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People who list themselves as 'very attractive'

January 18 2011

Having been on rhp now for several months I have begun to realise that there are quite a few people, (especially men) who list themselves as very attractive and having checked out their pictures I find myself asking, "are they serious or is it a joke that I'm just not getting?" I am well aware of the irony of the fact that I have listed myself as attractive but don't have pictures to back up my claim but seriously does anyone else look through people's profiles and think you must be kidding?? Sorry if this is a rather whingey post but it's just something that has come to my attention and actually makes me laugh at some people's high opinions of themselves. And yes I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I think most people in society can agree what very attractive is within reason. Look forward to your thoughts ladies and gentlemen. Thanks

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think its a purely subjective assessment, hence why I'd never describe myself as good looking or ugly, just average. That said I have had people comment that I am a good looking guy but that is their assessment. I take it as a compliment and use it for an ego boost when you're feeling a bit down. A photo to let someone make their own judgement is always best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Looks are so subjective anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's is definatly a confidence thing and you are right, there are some who really have no idea. Hey, I may be one of those deluded individuals :p but being confident is better than putting yourself down I say. I mean who wants to get together with people who have no self-esteem. Be confident and happy just being you ;) we all come in diferent shapes, sizes and colour. And it's all good Corey xxx

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    15 years ago

    As soon as I read the forum title, I burst out in laughter! I couldn't wait to see what you had to say.. I'm a bitch too I couldn't agree more with you, and what everyone else has said. I let 'you' be the judge on mine. But I must say, I have been very dissapointed in the past, after seeing peoples photo's in a PG. Reading 'Very Attractive' on their profiles, NOT of course that I'm only attracted to very attractive people, and then being let down seeing people whom in some cases, I would struggle to call 'Average', let alone 'Attractive'!? 'I' would call stunning, 'model/moviestar' types were 'Very Attractive'..? Good for 'them', these RHP people thinking they are very attractive, but it is, or can be misleading, and I'm sure is the cause of people being rejected. Get rid of the "looks" part I say...No one is going to meet anyone these days without seeing a photo, are they? Let us decide!? Oh! I have had this conversation with a female RHP friend, just speaking of confidence....My friend told me, she doesn't care what they look like, or have to say, she won't read any further if she see's a 'Very Attractive! I'm not quite that bad, but admit I do have a little chuckle to myself "Oh ho hooo, very attractive huh, I gotta see this!?" heheheee... And, I did have a couple profile for a while on here. Another friend read it and the M half had "Very Attractive" ( although he is rather attractive ), and I had "See my photo". She called just to take the piss, and to tell me I should change it! So there you go biguyforcock, you are not alone....it seems alot of us are also thinking "Are you serious???".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Biguy.....I think, well i know ALOT of it has to do with "BLIND PRIDE" but i can and have certainly seen what you're saying with this, but i think more than just blind pride, it's a thing where with something/somewhere like this site, people here big or small, pretty or plad think that they are beautiful, cute, handsome.....STUDLY, and some of you even most of you actually are, which is always and forever going to interpreted as either ignorance, cockiness and even, THE TRUTH, which with alot of you inwhich whom i have seen photos of, the truth that is, and there's what they ( bullshitters and people with a case of blind pride), think should be put on here to see and hoping if that's going to get them any closer to getting what they want out of this site.....Obviously meaning a good fuck..... And that is what i think it comes down to really..... PLAYFULGUY.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It seems that people's perceptions can involve an incredible range of deviation from the norm...less subjective but probably more of a problem is how some people could possibly call their physique "slim" or "average". When I see how some people describe themselves, I always think of the Simpsons episode when Homer is standing in front of the mirror, seeing himself buff and making his nipples dance in time to his tune...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks for all the comments guys, was nice to get your feedback. And just for the record tank_girl think you should change your looks to very attractive cracking arse too btw.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'tank__girl' As soon as I read the forum title, I burst out in laughter! I couldn't wait to see what you had to say.. I'm a bitch too I couldn't agree more with you, and what everyone else has said. I let 'you' be the judge on mine. But I must say, I have been very dissapointed in the past, after seeing peoples photo's in a PG. Reading 'Very Attractive' on their profiles, NOT of course that I'm only attracted to very attractive people, and then being let down seeing people whom in some cases, I would struggle to call 'Average', let alone 'Attractive'!? 'I' would call stunning, 'model/moviestar' types were 'Very Attractive'..? Good for 'them', these RHP people thinking they are very attractive, but it is, or can be misleading, and I'm sure is the cause of people being rejected. Get rid of the "looks" part I say...No one is going to meet anyone these days without seeing a photo, are they? Let us decide!? Oh! I have had this conversation with a female RHP friend, just speaking of confidence....My friend told me, she doesn't care what they look like, or have to say, she won't read any further if she see's a 'Very Attractive! I'm not quite that bad, but admit I do have a little chuckle to myself "Oh ho hooo, very attractive huh, I gotta see this!?" heheheee... And, I did have a couple profile for a while on here. Another friend read it and the M half had "Very Attractive" ( although he is rather attractive ), and I had "See my photo". She called just to take the piss, and to tell me I should change it! So there you go biguyforcock, you are not alone....it seems alot of us are also thinking "Are you serious???". Because honestly i think you atleast should put "attractive", SERIOUSLY.....You are most certainly quite the looker, face wise, and your body is quite a beautiful site to seeee, i must admit i've looked at your pics a couple of times now.....Gorgeous face and Super Sexy Body hun..... PLAYFULGUY.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Very Attractive = I have a big ego, I think Im f'ing good actually... see! (I wont contact these people usually)Attractive = Im proud about what Ive got (if your profile reads really well I might message u but Ill expect that you think you probably wont reply)Average = Im comfortable but you be the judge, a compliment would probably be appreciated (this is where you find the good balance between attractive people with well rounded characters and attitudes in my short experience here)Below average = I see people around me and wish I had their looks or Ive had a bad experience in the past with being mocked for how I look. (a great place to go for wholesome discussion and depending on the attitude these people can actually turn out to be incredibly sexy)thats just how I read it in very very basic terms...LS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well I downplay my awesome good looks and prop up Mrs Pup's ego in our profile, I don't want her to start thinking she's punching above her weight :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Tank Girl, Some lovely pics you have there, I like the 'see my photo' selection, there is plenty to see and I dare say most will be very happy with what they see. Puppy, mate I hope you have your tongue firmly in your cheek in that last post. :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    what I read that, I give up. Those people usually cant see past the face/body. I'm not willing for my fragile ego to try and be what I'm not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Nah mate, my tongue is firmly planted between Mrs Pups legs :)