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Perceptions on writers on the forums.
December 13 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
well said Andy it appears that chick is in delusional land, thinks she's a princess & that everyone should think as she does lolshit, if we were all the same, how boring would the forums be?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy and Sal, I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your posts, not that I have always agreed with what you have said but isn't that the whole idea of a forum - to put forward one's own views and thoughts for open discussion? As for the miscreant who wrote to you, for someone to take such umberage and take the time to compose and write to you, then block you tells me one thing, that she is immature (maybe not in years but in manners and intelligence) and very insecure. Anyone who has read one of your posts would realise that you would naturally respond, and to block you just shows that whilst they can give criticism, they sure as hell can't receive it! Keep up the good work.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Allways do a block test before handcrafting a novel! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
andy, ignore the idiots and carry on as you have been. your posts are funny, thought provoking and somewhat educational. both myself and the minister for war and finance ( my better-looking half young2swing) enjoy reading your work. to quote leesa,,,,, "you guys rock!" awaiting your next post, adrian
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol, maybe I'm also a tosser with my head up my arse (tight squeeze, but with a bucket of lube, success!!), but, I can't think of anything that was oh so terribly shallow... I can't complain about the shameless self-promotion Mr CI swinger of the year - cause I don't often check the amateur pix, and that was quite a set (bravo Sal, Andy, and anonymous) (erm, I mean, no, I didn't look, as per directions)I understand the point of the block feature, but it'd be nice if it let one message through afterwards - just so you had some right of reply.short answer: go back to banterring away! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't tone it down Andy. I wouldn't know what to do if I didn't have your daily banter to read and it just wouldn't be the same if you toned it down. Blocky girl, Andy is right, you have perceived him one way purely by reading the forums. Off the forums we have found him to be friendly, open and quite amusing. Both he and Sal are gorgeous people, don't knock them because you may not agree with what Andy has to say in his own unique manor. Right, I'll hop off my soap box now. Back to you Andy. Ali
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RHP User
16 years ago
< Salnandy.....smile at the critiics, they are so much fun. That is what forums are about guys, honesty and opiinions....if some cant take it. they simply should not read them, so speak up in the forum and state your case. I think many people have been helped by some of the forums on here, i know with the depression one i recieved many many emails and messages and still do from lovely rhp'ers that suffered like i did, and thanking me for being honest and letting people know that i too have had depression and bad times in my life, and there is a light that can be seen at the end of the darkness. It is a great way to talk about our issues with others support, if some dont like it, it is simple, as we were told in school. "if you havent got something nice to say about someone, simply dont say it". Kisses Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy composed a reply back to this rhp'er and then asked me to read over it before he hit send. In his message he apologised for offending and said he would tone down his forums...Noooo is said. Much like DrinAli. I am the other half and I don't always, infact, hardly ever agree with Andy. Lol, however he has the right to speak his mind and share his views. Couple or not we are still individuals. It interested me that I have never seen this person in question post in the forums. There is ample opportunity for her to reply to our posts in the public forums. As for rejecting our message to her. A simple no thanks, you are not what I am looking for would have been fine. In someways she is lucky it was Andy she criticised and not me, I wanted to call the is particular forum topic "So who is the one with their head up their own arse??" I welcome all who disagree with what Andy and I write in these forums to challenge us when they do not agree. Infact I encourage it. I have learnt so much about myself and the lifestyle reading everyones posts in these forums. Andy I think you should be thrilled that your posts have such a profound affect on readers. To stirr such emotion in even one reader of your posts...well I would take her response as a compliment. xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey you guys, love reading your posts... its totally upfront.. and thats the way it should be... none of this pussy footy around like some do.We have had msg's sent to us (one was from a guy who had attended one of our parties then we wrote to him to inform him as to why this person was not welcome back to our parties & gees was he rude about it when it was his own fault) and then you have others msg you, when you reply it wont go... and you gotta think, why send a msg and then block a person - or even have their mailbox locked??? What is the point.Had a couple send us a wink, we wrote to them (thinking hey they had read our profile) giving full info, then get a msg back saying, oh we have re-read your profile and its not for us ... We tried to respond to say, hey thats fine.. but yep we were blocked??? WTFRather than responding to say Thanks but no thanks (as I have my reasons).. they bombard you with total rudeness.SalAndy... keep saying it like it is.... The majority like it, the minority will always stay behind closed doors.I suppose each to their own.Kaz (Partyinsatiable).... I am the one who usually writes in these forums on here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dont tone it down, say what you feel and everyone can just read it, and if they dont like it.....stuff em..is my attitude. Forums are for us to write down our thoughts and topics that we feel are important and we want to share with others. There are a great deal of forums on here that have helped many people and given others a real good look into the scene. Keep on keeping on guys, and dont let any negatives get you down. If that was the case i would be on a permanent holiday in France...pmsl...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I get straight boring people telling me to Grow up and stop being a smartass fairly regularly but then i look at them and their lives or outlooks on life and think.. hahah...poor fools, they just dont have a SOH or know what fun is... relax!! loosin up people..we arnt here for wives or husbands...just laughs and play. and remember ...this IS a forum...where people DO give their opinions. Of course you arnt going to agree with them all..but let them have their say Neo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Andy. Remember my reaction to your first post..... :) We love you bebe... sometimes outragiously outspoken people are misunderstood hehe. Dont go changin' to try and please me... dont change the colour of your hair... hehe. Hugs Billy... aka Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nah.. that was stupid of me.. I didnt mean the dud root comment. What's worse than a Male Chauvinist Pig? A woman who won't do what she's told. :p Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gaz, you never fail to bring a smile to my face over my morning cup of tea. Love it. Ali
