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October 10 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
but it's only a first impression kind of thing. I'm guilty of judging very attractive men just as harshly as unattractive ones until I get to know their personality, and if i'm being honest i do think that they probably do have to be a lot more charming and likeable and humble than someone that i gauge about the same level as me. Once i get to know someone tho, they become much more or less physically attractive in my eyes the more I like or hate them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I tend to aim WAY high. Meh...I'm attracted to "pretty" things. That being said, if there's no chemistry we have nothing to work with and the prettiest person in the world is a waste of flesh if they're not a nice person. Good, kind, compassionate, humble, gracious......etc... I think i also see others as a lot more beautiful than they see themselves. Everyone's idea of what's attractive is different. I got spoilt when i played way out of my league when i married my hubby. I still look at him and think "how the hell did I manage that?" 14 years down the line. Sign....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think at first glance we tend to throw back to the old stereotype of what we're trained or pushed to see / think. So we go for what we call, either our equals or better. This is even highlighted via the media these days... prime example, Liz hurly - Shane warne. Media sources and most ppl state, he's '' batting well above his average''. Far as sexually goes, I think we all like to think there's batting at or above our lvl whichever that may be. Again I'd say, purely something brought on by todays society of what we are expected to be like / act like / are.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We do, seeking similar to ourselves. Seeking higher No, just similar Accepting lower? No. So its similar age, size and expectations for both of us.
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RHP User
14 years ago
really good looking people are shithouse in the sack.... therefore I stay clear of them. LOL. Seriously I suppose you are right, but if the connection is there the physical somehow doesn't really come into it. I have been with a few guys that I would say are seriously good looking and the sex was ordinary at best... and I have been with some guys that if I hadn't caught the naughty look in their eye I may not have ordinarily have given them a second look - but the sex was lots of fun and horny as hell. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fully agree with Meeka, then again I'm one of the ugly guys :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
..."Batting out of their League" or something like that? I saw a program on the idiot box some time ago and they were showing random pictures taken of couples walking in public where one of the pair was beautiful and their partner not beautiful. Was kind of cruel but mildly amusing to see such a mis-match as far as looks go. . Me, I like the 500-900Mhz bandwidth with high gain antenna and auto-squelch. What a Frequency!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I believe it's called "Batting out of their league" or something like that. Some ugly dude with a bombshell babe or the reverse. . As for band width, I prefer 600-900Mhz with high gain antenna and squelch. What a frequency!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I posted the same topic about 3 months ago and it surprised me it went on for so long... However at the end of it all, I came to the following conclusions.MOST and I mean most would prefer someone who is at least the same level of attraction as themself, and why not ?WOMEN : Well' it goes without saying they prefer the good looking guys ' but dont mind someone who is a lil rugged.. as long as they're not rough... Women can pick and choose in most cases..GUYS : what can I say.. Even if they look like Godzilla they live in this denial that they look like Brad Pitt.. Definately out to play the numbers game of ' if you throw enough crap up against a wall some of it is libel to stick.. They dont care what they have to do or how much they have to lie to get the attention of a woman.. I've had guys who sent me pic's of themself which made me cringe.. I hate being like that but that only goes to show how we do have a certain expectation...Summary: We know what we want and what it is that attracts us to another person or not.. We probally do drop our expectation on here a little if it's just a sexual liason, but we still want and expect whoever it is to ring our bell somehow.
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RHP User
14 years ago
is my choice... .... all about the connection at the end of tha day... though i just can't connect with really good looking guys..... a nice smile and sexy eyes will always get me. im with meeka on the good looking guys.......no idea how to please a WOMAN..... i find them quite inhibited. I have some of the hottest filthiest sex with Mr Average. The hottest being red heads never was attracted to them but boy they can fuk. Now i'm off to try a 6ft Romani Gypsy...........mmmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have to admit I am attracted to tall ,dark haired guys, oh ....and with great bods ;)But have long ago worked out that a sexy man is so differant to just a man who is good looking! Someones attitude, personaity ,and dress can go a long way to adding up to a very hot guy other than just that 2 x 2 pic we see on the screen ;P
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N4November
14 years ago
Yep, I've batted WAY ABOVE my average many many times and have had to pinch myself to see if I was actually there in the moment hahahaha and I'm very pleased to report that these gorgeous HOT PEOPLE were a fantastic lay!!! Some became FWB's so luckily for me - I wasn't a 'mercy shag' hahah! . I consider myself to be attractively average so look for the same at the very least with new friends. The 'bandwidth' range I bounce between has to have a little depth which includes intelligence, humour and natural shidazzle! And its worked a treat so far!! But never does the 'bullshit' radar turn off!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't go for types or looks. I have had seriously hot guys that were fantastic in bed and some not so good looking guys that were complete duds. Looks mean absolutely nothing when it comes to performance or chemistry. My partner has a slab rather than a six pack but I find him incredibly good looking and sexy anyway. I think it just depends on what we are looking for.
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RHP User
14 years ago
....... is only something ugle people say... I know I might get caned for this comment but oh well... and i agree with mistress T... the fact whether someone is good looking or not has no bearing on whether they can perform or not in the bedroom. Now back to the OP's question... yes I think we are kind of attracted to people that we think are of a similar calibre to ourselves... on rhp i even aim higher than I normally would considering the amount of single guys that are on here... but like previous posters have said... attraction comes in MANY forms and looks alone will never be enough to reel me in.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
"quoteing fleurtatious81" this is only my expereince. Every one has an opinion and thats all it is...... Good luck to you if you have found the hottest amazing attractive guys fabulous in bed..... maybe we are just to good looking them, that they are intimidated or maybe even more experienced
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RHP User
14 years ago
yep I realise this is your experience.. and yes everyone is entitled to thier own opions based on THEIR experience. But saying "good looking ppl are shit in bed" has as much validation as someone saying "all blondes are shit in bed". I have found some amazingly good looking guys amazingly awesome in bed but have also found some to be shit.... but its been exactly the same with guys whos looks I consider to be average as it really is dependant upon the person that matters... not their looks. The exception to this rule ( in my opinion) is the guys that look like they are roided up to the hilts or those that look like they have spent more time on their hair than I ever would. I think its a fairly safe assumption to say that vanity is not an attractive quality in anybody.. and in my opinion those kind of guys I don't consider to be good looking.. I mean its one thing to be buff... another thing to try and impersonate Arnie.... ne ways.. again just my opiion.. xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Am wondering if this question isn't more clearly answered outside the safe cyber shooting zones of RHP - as in if you were in a bar or whatever social scene would you still confidently approach that really good looking guy or girl you see on here...or are obvious physical 'mismatches' compromised by online anonymity & simple supply versus demand on RHP?& I get the - 'if there's no connection it's not happening no matter how good looking' point, but it's the aesthetic shiny stuff that attracts our wandering eyes first before we get to make that judgement. We notice people punching above their weight because it's the exception to the rule, not the norm - however ultimately there must be something in those relationships that binds them together other than equal pairing of genetic blessings - yikes Aldous Huxley is turning in his grave!Also - Shane Warne is a bad mismatch example - the dude has loads of cash, is famous on more than one continent & still clearly knows how to huh-hmm deliver spectacularly...
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