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Organising a private party
December 18 2022
Big events can be amazing just tough to break the ice.
Am thinking mostly couples, say up to 5, possibly some singles.
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Blueyesxxx
2 years ago
Hmmm, having not organised an event I can’t speak from experience. But I would have thought that first step would be adding an event here, being specific on what you want, don’t want etc. I’m sure that many would be interested. It then a matter of filtering the responses down to those that you think could be suitable. I would then recommend speaking to the shortlist and see what you feel after that,
MrandMrsEss
2 years ago
We become stupidly shy at public social events. Private parties would be great although having less people to potentially match with could have some sitting in the corner.
Some ideas to make it easier for those who are raring to go but shy:
- Maybe invite a few couples you have partied with and enjoyed and get them to bring another couple/single who they have played with and enjoyed of course. This could be expanded over time by keeping a little database of a survey of who wants to meet again with who. You could then focus many parties tailored to different peoples tastes!
- could do above as public meet and greets and full play parties.
Hmmm I reckon I’m in a winner here haha
Opalrose
2 years ago
We used to run lots of smaller parties from our home, usually 5-7 couples, a single guy and a couple single girls.
Sometimes we went bigger and had 25-30 people.
We started by only inviting people we had already met at other events. After doing that a couple times we allowed people if someone we met vouched for them.
Once, and only once, did we invite people we didn’t know. This was our craziest party, both good and bad. Everyone played. But a door got broken, a towel rail ripped off the wall, condoms left on beds, underwear everywhere, an ornament was stolen, our oven got scratched, and no one pitched in to help with the cleanup. Seeing four single girls all playing together almost made up for it though 😜
We moved homes after that, and no longer had the facilities (sauna, 20+ seater spa, 14 seat bar, 20 seat couch and 120” tv, neighbourless outdoor area, outdoor toilets, and gated ‘compound’), so we stopped hosting.
Give strict arrival and ending times. Rules need to be made very clear. Invite people you know or people who can be vouched for.
Sawadee
2 years ago
The few meet and greets we attended we found it very hard to click with couples we met up with... lf Mrs S didnt feel it ' or l didnt feel any attraction ' had us sitting on the sidelines.. Not that we're snobs ' far from it .. but we do take care of ourselves and with Mrs S being a very attractive woman which l like to think l compliment , we had no problem meeting ppl' just couldnt find the right mix.. Reading some of the above posts ' seems we're not the only one's who found this.. Appears its alot harder than some would think ... good luck nightingale..
FeistyFatty
2 years ago
My best advice.... DON'T invite people you don't know and haven't "sampled" first hand. Nothing worse than that awkward moment that an invited guest turns out to be a complete social and sexual potato.
Start with 5-8 couples and some added Bi males (that is always our preference) and work up from there after you've thrown a few get togethers.
Be safe and have fun xxRHP User
2 years ago
@opalrose Woah, sounds brutal.
From my experience, it can be a bit of minefield finding the right chemistry with couples factoring multiple personalities - can be a little hit & miss 1:1 right?
Here's a thought... what if you started with a night out, group dinner date where you get to test the waters get to know one another and test the chemistry without the added drama of do we click + boundaries.
You might invite six and come away with two or three that you all each connect with.
Have fun, then bring them into your plan and progressively expand the circle with more dinner dates until you have your inner circle. Just thought..RHP User
2 years ago
We have organised private parties at our place. Invite only to couples we have met. It's our house and no strangers are coming obviously. Also we assess if they will connect with other couples. We have accepted couples who were personally known and trusted by couples we knew. Group Size 3-7 couples. It's in our house and space is limited. All have been successful as people got on socially. And when it came to the naked fun time everyone willingly took part as they trusted each other. Different shapes and sizes: didn't matter. Just people enjoying each other's company. Bottom line - couples who trust each other and can socialise comfortably and much as the sexy dimension.
luvsilver
2 years ago
We have hosted a few private parties over the years ( not lately though)
We rented an apartment in the city that had no security or parking issues.
The average was approx 6 couples and 3 or 4 single men and women. Most of the people that came were people we had chatted to previously but not met.
Mrs Luv catered with way too many snacks/finger food as she always does and we has plenty of water and soft drinks with the attendees bringing their own alcohol.
We were so lucky with the mix of people that attended. It wasn’t one big orgy. Started with everyone chatting , drinks and getting to know each other then people just started drifting upstairs in twosomes, threesomes, foursomes, whatever which later spread to the whole apartment including kitchen. There was no pressure on anyone to get naked or do anything but everyone had an awesome time.
Yes, in the morning there was a mess to clean up, a few used condoms, fake tan on the sheets and a pair of knickers left behind but screen and get the right people - you won’t regret it.
Mr Luvsilver
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