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RHP User
16 years ago
I conur with whats already been said you guys have just as much right to use freedom of speach.and if a few people cant be bothered to see your point of view...they might likely be the same way with others.then their are ones that have only one view..their own.So for me the opinions / experiences are a great insight on how people feel and think which can mean peace of mindand a comfort..knowing one isnt on their own..xoxoheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't stop in the forums!! I was told this in another forum... I nearly locked my profile the other day..Getting sick of sick or dumb messages by those that cannot read and respect my profile requests..sighhhhhhhhhhh... Then I stepped back and decided I wouldn't cause my friends would not be able to message me. I too love reading your posts..Honesty with fun banter..I admire your open minds and love and devotion for each other......something I envy ( positive envy)...and hope that I would find a lovely, fun, compassionate partner like Andy. Keep up the banter, informative topics... huggies and Merry Xmas.. sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy, We love you for being 'out there' but there are obviously some people that don't - thats life. You are just giving her air time that she doesn't deserve. Just ignore (and get used to rejections - the single men may be able to help with this) Regards Mr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was just looking at Andy's first thread after reading his new one about their Hot Pic set over the weekend. Just keeps bringing to mind... 'we've come a long way baby'... and that was only a few short months ago... Congrats... Sal & Andy... last I looked you were 1st! Merry Christmas... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Welcome to my world!!!!!!!! I have this happen a lot and it makes me realise that a lot of people read the forums but don't have the guts to reply and give their opinion. They would rather just write directly to me and then block me so i cant reply anyway. Don't worry about it, I dont. They are just gutless people who are too scared to say what they think on here as they don't want others to read their opinions as to what they really think.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh FFS - tell the woman to get a life... in our professional lives we need to put on a professional face and attitude and hold our tongues... these forums is the ONE place that I've felt right at home in being able to read and respond to others without fear of the face I put on. Keep up the honest guys - it's what we all need to encourage from ALL of us... Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeh... she has gone about voicing her opinion on you the wrong way, but you can't please all the people all the time. So she doesn't really like you or thinks you are shallow... there are people all through life who wont fancy you so much or think you're a dickwad or a stuck up bitch or whatever, but they will usually just keep it to themselves and nod and smile at you. Yes, RHP is only 5% of you, but it's the only 5% of you that she knows, and she has based her opinion on that. If this is the first personal attack you have experienced through RHP then I reckon you are doing pretty well. Cheers, T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy here - Thank you all so much. You are all wonderful and this whole experience has given me food for thought. Gaz is correct though when we first butted heads on the forums it wasn't pretty. For a recap, I asked a question about genital photos as profile pics, he thought I was up my own arse and a prude!!! BUT he also explained to me what it was I needed to know (that he was a cheeky exhibitionist). And we made friends and now, honestly if I was to meet him, I might just be tempted to give him that prostate exam. We sorted out our differences and what a great fantastic man he is. I don't know why but that message did hit hard with me. I was the first negative aspect or personal attack I had ever encountered by a stranger. Usually people have to get to know me to hate me, (okay that was a joke!) . I went to bed leaving poor Sal hanging, and i had this dream that I was dying but it was in this movie and as I died the final bars of 'Fuck me like an animal' were playing. The sort of physiologic piano countdown (about 5.52 into the song if you get the right version) .. that's what I died too. Of course I only hear that song when I'm in C.I so even in when i'm pissed off and thinking about death I'm horny!! Is that weird? :P P.S If you're really curious go to utube,search for 'Nine Inch Nails - I wanna fuck you like and animal (new view = lyrics '... listen to the whole song ... then 15 secs imagine this your life as a movie and this being the final scene.
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RHP User
16 years ago
SalAndy if that was your first negative message or personal attack, then you are doing extremely well. count your blessings and be thankful you never met.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Who Cares ! . Say your piece ..>> this is not facebook .. caught up with the tweens ..albiet some may think so .. # Enjoy your comments and thought provocation . Luv it . Nuthing wrong with an occasional persona blow up .. . >> we are all human .. geez the variety of opinions is great & has got me and others involved ; a chance to explore ... What is Hot for some people (right now) won't create interest with others . Tolerance & respect of differences works . Funny thing is .... the shoe invarialbly ends up on the other foot at some time .. & not your partner's girlfriend .. haha .. The ability to laugh at oneself and With others without taking it 'all too seriously' has Merit .. Still working on the Ability part though .. - just musing - methinks ! :) Let it Rip & say it loud ..
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RHP User
16 years ago
on one of your threads i think...to say that i admire your sexual liberation and freedom is an understatement...enjoy your posts...it is great to see a couple who are both confident yet considerate...but can also see how some men (and women) would be so, so jealous of your sexual confidence...it's a shame that we can't please everyone all the time...but you guys have lots of fans on here...wishing you an awesome christmas and new yearcheers...Jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
some ppl take the internet way too seriously. so leave this person in the "salty lady" category and move on. im sure it's water off a duck's back anyway... i mean, ur consistently winning at rhp and winning new fans on the regular. keep on trucking.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy. From what I've seen, you aren't shallow. You do have your head up your arse tho. Funny thing is.. most people would say the same about me... (and they're probably right) BTW the song is called 'Closer' by Nine Inch Nails. Definitely best stripping song ever. Followed very closely by 'Cherry Lips' by Garbage.
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