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PAPER BAG

May 30 2010

I just checked out a profile! that had looked at mine! OMG It made me sad! It was a woman! Plus size! she says shes average looks nothing a paper bag wont fix! Why would u write this??? No self esteem maybe & then goes on to mention shes a good fuck! at least theres some confidence lol, well I think this is sad! she will get some guys take advantage of her they will see an easy fuck!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have a friend who always thought she didn't have a pretty face, until one day a few of us chipped in and bought her a makeover and photoshoot for her birthday. I can't tell you how much it did for her self-esteem when we all went out to celebrate, and she was the most surprised of all when a guy started chatting her up at the bar. Maybe that's all it takes. But you're right Jensta, there will be plenty of guys that will just see her as a receptacle for their cum, and not as a person, and that would be sad indeed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    maybe its her way of having a joke, i take the piss outta myself all the time lol v-man

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I don't think I would spend a lot of time trying to analyze profiles too seriously as to "assume" anything? We know what that does... ass-u-me. Could just be a ribald sense of humour or a way to say that regardless of social dictates, she could be a lot of fun? Who knows...and I doubt that it would either inspire or motivate too many guys to act out in ways they are not going to any way? Could be wrong and never make assumptions. | Oh well...to each their own and maybe she is a "half bottle" or "2 six pack" sort of night on the town...but at least you know what to expect and where the starting line has been drawn. Not a thing wrong with patent honesty. | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there is someone for everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm a plus size and I can totally understand the low self esteem stuff... but I think if you're going to sign up on RHP then you need to have the right attitude because this place could knock out the little confidence you might have left if you take it too seriously... plus size or not. There is alot of gaming playing, messing about, time wasting and dishonesty on here... but then you can meet someone and have the most amazing time. It is very easy to consider other people's actions as a reflection of what they might think of you, but it's not the smartest move and generally it's not real. I think the key is to not sacrifice yourself and what is important to you as you go for the RHP ride and to just be open to the possibilities that this experience can bring to your life. I have read previous forum discussions were some BBW have commented about being good enough to fuck but not good enough for girlfriend material... I somewhat agree but then again, the last place I'd come to find myself a boyfriend is RHP!!! hahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I can understand everyone's comments. I hope men wouldn't sleep with anyone just for the hell of it. I think that would be very sad for both concerned. I know that some people describe themselves as less attractive with average bodies because they don't want to attract superficial people. I have also heard that men will forgo a face for a nice body." you dont look at the mantle piece while your stoking the fire". It would be interesting to see what men thought about that and also if they would sleep with someone they weren't attracted to for the sake of having sex. Don't suppose they hang around for a cuddle afterwoods and never make another date. Lol. I personally would never want to be in the situation where someone slept with me for the sake of getting a bit. I also would never take one for the team and sleep with someone I wasn't attracted too. I would rather sleep with my vibrator who I might add has no personality at all than wake up wanting to chew my arm off! Miss K

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My nick is piss take of the phrase "ruggedly handsome" and mine suggests a bit weather beaten. She's probably just having a joke around, doubt we need to be organising therapy on her behalf :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well, she is a good root and there's nothing wrong with being honest about it. As for the paper bag ... we all have our little kinks... a little bit of assfixiation .. there's a whole thread on it... some people like to be choked.. some like a ball gag... .I prefer to wear ladies undies on my face.... a paper bag is pretty tame so far as kinks go isn't it? Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We lived for three months in a paper bag in a septic tank. We used to have to get up at six in the morning, clean the paper bag, eat a crust of stale bread, go to work down t' mill, fourteen hours a day, week-in week-out, for sixpence a week, and when we got home our Dad would thrash us to sleep wi' his belt. And you try and tell the young people of today that ..... they won't believe you. lol... Is it possible that someon may stretch the truth for the sake of a little humor?? As it has been suggested above, some of the profiles in RHP are just having a little laugh at themselves too... We certainly hope this is the case this time.. Keep smiling and having fun.. Mr and Mrs Av.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'MrandMrs_Average' We lived for three months in a paper bag in a septic tank. We used to have to get up at six in the morning, clean the paper bag, eat a crust of stale bread, go to work down t' mill, fourteen hours a day, week-in week-out, for sixpence a week, and when we got home our Dad would thrash us to sleep wi' his belt. And you try and tell the young people of today that ..... they won't believe you. when i was growing up, we were so poor that the only time I had meat was when i bit my tongue !!!!And i had to walk to work through 10' high drifts of snow with no shoes, and only shorts and a t-shirt to keep me warm...sheesh...and the young 'uns of today complain..??? pfttttjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yeah im hoping she is just making fun of herself....you cant really tell from a profile look at mine....never swore so much ever...its only a part of who i am so maybe she is just fooling...well i hope so anyway dont you just wish on these things sometimes the owner of the profile would speak up and tell us why haha roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I get really sad when I see people with low self esteem! Its like I want to go fix it! maybe a make over! I think everybody has some Beauty!!! If they were to see it them self it would shine through!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    thats cause your a beautiful person inside and out xx maybe she is like a lot of others that just make fun of themselves...i do it all the time lol she probably thought it was funny at the time when she wrote it but i do wish she would come on here to put your mind at ease roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Jensta you are correct EVERYONE has beauty if only other people take the time and see it .I am a big guy I have a heart and feelings yet I seem like many like me to be treated as an ugly person one to whom no sane woman would like to be seen in the company of for fear of being ridiculed by her friends who I am sure consider them selves one of the beautiful people(a image created by media and fashion houses world wide)Its of no wonder that we make disparaging remarks about ourselves it is mostly a defense mechanism to combat the views of the unenlightened those who believe we are sub human because of our size or physical appearance.this i believe stems from our childhood taunts in the playground and unfortunately as many grow older in appearance their minds remain in primary school mode Regards profataka CHRIS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Roxy I not Perfect! But I love to look the best I can! Im am a girly GIRL! I like to dress up! Love make up! nails & sexy shoes! & lingerie! xxx