photo off profile views drop to 2-5% so to not muck people around. Another logic line, The persons that have no intention of playing or meeting but are here? Much the same.They should be set to invisible too? We did have photos up on our group profile showing group sex that RHP deleted and reckon we cant do that but thats OK there are other sites that happily take our paid couples profile and a group profile, a bit strange. But that was a long term play plan. Just tossing different reasons and logic around.
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captainkaos
15 years ago
They used to be in the public gallery but the guys who work next door saw them and they were constantly joking and making fun of me. Now, i can take a joke as well as anyone but when it goes on day after day and every day more and more people are told about the fact that i am on RHP and my sexual habits. Then there were the questions every single day. Then........ I am the owner of my own business, now every time i get on the computer, my own staff think that i am on RHP because the rumours spread. No... hang on. It's true. I am always on RHP. lol. Guess what, the people that work around me are really immature and they need to get a life. Needless to say that i got rid of my public photo.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' You win Mrs S!!!Now me, pick me! Hugs... Mrs P Curious jumped in before I could Mrs P ~ damn .. a fella's gotta be fast! Well, at least I got to look up your skirt from afar! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I was in the position of having a certain type of job ie. police, pollie, lawyer, priest, and maybe doctor, then I certainly wouldn't have full faced profile shots. You just can not assume because someone does not have a photo that they are all liars and cheats. And from my experience even the ones that do have photos have at times been known to have fake's on profile, that covers men and women...more so women in some cases.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett'No photo..no reply..no exception!! If you do not want to show yourself then you are not serious!! And if for some reason you are out of the game for a while...just put your profile to invisible.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
OK Badromance...we didn't see your profile..so if you have put in the first line..something about " Out of action" etc well that's OK. What we were mainly meaning were people who message us or send flirts but do not include a photo upfront (just dick & pussy shots aren't acceptable) will get no response especially seeing as we request it in our profile. Also if we are browsing other profiles, ones without photos get immediately passed over. Face shots are preferable but seeing as some people are shy it is not that hard to have a classy pic that may not show full face but at least enough to spark interest. That's not too much to ask....
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RHP User
15 years ago
and now apologise, we think much the same as you guys on photos, some have no idea and we refuse blind dates too. Suppose you have heard the one they cant attach photos to emails, have p/g etc etc , a couple years ago one had us ugrading the mobile phone to recieve photos grrrrrr.... Cheers Quoting 'Donna_Brett'OK Badromance...we didn't see your profile..so if you have put in the first line..something about " Out of action" etc well that's OK. What we were mainly meaning were people who message us or send flirts but do not include a photo upfront (just dick & pussy shots aren't acceptable) will get no response especially seeing as we request it in our profile. Also if we are browsing other profiles, ones without photos get immediately passed over. Face shots are preferable but seeing as some people are shy it is not that hard to have a classy pic that may not show full face but at least enough to spark interest. That's not too much to ask....
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RHP User
15 years ago
...there's fire. People are anonamous because ther're not serious, not genuine(covert), butt ugly or their script for loading pics is corrupted. (and the attractive people who get bombarded and omit by choice) Anyone know of any other reasons?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Tonyerotic' ...there's fire. People are anonamous because ther're not serious, not genuine(covert), butt ugly or their script for loading pics is corrupted. (and the attractive people who get bombarded and omit by choice) Anyone know of any other reasons? nah that cant be right...im butt ugly and i have my pic up i think they just arent genuine...they have no intention of meeting and they never will roxxy
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