RHP

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Our first year in this lifestyle

December 07 2017

It was this time last year that we finally decided to put our fantasies into play and what a ride. Starting out bumpy on my behalf (husband) New I would be jealous but wasn't ready for the amount from the first meet for a mfm but we were lucky the guy was a top notch bloke and my wife and I worked through my jealousy by talking a lot. Then a couple and that went fine no fireworks but fun enough and made us want to pursue a lot more. After that it's been nearly every month a swingers club or a couple over or a male and we have grown and grown. Never felt so comfortable in our own skin and just had a night wth a wild couple who we have clicked with and are becoming friends so all in all it's been amazing. Reason for this post is newbies or first timers just talk with your partner about the jealousy about the feelings you have and once your through all the early stuff it's amazing!!! Good luck and thanks for the journey. Love the forums too I am a lurker hardly ever talk but they always make me laugh!!! Cheers, - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Awesome! 👍🏻

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    to see you worked through it ,communication is so important and not just when things are going well ,anyone can do that, but it’s awesome when you have the capability and capacity to work through stuff when it gets tough. that shows a great partnership ,well done to you both ,enjoy your travels through all things sexy mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks for sharing something positive 👍👍

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    What you described are my setiments exactly ? Jealousy is a tricky one to get around at first ' but only because you care for your wife and have a natural urge to protect her.. The day you realised the only way to successfully pursue the lifestyle was to accept it for what it is.. a lifestyle choice that you both enjoy... As a husband who originally organised a successful straight MFM for my now ex wife .. and then on the other side of the fence as a bull , I can vouch for the amazing time everyone gets to experience once the jealousy issues are out the way.. I always insist on a meet over a coffee before the event because there were a few couples I meet' I felt wer'nt quite ready. But when you click , the skies the limit as you know ... Great post with a honest account of how it should be done ...👍. 🤗

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A single person but loved to hear that you are enjoying your time and working through issues as they arise and not just ignoring them. Well done 😉 It is also so nice to see a couples profile pic showing you as an actual couple. What a happy, couple you seem to be too. Good to see xx

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    matches your post.. up front and honest.. 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah we are what we say on the profile and growing in this world has giving us a better understanding which is amazing!!! Onwards and upwards 2018!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sounds like you had an adventurous fun year

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Great story, love it when people are happy 😘 xxx

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    You acknowledge that its not always an easy path...but even more awesome to hear you worked and talked your way through it! Hope you have many more fun times ahead. Thanks for such a postive post 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Awesome! Bring on 2018!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    What a good looking couple. I liked reading your blog, but im unsure yet if I could do that.Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nice to read a success story close to home. Seems everyone in the big cities meet for something taboo but it's still just that in outlying areas. Havenalook: plenty of time but don't dive straight into the deep end. If you have doubts, try the coffee or beers date. It will ease you into actually meeting a guy or couple with no pressure to play. - Posted from rhpmobile